The Last Fro Yo of Summer

September 6, 2010     Posted in Body

It’s Labor Day which means two things:

1. The perfect excuse to wash down a burger with an ice cold beer.
2. Summer is officially over.

I could use this space to share BBQ survival tips with you, but somehow that just doesn’t sit well with me. It’s a holiday; whether we’re enjoying the day with family or a bunch of frat guys with a grill, we should enjoy ourselves.

I’ve dished on all sorts of stuff this summer: my radical lifestyle change, what it’s like to be unhealthy, and even a few tips on how to stay healthy. But there’s one big topic I missed: how to stay happy. And with summer just about to fade away, I am sure us ladies can use all the happy we can get.

Let me briefly compare how I spent last summer to how I spent this summer:

Last summer I used my time off to “monitor” my eating, meticulously.
This summer
I used my time off to make extra cash, read good books, and bask in the sun.

Last summer I ate the exact same thing for breakfast (a bowl of oatmeal), lunch (a turkey sandwich on wheat with a yogurt cup and applesauce), and dinner (a bowl of romaine lettuce with one chicken tender cut up in it) every day.
This summer
I ate ice cream, hamburgers, waffles with Nutella, and channa masala. (Only sometimes in that order).

Last summer I never went out because socializing = food. The only thing worse than eating “bad” food was trying to talk my way around why I wasn’t eating.
This summer
I met up with old friends and family members over chai lattes and gyros.

Last summer I spent hours every day on the elliptical machine, in my un-air conditioned loft.
This summer
I did yoga, went for long walks, or used the stability ball — whatever felt good for me on a given day. I even took days off.

Last summer ended with me being a ball of nerves as I worried about going away to school and not having anything to eat in the dining hall.
This summer
I am refreshed and ready to pick up some carrot sticks, pita bread, and hummus for lunch.

So, girls, it might have taken a very long time, but I believe I am finally understanding this “moderation” business. It’s tricky. I know how great it is to lose weight and feel good about yourself, and how scary it is to think about eating normal food. You will never go back to the way you were, believe me. Treats once in awhile will not hurt you. We ladies have to worry about a million different things in our lives. Do not fear food.

Whether you’re wrapping up summer internships, leading orientation, or chilling in your parents’ house right now, please enjoy one last treat before this semester really gets nuts.

7 Comments on "The Last Fro Yo of Summer"
  1. Amy says:
    Mon, 6th Sep 201011:20 am 

    I've just read both you're articles and I just want to say how moving your story is, and how thrilled I am that you're getting through it all :)

    xx

  2. Summer says:
    Mon, 6th Sep 20101:37 pm 

    love you. love you love you love you.

  3. Ash says:
    Mon, 6th Sep 20105:30 pm 

    I had the same experience. In fact this sounds EXACTLY like a comparison between my summer this year and my previous summer. Thanks for the article Holly :)

  4. cait says:
    Tue, 7th Sep 20103:27 am 

    This is fantastic :)

  5. kristin says:
    Tue, 7th Sep 20105:41 am 

    This is exactly how my last summer compares to this summer, especially with not going out to restaurants and fearing the dining hall in college. I'm still working on the not fearing food part, but making progress! Thank you for posting

  6. Vicki says:
    Tue, 7th Sep 20108:35 am 

    That's the problem that I have right ow with this stupid diet that my trainer has me on. I'm focused on food and what I'm going to eat that I'm not really enjoying eating anymore. It's gotten so bad that I end up fighting with my parents because I don't feel like I can eat for dinner. It's no fun at all.

  7. Holly - Emerson Coll says:
    Tue, 7th Sep 201010:19 am 

    Thank you for all the lovely feedback, guys! I write this for you and I am so thrilled when you enjoy it.

    Vicki, I am by no means a professional "trainer" so I can't say yours is wrong, but I definitely think it's time for at least a second opinion. Trust me; I have been where you are, only I was my own "trainer." I barely ate because I "couldn't" and I fought with my family over it. I really can't see why you shouldn't be able to eat 3 meals a day. The number one rule of all is, if you are hungry, eat! Not eating when you want to is like standing on a dangerous precipice. In my experience, once I cut a lot of food, I became even more and more controlling, and I slipped fast. I lost weight like crazy, heck yes, but then your body starts shutting down and that is not a fun mess to get yourself out of.

    I hope it doesn't sound like I am scaring or insulting you. I support you 100%. I have been where you are and, even though it might make me a couple sizes smaller, I would never go back. Just reevaluate your situation if you have doubts. You will save yourself a huge headache! I wish you all the best!

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