My Boobs Are Too Big, But I Love Them Anyways

October 27, 2010 Posted in Body

I want to begin this post by clarifying something.

I love my boobs. Seriously. They are fabulous and I wouldn’t do anything in this world to replace them with anything else. I’m happy to have them by my side whenever I‘m laying down need a handful of jiggly happiness to cry on. I believe they are superb. I don’t want this post to seem like a giant complain-fest. It’s simply the honest truth about having big boobs.

Because mine are ginormous.

I’m being honest. You could probably see them from where you’re sitting right now. I can barely fit half of one in my hand when I grab on to them (yes, I’ve tried) and when I look down, I can’t see my feet. For a large handful (pun intended) of my life, they have been large. When I was in seventh grade, all of the kids in choir made fun of me because I refused to wear a bra until my mother tackled me down and force-fed me a training bra (I thought it was uncomfortable). Kids in my high school nicknamed me BLT. And it had nothing to do with my devotion to bacon, lettuce, and tomato. The acronym was for ‘Big-Lucious-Tits.”

For a long time, I believed that there was nothing positive about having big tatas. Firstly, you can never wear skimpy clothing without looking like a slut (or risking a nipple slip). Second, I understand men love boobs but during insecure moments I wondered if they just wanted to talk to me because they were so obnoxiously huge. And third, I was convinced come 40, I would have to tuck them in my socks or tie them over my head.

Having 34 DD’s comes with major restrictions, but I’ve learned to embrace my lovely jugs. Although I can never wear really cute, skimpy swimsuits and racy tops (out of fear I’ll immediately come off as a slut and experience generous side/under boob) I’ve found a subtly sexy way to dress myself… and my two big friends. I’ve come to discover my own set of sexy big-boobied bras as well as the wonderful ones that minimize my lady friends. People I just meet never know my boobs are the size of a human head until I tell them. I’ve come to like it that way.

Oftentimes, guys don’t know what to do with them. Sometimes, they end up grabbing them so hard mid-makeout sesh, I have bruises all over them the next day. And when I’m working out, I don’t know what to do with them. It hurts when I go running because they are busy pummeling my chest and nearly smacking me upside the head. To prevent it, I’ve been forced to wear (on average) three sports bras when I work out. [Editors Note: On the opposite end of the spectrum I use a little scotch tape and I'm ready for a marathon.]

Come the end of college (and when Mama’s insurance was running out), I debated getting a breast reduction. They had yet to physically hurt me – I think my North Face backpack and Geology books beat them to that point – but one of my girlfriends had recently underwent breast reduction surgery and she did not regret it. I saw her happy (almost to the point of being light on her feet – seriously, was she actually floating?) and I envied her. Her boobs were the perfect size while I was busy shoving my nipples back into my bra.

But after a long, hard, topless look in the mirror, I decided against it. (Note: I also decided it was time to be more cognizant of locking my bedroom door, but that’s a whole other story.)

After struggling with accepting myself as a curvy, big-boobed lady in high school and learning how to express myself as a curvy, luscious woman in college, I realized that I actually love my boobs. Every single pound of them. As many difficulties and slight insecurities they have brought me over the years, they are a part of who I’ve become and, multiple sports bras or not, I wouldn’t have my body any other way.

Love your boobs or hate ‘em, make sure you take care of them!

7524877 Comments2010-10-27+21%3A00%3A13Brittany+-+University+of+Saint+Thomas on "My Boobs Are Too Big, But I Love Them Anyways"

Brandon@Stingycampus says:
Wed, 27th Oct 201012:11 pm

I just have to say "Go You!" I'll give a guys perspective on this one. There's no bigger turn off than a girl who is insecure about a part of their body. And there is nothing sexier than a girl who is completely secure about it.

I knew girls in college who thought they were too small and used way too much of that padding stuff.

I'm a big supporter of yours now.

Melissa says:
Wed, 27th Oct 20101:21 pm

I totally feel the pain of the sports bras!

Amanda says:
Wed, 27th Oct 20101:59 pm

I totally know what you mean! I'm five foot one, 130 pounds, and I have 34Es… It's absolutely ridiculous finding bras/clothes, but even though they're huge and I hate them sometimes, I wouldn't change them for the world

jill says:
Wed, 27th Oct 20102:35 pm

i love this! (though, admittedly i was reminded of "do your ears hang low?"–remember it? "can you tie them in a knot? can you tie them in a bow?"

Nicole says:
Wed, 27th Oct 20102:58 pm

all that bouncing going up/down stairs is killer,

we need shock absorption for our girls!

34D and proud..

Emily says:
Wed, 27th Oct 20103:15 pm

32F / G (I fluctuate between 125-130 lbs, they change accordingly)'s and proud… Haha they're ridiculous and it doesn't make sense cause I'm a small person, but I love them to death! But the death grab from guys is the worst.

JenJen says:
Wed, 27th Oct 20103:20 pm

30E at 5', 120 LBS is a bain in the back… literally. I feel like I'm carrying a sack of books on my front 24/7. That being said, and the fact that anything low cut, strappy and/or button-up is out of the picture, my titanic twins are quite the handful. All fun, of course. Girls love to grab them, "OH MY GOD, ARE THESE REAl?" Yup. They've gotten me out of numerous scrapes with authority and more than my fair share of free alcohol. On a less clandestine note, I'm sure any future children will be well fed, twice over.

I guess they'll do.

L says:
Wed, 27th Oct 20103:36 pm

@JenJen- there isn't much of a correlation between breast size and milk production.

Sy says:
Wed, 27th Oct 20106:46 pm

I'm 17 and a 38D I wonder will I stop growing???

jerseygirl2013 says:
Wed, 27th Oct 20108:05 pm

I love this post. I'm 34 D and it sucks! I was debating getting breast reduction surgery but just like you my breasts arent causing me any pain so i dont see the point. The funny this that the deciding factor of whether or not i was going to get it happened when i was talking to my mom and dad. My mom randomly asks me when i was going to get married and i said that i dont know if that will ever happen…She screamed out "What do you mean?! Someone's gotta love those boobs!" lol

Rachel says:
Thu, 28th Oct 20107:51 am

36DD! Thanks for highlighting all the great/sucky things about huge boobs. Once I was out of college I learned to fully embrace them (low cut shirts, structured dresses, etc), and now I wouldn't have it any other way. Yes, a sheath dress will always make me look like I'm carrying triplets, but those things are ugly anyway.

westcoastdreamer says:
Thu, 28th Oct 20104:03 pm

Ugh. Just thinking of running at the gym makes my back ache.

While I totally admire your decision to avoid breast reduction, I’ve decided that it’s a necessity for me. I’m 5′ tall and wear 36DD. And though that’s not large compared to others, it doesn’t bode well on my tiny frame. But if it wasn’t for the pain I already experience, I’d be right behind you!

Kassie says:
Thu, 28th Oct 20103:34 pm

I wish…

vicky says:
Thu, 28th Oct 20106:36 pm

5' tall 34 DD and 117lbs..i couldnt help but join in. and as much as i hate them.. this article really lifted my spirits! I hate how finding clothes, bathing suits or cute bras are so hard though really makes summer a difficult time =/

girlnextdoorfashion says:
Fri, 29th Oct 20103:18 pm

i love this post. I completely agree that it's so nice to have some body love!!

i am only a 34C and some days I wish they were bigger, and some days I wish they were smaller. but hey, they're mine and I love them.

thank you for such an inspiring, feel-good post!!

Charlotte xxx

Desiree says:
Sat, 30th Oct 20109:11 am

It makes me somewhat sad to think that we live in a society where we curvy women are made to feel like we should be ashamed of our assets, all due to the envy of The Itty Bitty Titty Committee. If I hear one more of those bonebags holler "anything more than a handful is a waste", I'm gonna beat 'em over their head with one of my tatas!! Fuck the naysayers, buck the bullshit trends, and flaunt what your mama gave you!!

38G and proud of 'em!

Therese says:
Sat, 30th Oct 201010:21 am

It's nice to see a post about a woman loving her body just the way it is.

erwan says:
Sat, 30th Oct 201010:37 am

I love ur big boobs babe

Mel says:
Sat, 30th Oct 20101:19 pm

I'm 6' and wear a 36F. I love my boobs now that I have them (I was a B before I started taking birth control in college lol) girls and guys alike compliment them lol

Miss DDD says:
Sat, 30th Oct 20105:02 pm

I love this DDD stand up yeahhhh

Kaitlin says:
Sat, 30th Oct 20107:10 pm

I hated my boobs until suddenly I started loving them when I was in highschool. I don't know what inspired the change…I too have huge boobs (36DD) that are made to look even more huge by my tiny waist. I have to deal with the whole "Do you like me, or 'them'?" thing too, but now that I'm married it isn't so much an issue. My husband loves them, but I suspect that is largely because he had the misfortune of dating a lot of non-gifted girls

Nicole says:
Sun, 31st Oct 20109:51 am

34DD? Try being an F. I want to feel for this girl, but if you can still shop at Victoria Secret, your boobs are normally-sized and you have no reason not to love them.

Saskia says:
Sun, 31st Oct 201011:41 am

If you girls think you have big boobs, think again. I have 34HH. It's killing me and my back, thus a reduction will commence in the future. DD isn't that big,,, I had that when I was 12.

Alice says:
Sun, 31st Oct 201010:45 am

@Desiree

It makes me somewhat sad to think that we live in a society where we smaller women are made to feel like we should be ashamed of our lack of breasts and are less of a women, all due to the chagrin of men and sluts. If I hear one more of those cows holler “a bra is wasted on you”, I’m gonna beat ‘em over their head with my ability to move lightly on my feet!! Fuck the naysayers, buck the bullshit trends, and flaunt what your mama gave you!!

34A and proud of ‘em.

Liz says:
Sun, 31st Oct 201011:59 am

Here is another perspective Desiree:

Women with smaller breasts have a hard time as well. Not all women envy large breasts so don't be so full of it. It is a struggle to find nice things to wear sometimes, and it can be uncomfortable when some young men only love big breasts and want nothing to do with smaller breasted women. That being said, I think most women struggle with some part of their body. I have small breasts and I don't mind, but I wish they were "even." On the bright side, I have a nice curvy rear (I'm 110 lbs, nice figure) and having small breasts does not mean a woman isn't "curvy" or isn't beautiful. Besides, a woman is more that just hanging bags of fat down her shirt or fat cushions on her behind. Let's be honest, that's pretty much all it is.

@Brittany: I'm really glad you learned to embrace your body for what it is! I'm trying to do the same with mine

Leah says:
Mon, 1st Nov 201012:27 pm

We should all love our bodies no matter breast size. Personally i am a 36DD and proud of it. There are days when i wish they were smaller and some days when i am irrevocably in love with them. Love you body and don't care about what other people think.

Celeste says:
Mon, 1st Nov 20104:51 pm

This is my story in a nutshell! At 38DD, I remember the days when I was embarrassed to wear anything v-neck! I've grown to love my boobs and I still have my anti big boobie moments but 99% of the time I wouldn't have it any other way. I love my body now and I hope everyone else can too!

*Plus they're a built in book stand for night time reading!

Lacey says:
Tue, 2nd Nov 201010:47 am

I'm a freshman in college. 38D. I used to be so self-concious about it. I'd try to hide my girls and stuff them into too-small bras in order to minimize them. I hated the instant attention I'd get when I decided to wear a tight shirt or vneck instead of my typical boob-reducing attire. But, now, I feel the exact same way you do. I love my big boobs as much as everyone else tells me they do (hahaha). And, I'm not going to lie, they can help get you what you want if the situation calls for it. <3333 the boobies

Emily says:
Tue, 2nd Nov 20103:59 pm

@Nicole- That's how I felt reading this article. I read '34DD' and said 'PSHH!' When I was a DD they were large, yes, but they didn't bother me. In fact, I loved them. I'm a G, THAT is big. It's nearly impossible to find bras for under $70 that look nice and make me feel pretty. They're obnoxious, but they did get me plenty of attention!

A Cracker That Love says:
Tue, 2nd Nov 20105:23 pm

Not only are you gorgeous, but your breasts are amazing!

Lolita says:
Wed, 3rd Nov 20108:47 am

Wow! So many fat women writing on here. You all remind me of Christina Hendricks, because all fat women do is try to convince us that double D means "sexy". Newsflash, you're not Sofia Vergara, and unless you are gorgeous and have a tiny waist, then your huge jugs are disgusting and saggy. Also, please stop claiming guys love them, all the hot guys are with the models so wake up!

molly says:
Wed, 3rd Nov 20109:59 am

@Lolita…….actually, never mind, you insecure bitch. you don't deserve a comment, I refuse to give you any validation.

Thanks for writing this article, it like reading my own diary!

Although I sometimes hate my boobs, I love them and wouldn't have it any other way.

I hate that like SOME people, (lolita) magazines always assume women with large breasts are fat, which is SO not true. When they do "dress for your body" articles the chesty girls are always larger, what gives! I have 34 DDs and I weight 128lbs, probably 5 of which is pure boob.

And to those of you women considering a reduction, I am a nursing student and I saw one in surgery the other day…UGH, I will never consider it again. It's truly gruesome and very invasive. I would only recommend the procedure if you need it for your health.

aahilliard says:
Wed, 3rd Nov 201010:33 am

@Lolita

Damn, someone would actually say that? Sad.

Lily says:
Thu, 4th Nov 20106:49 am

Hey Desiree, stop being so jealous of the small breasted ladies, ok? Just like you're supposedly happy with your big jugs, there are real women with small boobs that are happy with themselves, as well. Stop hating on thin girls with small boobs that have more self confidence than you. If you were really secure, you wouldn't resort to calling women of the ITBC "bonebags" and saying they're all envious. Some of us are proud of our ballerina/gymnast/ice skater/yoga bodies:)

Cameron Grix says:
Thu, 4th Nov 20107:47 am

I love this post!

Your boobs are you. No matter the size.

Lolita needs to gtfo tho

Melanie - Northeaste says:
Thu, 4th Nov 20108:19 am

I actually had a breast reduction and while it was very invasive, painful and the healing process was long, it was the best thing I could've done for my health and body. It doesn't mean I don't love my breasts; I still love my boobs, no matter what, they are still mine.

Lolita says:
Fri, 5th Nov 20108:35 am

@Molly, well you can go fuck yourself fatzo because you just did! @Cameron, you think you're Opera or something? Hilliard or whatever your name is, I think you're quite sad actually.

Lolita says:
Fri, 5th Nov 20108:36 am

@Molly, well you can go f yourself fatzo because you just did! @Cameron, you think you’re Opera or something? Hilliard or whatever your name is, I think you’re quite sad actually. You're all sad

Mike says:
Fri, 5th Nov 20109:31 am

I'd love to meet all of you girls. Except you Melanie and the defection of the things that all men love.

brittany says:
Fri, 5th Nov 201012:36 pm

So what kind of sports bras do you wear because I'm 32DD and I still haven't figured that out, which is why the exercise bike is the only cardio I can get.

steph says:
Fri, 5th Nov 20108:46 pm

This is a great article! I actually had a breast reduction a couple of years ago and it was probably the best decision I have made in my life. I jumped through endless hoops trying to get it approved through my insurance and eventually ended up paying for it out of pocket. I would do it again in a heartbeat. But, that's me.

I totally related to your experience with having a boob-related nickname. In junior high, I wore a Giants baseball shirt ONE DAY and of course the boys thought it was hilarious. One dude joked in PE one day that I should be careful to avoid getting black eyes from my bouncing chest. How clever. Ugh.

The reaction from boys had little to do with my decision to have the surgery, though. I have been in a relationship for the past eight years and he was cool with their size, but mostly wanted me to feel happy and confident in my own skin. I have been an athlete (soccer and running) my whole life and lived in a minimum of two sports bras. I learned the best combo is using a normal, underwire bra, then two sports bras on top. Despite my earnest efforts to keep those puppies in place, I had tissue damage and sagging at 18. This took a huge toll on my self-esteem and body image. I also experienced severe neck and back pain and had permanent bra grooves indented in my shoulders. And, oh yeah, I'm 5'5 and weighed about 125 pounds.

Getting the reduction was a wonderful experience for me. The pain was minor and my scars have almost completely faded. I really think it is awesome that you are comfortable in your body and I think it is important for girls and women to read your perspective. I will be sharing your article with all of my friends!

Cheers!

Lyza Herman says:
Fri, 5th Nov 20109:22 pm

I was a 42DDD. As a child, until I developed, I was a terrific athlete but as I developed it became just about impossible to do anything fast, or that took a lot of coordination, because my center of gravity was so wacko. My hips were a size 12 but my chest was a size 20. When I took a walk I often unconsciously held my arms behind my back just to keep my balance. Under-wire bras that size are expensive, and very hard to find. The grooves in my shoulders were deep and sore. My neck and back ached constantly. I got a breast reduction in my late 40's and I have never regretted it. I love looking down and seeing my feet! I do not miss that feeling of suffocation when I would lay on my back, or never being able to sleep on my stomach, or run or jump, or find any clothes that fit comfortably. If you have never experienced these things you should not pass judgment on someone who has opted for a breast reduction! Now I am a 36D, which is still big, but my breasts are proportioned to my body. Breasts are beautiful, their appeal is undeniable, but you don't have to suffer all your life if you don't want to.

Elyse says:
Sun, 7th Nov 20107:28 am

@Alice and @Liz

Thanks for sticking up for us smaller chested girls! With the increasing trend in breast implants (even being given away at bars!) along with women getting breast reductions, I believe there is pressure on both sides to change what they were born with. I think it's all about flaunting what you have and knowing how to play up your assets, no matter how small or large they are.

34 A and proud of it!

catteaumaru says:
Mon, 8th Nov 201011:43 am

Be happy with your natural assets. They look superb! By the way have you seen this program "My big breasts and me" on the BBC? I have a post about it on my blog. This is the link. http://umaruidicatteau.wordpress.com/2010/11/02/m…

Take care,

Abigail says:
Mon, 8th Nov 20108:43 pm

As a 34G I completely understand where you are coming from!!! I don't know how many guys have had conversations with the two watermelons stuck to my chest. It is nice to hear somebody else coming from my side opposed to all the girls who just want bigger boobs. Have you tried bravissimo.com? it is a store in the uk. They run a bit expensive……. but they have some clothes for those of us who are better endowed.

Stacey says:
Wed, 10th Nov 20107:25 am

I got a reduction from a 34F down to a 34D. I was feeling good about it for a while and now I'm confused.

Shanise M says:
Sat, 13th Nov 201010:35 am

as a 40 DDD I'd say bravo for accepting your boobs, I have-and I flaunt them every chance I get

Jenna says:
Thu, 25th Nov 201010:04 pm

Hey guys. I get the big boob thing, Im a 40GG… which to me is insaen but you learn to live with it… I hate the fact that everywhere I go I get stares and hear people whispering about it…. Lots of people thing mine are fake.
I've contemplated getting a reduction but I really don't think I want to, it would be nice to actually buy a shirt that isnt two sizes bigger just to fit them in but it's really not what I want to do.
In the future I may think about getting the reduction, but at the moment.. not for me
Thanks guys

catteaumaru says:
Sun, 26th Dec 201011:58 am

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Eric says:
Tue, 29th Mar 20117:39 pm

Though I am a man, I would like to say please keep your big bust if God gave them to you – one condition; I wouldn't like to see you in pain.

On the other hand most women that I read about getting reductions are due to the insecurity of too much attention or the wrong attention. This you can't help or control so just be confident in all of yourself and know that God doesn't make mistakes!

Keeva says:
Mon, 11th Apr 20118:50 pm

You're ridiculous and have absolutely no clue about how much physical and emotional insecurity large breasts can give someone. Keep your misogynistic comments to yourself.

huggybear is shy says:
Tue, 26th Apr 20115:19 am

I always wanted a girl like you

droolz says:
Mon, 9th May 201111:03 pm

My mouth is full of saliva… LOL!

laura Harwood says:
Mon, 16th May 20112:15 pm

Mine are a 36 DD verging lately on an E but I'm a bit freaked to get a E cup…shit thats big they seem to be RIGHT THERE under my chin all the time and god, the buggers are heavy sometimes.

I just wish I could put them down for half an hour….esp when they are all tender and menstrual. I'm always happy to get horizontal after a hard days work. Feel like I need scaffolding. Anyone got a handy wheelbarrow?

julio2579 says:
Sat, 30th Jul 20115:25 pm

Hello Jenna, Wow 40GG
I really think that Big Boobs are Beautiful. I love a woman with curves too I think is sooooo sexy!
Please dont reduce your boobs you could be model, yes , please contact to me jc_2579@yahoo.com

Pat says:
Sat, 3rd Sep 20113:01 pm

Big boobs are great until they get saggy or cause strech marks, which is usually just a matter of time.. However what most women don't understand is that they can be sexy no matter what they have, its about attitude and a state of mind. A woman without boobs is like a christmas tree without ornaments, still nice, you just need to focus on the beauty of the tree and the spirit of the tree, and not the lack of the ornaments.

Leo says:
Sun, 25th Sep 201110:32 pm

That is an amazingly impressive size Jenna. 40GG would be a huge turn on for me. If you need to get a reduction, then by all means. But just to let you know, there are men (like me) who LOVE insanely large breast.

Sara says:
Mon, 3rd Oct 20116:00 pm

But they were probably still smarter than you. After all, they can always get implants. You have big boobs, but that's obviously all you got going for you!

bob says:
Wed, 5th Oct 20111:24 pm

yeah me too

Samantha Smith says:
Sun, 30th Oct 201110:21 pm

Girl I feel ya. I’m 5’4 125 lbs and have 34DD. I’m also a US Marine and with that comes a lot of physical training. I have to wear two sports bras when I run and its super hard to breath. Keeping up with the boys is supper hard when you cant breath!!!

Rae says:
Sat, 19th Nov 20117:02 pm

Hmmm…I feel uncorfortable when girls with small boobs feel the need to grab my boobs without permission. At least girls with small boobs don’t get that. It’s awkward and annoying.

Kate says:
Sun, 20th Nov 20112:22 pm

Hah, I totally agree with this article!

I’m 14 and I’m a 38D, do any of y’all think they’ll grow anymore! Because in all honesty, I’d rather the didn’t, but like you, I think it’s just a good idea to embrace them

mardani says:
Sat, 4th Feb 20128:30 am

i am 28 years old woman. my boobs size is 32 but i like beg boobs Please tell me how will be coming big?

Cassie says:
Sun, 5th Feb 201210:18 pm

I’m 14, 5’6″ and a 34D. Are they gonna get bigger? I love my boobs, but I’m also faced with the skimpy clothing=slut issue. My girl and guy friends make fun of my boobs, and I know they’re joking, but some times I worry that I get too much attention from my guy friends.

Mimi says:
Mon, 6th Feb 201210:07 pm

OK, obviously judging from your comment you are a simple-minded, blind fool. Every body type is sexy in its own way, as long as that person takes care of their body and personality, which frankly, you have none. You don't need to have a tiny waist for guys to see you as sexy. The way you say it makes it seem as if you are a flat-chested, insecure, whining anorexic. I have 32F/32E boobs. and i love 'em. Why? because they're mine. And weight does not mean sagging. Besides, not all the hot guys are with models. Go out there and grow some mental capacity please. I believe it is you who needs the wake up call. Not anyone else.

love big boobs says:
Thu, 16th Feb 201212:35 pm

you're a fucking bitch

John says:
Sat, 18th Feb 20129:03 am

This post needs more pics from your readers, they all sounds so hot!

weston says:
Sat, 18th Feb 201212:27 pm

Im a guy and I love all of you ladies! Learn to love yourself and how you were created. No reduction!!

Polo says:
Mon, 20th Feb 20129:27 pm

Ahh not big

Lols says:
Fri, 24th Feb 20121:20 pm

You dont even understand bra sizes properly, nice try and pretending to be female loser

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