11 Signs HE’S Really Falling for YOU

Last week we did a post called ’11 Signs You’re Really Falling For Him.’ We thought it only fitting to follow that up with the signs that he’s definitely falling for you. Maybe you’ve just met this guy, been friends with him for years or been dating for a a few weeks– regardless, there are telling signs that will let you know he’s really into you. Some of these seem incredibly obvious, and when they’re happening to you, there is no doubt in your mind that your man has fallen hard. However, sometimes when you’re not experiencing them, you manage to convince yourself that he’s more into you than he actually is. We’ve all been guilty at some point. Let this be your reality check. If you’re not getting the following behavior from your guy, you may want to think about where your relationship is going and if that’s a direction you’re okay with!

Or maybe I’m totally nuts! Let me know in the comments below!

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  1. Sam - Emory University says:

    you are not nuts, love love them all

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  4. Mel says:

    And then he friend-zones you two weeks after you both drop "I love you"s then dumps you. And still wants to be friends.

    1. AN0N says:

      TOO TRUE

  5. Melissa says:

    Great post! Enjoy the read. Making you feel like the only girl in the room is definitely priceless

  6. Rachael says:

    could go either way… my Best Guy Friend does the same things and he is married to another girl. Guy's I've dated have done these things and gone way off the wall crazy and other's have fallen nicely in to place. It depends on the person. No two people are alike and show their affection the same way. But they are cute thoughts.

  7. rue says:

    umm..i have been together with my boyfriend more than 2 years now..and..more often than not..he didnt even do half of the list..hum..he didnt love me? :(

  8. Tasha says:

    It's sad when your ex did all of these things, and you thought you guys would last :(

    1. calena says:

      Yes, it is heartbreaking to experience the affection and attention and then the relationship ends. That happened to me a couple of months ago, I thought my heart would never recover. I felt true heartbreak. An unexpected gentleman friend has stepted in and offered even more support and attention than I would have ever expercenced with the man who broke up with me. Tasha, you see, I discovered that I was with the wrong man. My new gentleman is over the top better for me than I could have even imagined could even be possible. True love can still touch your heart in an even better way, keep your hope! I have learned a lot from the experience and I believe Love will come again soon for you!

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  10. Kellye says:

    Except when its been almost a year since the guy who did all these things dumped you right in the middle of treating you this way, you cried over him and were miserably heartbroken ever since not understanding what went wrong, and suddenly someone comes into your life,who’s been through more heartache than you, he’s spilling his heart to you, going on church trips with you, telling you that the guy didn’t treat you well enough and then you realize that he really only sees you as a friend and realize that he’s only crazy about talking to you if he happens to run into you….that’s when you know you’re supposed to be alone forever….when his family loves you and they live right down the road and now I live next to a friend I can’t be friends with anymore who lives almost nextdoor. Love sucks.

  11. Jana says:

    It would be great, if all would be so easy…. But at least I know know what to look for.

  12. Thandeka says:

    Mmmm,I am gettin everything from the list,wow,I guess I am the lucky girl.

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  14. Natasha says:

    I've been in a Relationship since Two yrs.
    The last Three months before my Relationship ended, my BoyFriends physical behavior changed.
    I don't know why ? He wanted to have Teenage *** with me, I wasn't prepared to have that : $( *
    The last time we met, he was getting closer & closer to me, touching me.
    We B-R-O-K-E-U-P , I yet long for him
    What should I do?

    1. Relina says:

      Hi Natasha..
      Sorry but you have to move one. there's more to teenage love you know. And your absolutely correct not doing the thing with him, you might regret doing it with him in the future. I know you'll find a perfect match for you, even better that your ex. Good luck! Have a good life!:D

  15. Zein says:

    My best friend is acting all weird he has a girlfriend he's like always to nice to me my friend and I were walking and he saw us and he called me not his girlfriend what should i do help!!?!?!?!??!?!?!?!?

  16. queen says:

    hmmm i was together with my boyfriend more than 3years, them he treat me very well, i was carry way by love,so i thought he,s they for me low and behold at last he dump me with unborn baby since 2010 till now. we went for DNA test he,s the father of the child.

  17. joothika says:

    fine tips. help for me

  18. gillian jones says:

    my man hardly talks with me he visits me it seems only to have sex he dont call me but the sex is fantabulous wat do i do

    1. Moon says:

      Move on. Don't you want someone who respects you? If he's using you, just get rid of him-

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  21. Joy says:

    first time hear bt i believe am d most luckiest one.

  22. janet says:

    too sure

  23. Dun....!???! says:

    I’m a young man of 39, I left a relationship that produced one cute lovely boy with little care & attention from his mother;Who’s probably older than me & also engage in fidelity.I then, decided to go for another nice looking lady of 33years who promised to be kind to my boy & kept up her pretence. She has two cool boys and a sweet girl. This development made me to go for another damsel of 22years, who now have a baby girl of mylooks coz her mother is always fund of but with plenty trouble than the other. Though, she is heavily pregnant. She is more better in love making . Always threatening to leave but gives up when she remembers how we both handle ourselves during♡♡♡and says I have a magic D..I..C…K…! We are all leaving apart since am married to both women doesn’t want us together. Mostly from the senior one. “I believe we will all come under one roof and become one great envious family on earth. Mwah! ….”

  24. Nia says:

    Why can't I see the rest of the article in the black box?

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