So You Thought You Were A Lesbian

August 18, 2011 7:00 pm     Posted in Reality, Relationships  Candy -- NYU g+ page


By Candy

Imagine going through your life as a heterosexual female. You’ve crushed on men, you’ve been attracted to men, you’ve dated men and had relationships with men…there’s was never a question: you dug dudes. End of story.

But then say one day you meet someone who is just so generous toward you. Someone who seems to care so greatly about you, who you care about in return. And that someone is a woman.

What do you do? Does that make you bisexual? A lesbian? Huh!? Well, read as one woman discusses her journey into — and out of — lesbianism.

Have you ever struggled with your own sexuality? What would you do in a situation like this? And hen does one become a full fledged lesbian?

8 Comments on "So You Thought You Were A Lesbian"

  1. NeoDra says:
    Fri, 19th Aug 20112:34 am 

    Lesbian…
    it's normal
    but i just feel sick about it

  2. natasiarose says:
    Fri, 19th Aug 20119:09 am 

    It makes her bisexual and if you read the post, a sugar baby. I think I'm done with Frisky and College Candy.

  3. Casey says:
    Fri, 19th Aug 201111:02 am 

    Reading that made me nauseous :/

  4. Sara says:
    Fri, 19th Aug 20112:07 pm 

    I thought it was an interesting article, but it was definitely uncomfortable reading, the fact that she was talking about a homosexual relationship was almost irrelevant. The older woman could easily be substituted for an older guy who she wasn't attracted to.

  5. essa says:
    Sat, 20th Aug 20119:38 am 

    Great article! Really interesting read even though I'm straight.
    And since I'm from Australia I can say this = you conservative homophobic Americans who are complaining about it being disgusting in the comments, YOU disgust me.

  6. Casey says:
    Sun, 21st Aug 20117:47 pm 

    Ok asshole, it wasn't disgusting because it was a homosexual relationship. it was disgusting because of the context of the relationship. 1. The one sidedness 2. The abuse 3. The exploitation

    How about being a bit more open minded to the fact that not every homosexual relationship is a healthy one. The article made me nauseous because of the reasons above, it had nothing to do with the sexuality of the participants. Your ignorance and hate disgusts me.

  7. NakeyaW says:
    Mon, 22nd Aug 20111:13 am 

    Honestly she just sounded like a gold digger to me, it was interesting at first, then I got weird, and then kind of boring.

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