Whether you’re a member of a sorority, sports team, or even a more unofficial group, think twice before you haze – it’s way more serious than it seems at first glance. Some people see hazing as a rite of a passage, a tradition, or something that will make people stronger and more committed. In reality, hazing is dehumanizing, cruel, and potentially dangerous…not to mention illegal. Considered “adult bullying,” hazing at a college level is punishable by law.

Get the facts before you participate in any hazing rituals.

What is hazing? By definition, hazing is “”any activity expected of someone joining a group that 
humiliates, degrades, abuses or endangers, regardless of the person’s willingness to participate. This does not include activities such as rookies carrying the balls, team parties with community games, or going out with your teammates, unless an atmosphere of humiliation, degradation, abuse or danger arises.”

Hazing can be as simple as withholding rights, or as severe and serious as burning, assaulting, or drugging another person. And while the more innocent forms of hazing may seem inconsequential, these are often considered misdemeanors – even if the victim is consenting. The power structure of hazing is dangerous in and of itself; a younger person or someone who is a position of inferiority often feels too threatened by possible punishments to speak out, so even if someone doesn’t seem bothered by your actions, it’s still considered hazing. Read More »

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Tis the season for holiday gifts. The only problem is… what on earth are you going to get everyone?

Dads might just be the hardest people on earth to shop for. Your roommate is the pickiest person EVER, always giving you that “aw I love it” response that is totally transparent with fakeness. And you NEVER see her wearing that killer sequined J.Crew tee you got her. And on top of that, you are fresh out of ideas that are remotely unique (I love Starbucks gift cards just as must as the next person but let’s face it, they rank pretty low on the originality scale).

Enter: The Gift Insider.
AKA a gift to you from the gift-giving angels.

Formally known as “Gift Giving with Love,” a blog, The Gift Insider got a mega-makeover. It’s incredibly easy to use and they have breakdowns of totally original, creative gifts for everyone in your life, from your grandpa to your mailman. Read More »

Happy 29th birthday, Britney Spears!

Sure, she’s has had her share of issues, but her birthday is the perfect time to state the obvious: Britney Spears is one of the greatest entertainers of our time. Maybe even of all time.

Her personal life notwithstanding, Britney can do almost no wrong (“almost” is the operative word….her “Gimme More” comeback performance was one of her few professional missteps). I’ve always loved Britney because she epitomizes popular culture; instead of trying to please everyone, Brit understands that the best way to remain relevant is to be polarizing.

In honor of Britney’s big day, I’m going to chronicle her (absolutely amazing) career through her music. What’s your favorite Britney song? Personally I find it impossible to choose one. There aren’t many people who can change it up the way our girl Brit can – and please don’t try to tell me that Lady Gaga has an edge over her. Where Gaga can do three things – crazy, crazier, and absolutely insane – Britney can rock every look and attitude. We’ve seen Britney play the sweet and innocent card, the heartbreaker, and the unapologetically sexy diva with a snake wrapped around her neck.

So let’s look back at some of her best moments in music:

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Baby, it’s cold outside. And the only thing worse than a cliché is freezing your little ears off after your campus inevitably plows your car into a snow bank. So while you’re stocking up on your extendable snow shovel, windshield brush/scraper, Uggs, long johns, scarves and gloves, here’s a friendly reminder of how much it stings when the wind takes advantage of your bare-naked ears.

Let’s be honest, our main concerns in the winter are not just staying warm, but also trying to avoid hypothermia without having to resort to the Michelin Man look. And it’s not easy. Between the puffy coats and the matching look-alike Uggs everyone will be sporting, the last thing you want is to be stuck with earmuffs that make you look like a chinchilla curled up around each of your ears and died.

The solution? A very affordable and sophisticated looking wrap, like a knitted headband that covers your ears. Like this one from paddicake.com. It buttons behind your head and is adorned with a beautiful knitted flower, making the knitted headband both incredibly cute and functional.

The best thing about this headband is that it won’t give you hat head! No need to worry about pulling off that adorable knitted cap once you get inside the building with the heat cranking to reveal a sweaty, matted mess. Unlike a hat, you can wear this with any hairstyle and not worry about a thing. Read More »

Love lessons from ’90s romcoms

7 tricks for applying eyeliner

A disturbing reason that you’re avoiding dad

Is 14 too young to have sex?

How to reject someone nicely

You WISH this was your history high school teacher

Get ready to say bye to the cast of Glee

Another day, another sex tape (that no one wants to see)

These guys think Angie really does love her 785 kids

How to find your perfect boots

Last weekend, my best friend and I ventured into the city to attend the Everything To Do With Sex Show, a sex-centric expo that plays host to toy manufacturers, gear makers, and a whole lot of information. We had been planning to attend the expo for weeks, so walking into the giant room that was filled with people just like me – open, honest, and unashamed of sex — was pretty thrilling.

After walking around and exploring the booths for a good hour or two, we settled into the seminar room and hung out for almost six hours, listening to facilitators talk to the crowd about different areas of sex and sexuality. We also wandered through the dungeon a few times, and yours truly even submitted to being flogged by a lovely lady who asked if I wanted a “back massage” — it was splendid.

We ended up spending nearly nine hours there, and at the end of the day walked away with a whole wealth of sexy knowledge. Here’s a few things I learned from my day at the expo:

During a seminar on “turning toys into tools” (for the bedroom), the guy presenting talked a lot about what he liked to call the “double tap.” Basically, the concept was that whatever you’re doing to your partner, make sure you’re doing something else as well. For example, use your tongue and your hands, or have sex and kiss their neck. Apparently this is a good way for those ladies who have problems climaxing to finally get there. Read More »

A round-up of all your holiday favorites and when they’ll be on TV

A faux-fur vest that won’t break the bank

Top ten New Year’s Eve destinations

This is the grossest necklace ever

Still confused how the Kardashians’ keep getting more famous

No matter what, we’re still rooting for Brit

Guess recycling doesn’t save the earth

Man goes blind from climaxing during sex

Tailgating essentials for the best football experience ever

Cosmo article rewritten by a guy

When the news of Prince William’s engagement to long-time girlfriend Kate Middleton hit the Internet several weeks ago, hearts all over the world broke in two. Women’s dreams of becoming the newest member of the Royal Family were shattered in an instant. It’s undeniable that Kate’s life will soon be transformed; she’ll suddenly enjoy the glamorous and luxurious life of a Blue Blood– a way of life that is envied by any female that has ever watched a Disney princess movie.

Yet, there have to be some downsides. There must be some aspects of “normal” life that she will miss. Perhaps the Royal Life isn’t all it’s cracked up to be. Frankly, I adore being a college student. And, I’m not so sure I would be able to sacrifice the awesomeness of my current lifestyle to become the prim and proper Princess of Wales.

In order to sort it all out (and make myself feel a little better about my dream husband taking someone else as his wife), I thought I’d do a little comparing and contrasting. Who really has it better – Princess Kate or little ol’ me? Read More »

Tonight marks the first night of Hanukkah. If you’re one of the lucky Jews out there who still gets a sick present for every one of the 8 (crazy) nights, kudos to you. Bitch. If you’re like us here at CollegeCandy, you get a Starbucks gift card from your grandpa for $18 and a “what? I don’t do enough for you all year?” guilt trip from your mom.

If you fall into the latter category, don’t fret; CollegeCandy’s got your back. We’re bringing you the 8 Hotties of Hanukkah, one for each glorious latke-eating day. Because at the end of the day, as your Hanukkah candles are burning low and dripping wax all over your desk, unwrapping a Kindle is cool, but flipping through pictures of some sexy Jewy six-packs is H.O.T.

That, my friends, is the gift that keeps on giving.

First up is none other than Jake “I’m Hotter Than a Fresh Latke” Gyllenhaal. We’re shaking-in-our-stained-Ugg-boots-excited for his new movie with Anne Hathaway.  What’s sexier than a man who is so comfortable with his own body that he has no problem showing it off on the big screen? Answer: when that man is Jake Gyllenhaal. Not only is he an international superstar who gets cast in big blockbuster after big blockbuster, but he also knows how to show off his indie side in only-makes-sense-when-you-are-stoned-films like Donnie Darko.

Move over T. Swift, he’s all ours. Read More »

Dear Dude,

I’ve been dating this fella for about five weeks.  We get along well, we enjoy each other’s company, he’s good to me, he’s always treated me like a lady, he’s changed some of his habits for me, and he’s a sweetheart.  Here’s the thing though: I don’t want him.  I don’t feel that “spark” with him. I want to end things with this guy, but I’m not sure how to.  I can’t exactly tell him the truth, although I have talked to him about the lack of “spark” I feel and that didn’t seem to bug him.  Yet, I don’t want to give the lame “It’s not you, it’s me” excuse.  He’s a good man, Dude.  He’s just not my happily ever after. So, what can I tell him that will end things but not break his heart?

Sincerely,
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