Comments on: Ask a Dude: Is He Shy or Not Into Me? http://collegecandy.com/2010/07/28/ask-a-dude-is-he-shy-or-not-into-me/ Advice on student style, collegiate dating discussion guides, relationship advice and women's studies. Sat, 26 May 2012 14:05:51 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.com/ By: Ask A Dude: How Do I Handle a Shy Guy? : College Candy http://collegecandy.com/2010/07/28/ask-a-dude-is-he-shy-or-not-into-me/#comment-114987 Wed, 15 Dec 2010 21:01:05 +0000 http://collegecandy.com/?p=68200#comment-114987 [...] I’ve been a shy guy. I know shy guys. I’ve been frenemies with shy guys. They’re out there and they’re f@&king frustrating! [...]

]]> By: Single. And Liking a Boy : College Candy http://collegecandy.com/2010/07/28/ask-a-dude-is-he-shy-or-not-into-me/#comment-95029 Fri, 27 Aug 2010 20:01:59 +0000 http://collegecandy.com/?p=68200#comment-95029 [...] that it’s all I can think about) that I hate most about being a single girl. The not knowing whether or not he’s even slightly interested is throwing me for a loop. I feel like I’m back in middle school where I just want to find [...]

]]> By: Ask a Dude: How Do I Know if He Likes Me? : College Candy http://collegecandy.com/2010/07/28/ask-a-dude-is-he-shy-or-not-into-me/#comment-91863 Wed, 11 Aug 2010 20:01:17 +0000 http://collegecandy.com/?p=68200#comment-91863 [...] kiss you. Some guys don’t have the courage to make the first move (see my previous article: “Is He Shy or Not Into Me” for further reading on that subject) but will hint it by way of doing platonic little gestures [...]

]]> By: AnotherDude http://collegecandy.com/2010/07/28/ask-a-dude-is-he-shy-or-not-into-me/#comment-90977 Thu, 05 Aug 2010 15:34:58 +0000 http://collegecandy.com/?p=68200#comment-90977 You are now my favorite person ever with that CHUCK reference. And ESPECIALLY the way you signed out of it. Carmichael.

]]> By: Ask a Dude: What’s With the 180? : College Candy http://collegecandy.com/2010/07/28/ask-a-dude-is-he-shy-or-not-into-me/#comment-90837 Wed, 04 Aug 2010 20:03:02 +0000 http://collegecandy.com/?p=68200#comment-90837 [...] Over wondering what those boys are thinking?  We got your back, girlfriend. Send your question (Is he shy or just not that into me?) over to askthedude@collegecandy.com. The Dude won’t sugarcoat it, beat around the bush, or any [...]

]]> By: Lily http://collegecandy.com/2010/07/28/ask-a-dude-is-he-shy-or-not-into-me/#comment-89650 Thu, 29 Jul 2010 01:15:19 +0000 http://collegecandy.com/?p=68200#comment-89650 Dude- I normall agree with your advice- but this time I’m worried you may be off. I’ve met many men in my life who are much too comfortable complimenting women in day to day life, throwing around “gorgeous” “you look nice” etc, just to manipulate people. The fact that this man does this, as well as behaves (in a professional setting) as nothing happened with Sarah, leads me to believe he may be this type.

I’ve learned to live by: If you’re confused, he’s not that into you.

If he is “just shy” (which I don’t buy for a second- that’s guy speak for lazy, in my experience), then I hope things work out for Sarah- but I really do caution against people who are too comfortable complimenting people in daily life- it’s usually a way to manipulate.

]]> By: pillowchats http://collegecandy.com/2010/07/28/ask-a-dude-is-he-shy-or-not-into-me/#comment-89657 Wed, 28 Jul 2010 21:51:42 +0000 http://collegecandy.com/?p=68200#comment-89657 Have you considered the possibility that this guy is married or has a girlfriend? A colleague, especially one from another office, is the easiest, most convenient way for a guy to cheat: he's doing the flirting on work time so his partner doesn't suspect.

It's not always so black and white in terms of whether he likes the girl or not.

http://pillowchats.com

]]> By: Alicia http://collegecandy.com/2010/07/28/ask-a-dude-is-he-shy-or-not-into-me/#comment-89613 Wed, 28 Jul 2010 16:33:48 +0000 http://collegecandy.com/?p=68200#comment-89613 I love the buffy reference :)

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