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Coupled. Through the Tough Times
February 18, 2010 Posted in Relationships
Back when Matt and I were first dating, I had only known him for about three weeks when he got food poisoning. His roommate took him to the ER for treatment, but he had to go back the next day for dehydration. He asked me to see if his friend who lived across the hall from me would take him, but I told him to stop being so proud and that I would take him. He later told me that that was one of the nicest things I’d ever done, especially for not knowing him for very long.
Flash forward to now, and I still want to take care of him. Everything from helping him with his laundry to more serious stuff like going to therapy. Matt and I have been through a lot of tough times, and I’m glad to say that we’re still together and still going strong. We have our weak moments just like everyone else, but one of the true signs of a real relationship is staying with each other through the bad times, not just the good. Anybody can go with you to the party, but a man who really loves you will hold your hair while you’re puking.
Relationships have to be built on trust and love, and if that’s not there, then someone in the relationship is bound to be unhappy. You should want to be each other’s strengths when the other seems to be running out. You should want to lean on the other person when you can’t go it alone. And there’s nothing better than knowing you’ve got all of that if you ever need it.
If I didn’t have Matt around I’d probably have been a mess when my parents moved across the country. But no matter how much I miss them, it’s hard to feel like my family left me when I have him around.
I just know that no matter what it is, I will be there for him and he’ll be there for me. If he has to take a pill every day for the rest of his life, I’ll be there with a glass of water. If it gets to the point where we want to start a family I know he’ll be in the delivery room with me while I’m screaming my head off (and probably yelling at him for doing that to me). I love him and I’ll do just about anything to keep him healthy and happy. When you are in a relationship, it really shows your partner’s character when they stick with you during the really crappy times. It’s nice to not to have to go through the hard days alone.
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Kenzie says:
Thu, 18th Feb 20105:42 pm
I totally understand what you mean. My boyfriend and I go to different schools, and I can't help but worrying about him!
Love is funny that way
Allison says:
Thu, 18th Feb 20106:30 pm
I just want to say that your Coupled articles are some of my favorites on this site! Having been in an exclusive relationship for nearly 4 years, I think you write about really relatable stuff for those of us who aren't single. Keep it up!
And as for taking care of each other- I agree! I think knowing that person is relying on you as much as you rely on them is one of the best feelings in the world.
Liza says:
Thu, 18th Feb 20107:11 pm
Funny timing for this article. I was sick yesterday and just started dating this guy. He was supposed to come see me yesterday and I told him I didn't want him to get sick. Well, he said if he got sick by seeing me, it'd be worth it. So he drove all the way out here with soup and grilled cheese for dinner. Sweet? I think so. Especially since we've only been on three dates. Anyways, homeboy took it to an unnecessary level when he still wanted kisses and to cuddle on the bed. That is not required;however, I think it was so sweet he came and brought me soup.
Kay says:
Thu, 18th Feb 20109:34 pm
This is such a sweet article! Now I only have to find someone that fits that description…
Tara says:
Fri, 19th Feb 20106:00 am
I can relate to this article completely! A few weeks ago, my boyfriend of three years stayed over at my apartment, and my toilet overflowed while it was, uh, full. I started panicking, but instead of being annoyed, he took over cleaning completely–mopped up the floor, washed the rugs and towels, AND cleaned the toilet. That practically made me fall in love with him all over again–it was so unexpected, so terribly sweet of him, that I couldn't help being completely awed by it.
Anonymous says:
Fri, 19th Feb 20107:09 am
Earlier this week i was sick and puking at least twice an hour. My boyfriend, who had 4 friends up for the week, devoted himself to getting me better, even though he rarely sees his friends. It goes both ways though. Whenever he is sick, or has anxiety attacks, I feel it is important to help him and be there than anything else.
Fiona says:
Fri, 2nd Jul 20106:34 am
I've been feeling so sad and down ever since my boyfriend went to Korea for 2 months. Regardless I've been doing my best to make myself not miss him as much and to keep a positive mind set. After reading most of your articles, you have really sparked many sweet and sour memories that my boyfriend and I went through. I enjoy reading your articles and knowing that there's always hope for a great relationship when both sides are willing to work on it. Keep up the great work!
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