Tuffy Luv Can’t Believe This Ashhole

November 9, 2010 1:00 pm     Posted in Advice, Relationships  Tuffy Luv g+ page

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By Tuffy Luv

Dear Tuffy Luv,

A few weekends ago while my roommate/best friend was passed out in her bedroom, her boyfriend and I hooked up. The boy and I had been friends freshman year, and I had feelings for him before he started dating my best friend. He and I agreed that it was never going to happen again and to not tell anyone. Two days later, when we were both drunk, it happened again. I believe he is a good person, and loves his girlfriend so I told him I wasn’t going to say anything.

2 weeks later he tried to hook up with my best friend and my other roommate. She rejected him, but told me the story. Selfishly, I don’t want to tell my best friend, but at the same time I wonder if I was wrong about him, and he is hooking up with other girls. What do I do?

– Sex With Best Friend’s Boyfriend

Dear Sex With Best Friend’s Boyfriend,

Classy.

Well, you’ve gone and done something totally unforgivable. You don’t feel bad about it at all. But now you’re trying to play the good guy and “warn” your “best friend” about her lying, cheating boyfriend.

Methinks the “lady” (HA) doth protest too much.

Giiiiiiiirl. Backstabbing is so not cute.

I might (MIGHT) have had some sympathy for you if it had happened once in a drunken fit and you had really never done it again. HOWEVER, what actually happened is, while your flooping friend was PASSED OUT, you effed her boyfriend. Not only did you not fess up, you made a pact with the guy to not tell her and then you did it again TWO DAYS LATER.

Guess what? You don’t get to play the good guy now. Oh, you feel so bad for her because she doesn’t know what’s going on. Oh, you’re such a good friend who made a little mistake and now has to make a big decision. Oh, poor your friend, it turns out the guy’s a sleaze, hadn’t you better do something about it?

FAAAAAAART.

More like: YOU feel degraded that it turns out he didn’t just find you so irresistible he HAD to cheat, but, in fact, he’s just a lying cheating sack. Tell her and come clean and expect your friendship to be over. I really don’t see how you two can come back from this. You completely betrayed her and you seem to have no remorse for it.

In fact, the only reason I say you should tell her is that I do think she should know about her sackboy. She may want to dump HIS ash too.

Good luck, jerkface.

Hearts & Skulls,
Tuffy Luv

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14 Comments on "Tuffy Luv Can’t Believe This Ashhole"

  1. Bee says:
    Tue, 9th Nov 20102:43 pm 

    she's a huge bitch. she deserves chlamydia.

  2. wendy says:
    Tue, 9th Nov 20104:08 pm 

    "YOU feel degraded that it turns out he didn’t just find you so irresistible he HAD to cheat, but, in fact, he’s just a lying cheating sack."

    well said tuffy luv. you go on and preach.

    clearly, she is not a friend. what griminess.

  3. Reems says:
    Tue, 9th Nov 20104:34 pm 

    Go Tuffy!

  4. Dani says:
    Tue, 9th Nov 20105:16 pm 

    I totally agree with your response Tuffy! At first when I was reading the question I couldn't believe you chose this to respond to this, but I love that you straight up handed it to her.

  5. Lucy says:
    Tue, 9th Nov 20105:55 pm 

    Excellent response! There is nothing else to say to that girl.

  6. criolle johnny says:
    Tue, 9th Nov 20109:36 pm 

    So, he's bagging YOU, and your BFF. He's also trying to get the BFF and her roommie into a threesome.
    He promised never to tell anyone, and you BELIEVED him?!

    Check his twitter account, and cut back on your drinking.

  7. yoodora says:
    Wed, 10th Nov 20109:18 am 

    A-men.
    You told her right.
    Geez. What'd the girl do to deserve such crappy people in her life?

  8. Morgan says:
    Wed, 10th Nov 20104:07 pm 

    hahahahaha, I love that response, honest and harsh. I can´t stand girl like her, backstabbers who try to flip the story to be the good one. They are nothing but trash. and deserve to be effed and dumped, by both the boy and the friend. I'm sorry, but it's true.

  9. Britney says:
    Mon, 15th Nov 20101:55 am 

    I honestly have a similar situation. My guy friend and I were best friend and had hooked up before..and then he got a girlfriend..and unfortunately our "more than friendship" didn't end. She has no idea that he cheated on her with me..or with 3 other girls for that matter. I mean I'm not friends with the girl at all..but i would kind of like to clue her in..i mean its not fair to her, but i dont want to sacrafice my friendship with him, especialy since we kind of having feelings for each other but arn't in the right mindset at the moment. Any advice?

  10. J.Mac says:
    Wed, 17th Nov 20109:37 am 

    A-MEN, Tuffy! I couldn't have said it better myself. We all need to be accountable for our actions.

  11. Dominique says:
    Wed, 17th Nov 201012:48 pm 

    Lying cheating scum always finds lying cheating scum…I hope she tells her friend, and that her friend warns everyone else to stay away from this boyfriend-humping two-faced witch! >:o

  12. Bee says:
    Fri, 19th Nov 20101:32 am 

    I luv Tuffy Luv

  13. courtneyK says:
    Mon, 22nd Nov 20103:56 am 

    Bitch got told!!
    That's right though, you can't fuck your roommate's boyfriend/ your best friend's boyfriend, you idiot.
    "oooo what should i doooooo"
    shut the eff up and keep your legs shut, no decent person does that, slut.
    I hope you get chlamydia

  14. boight says:
    Tue, 23rd Nov 20106:59 am 

    bitch!

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