Pwned by P0rn [Tuffy Luv Sez]

May 1, 2012 3:30 pm     Posted in Advice, Homepage Exclusive, Reality, Relationships, Sex  Tuffy Luv g+ page


By Tuffy Luv

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Dear Tuffy Luv,

This is really embarrassing, so I’m just going to say it – I love porn. My boyfriend likes porn, too, but he doesn’t know that I like it. I want to tell him, because I think it would be really hot to look at it together. But I’m embarassed. I also don’t want him to think I’m a slut or anything. We’ve been together all throughout college, so it’s not like he would think that but still… How can I tell him in a way that is sexy and not slutty?

Porn Lover

Dear Porn Lover,

That is totally not slutty. How is it slutty to want to enjoy something you find sexually satisfying with the very man you find sexually satisfying?! No. Slutty, it is not. Honey, here’s my advice:

During The Sexy Times, whisper a really sexy scenario into your boyfriend’s ear. When he’s all worked up over it, tell him you got it from your favorite porn and suggest watching it together. And then, you know, actually watch it together. I’m pretty sure he’ll be super excited. And I mean flooping SUPER excited. You like something he already likes, it’s related to sex, and you’re his girlfriend!

Girl, this isn’t a problem. This is every guy’s dream!

Hearts & Skulls,

Tuffy Luv

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3 Comments on "Pwned by P0rn [Tuffy Luv Sez]"

  1. talesofscarlett says:
    Tue, 1st May 20124:34 pm 

    awesome advice! sex is about pleasing each other and you have to be willing explore different avenues in order to accomplish this. As long as its safe and consensual I don't think anything should be off the tables.

  2. DeBoh says:
    Wed, 2nd May 20121:32 pm 

    Out of all of my Ex GF's my favorite one; come to think of it she's the only one i remained friends with after we broke up; loved to watch porn. As a guy so do I; here's a hint ladies all men love, watch and touch them selves while they watch porn; so we would watch it together during sexy time. She would show me the sites / videos she like and I'd show her the things i was interested in. Watching porn with your significant other is spectacular and i highly recommend it to anyone in a relationship.

  3. Pappy Rick says:
    Sat, 5th May 201211:43 pm 

    My View Is That IF A Guy ! Can Go Out And Bang 3 Girls In 1 Night ! And Be Called A Stud ! Why Can't A Girl Go Out And Bang ! 3 Guys in 1 Night ! And Be Called A Slut ! In The Same Level As A Guy ! Stud Slut Should Be The Same !

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