When Is It Okay To Ask A Guy What He Wants?

May 6, 2012 5:28 pm     Posted in Advice, Relationships  Caitlin Corsetti g+ page

Guys, bless their hearts, can be quite clueless as most of you probably know. We love and hate them, and they’re so infuriating sometimes! While we like to play it off that we can read minds and know everything, the truth is we can’t always read dudes as well as we think. Sure, we’re intuitive and can generally guess what’s going on in their mind (usually sex), but when it comes down to how a guy really feels about us, we can get a little insecure.

If he’s spending time with you on a regular basis, that’s a good sign. If he’s taking you out at night and wants to see you in the daytime too, even better. But what happens when you’re at that awkward stand-still where you don’t know what’s going on with a possibly budding relationship? How do you ask a guy what he wants? Is it even okay to do that? We don’t want to seem crazy, but sometimes we just need reassurance that you like us. And if you don’t then we’d like to stop wasting our time.

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2 Comments on "When Is It Okay To Ask A Guy What He Wants?"
  1. Katie Garrity - North Central College says:
    Thu, 10th May 20121:21 pm 

    "The Almost Girlfriend" is such a tough spot to be in. It's unfair how we seem crazy if we ask the dreaded "Where is this going?" question, but it has to be done sometimes!

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