Guys Tell Us What They Find Sexy

As much as we may hate to admit this, we ladies definitely do certain things to get a guy’s attention. I mean, we may flip our hair when a cute guy walks by, lick our lips when we see him looking our direction- it’s just human nature! The thing is, we’re girls, but how are we to know what a guy’s really thinking, how are we to know what guys ACTUALLY think is sexy? We may think twirling our hair is cute, they may think it’s ditzy.

Thankfully, the internet is a glorious place and has saved the day and our sanity. A girl asked: “What everyday thing that girls do do you find attractive/sexy?”  Our prayers were answered when men leaped at the chance to add their two cents.  Now I know it’s all subjective, but we can take whatever help we can get!

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    1. Patricia says:

      What a bunch of crap! I bet if it's a big-boobed blonde yes, they like her in sweat/yoga pants, with ponytails and glasses, but if it's a small-breasted short brunette they wouldn't look twice… Plus, I've only seen guys dating complete sl*ts and not really going for the girl who IS shy and doesn't talk much… Guys are such hypocrites!

      1. Lisa says:


      2. aftersometime says:

        so bitter.

      3. Kelsie says:

        Jealous haha. I'm a short, small chested brunette and the gentlemen stare. Also, I have social anxiety, so I'm quite awkward. Also, I'm not a slut and I have a boyfriend. Pull your head out of your ass.

      4. marriagecoach1 says:

        I like small breasted short brunettes, I love petite. Besides, I like perky boobs and they don't sag when you get older

      5. Oscar says:

        I'm a guy and I totally agree with almost everything in this list. Obviously looks are what first attracts you, so im aggreeing with you that we're all shallow to a small extent, but it's all the little weird things that make you fall in love with someone.

        I met a girl a few years ago. when I first saw her i thought she was quite pretty/not bad/ 6 or 7 out of 10 etc. I wasnt 'blown away' by her looks at all, but now that I've got to know her and all her little awkwardnesses and minor character flaws, I would even rate her looks at 10/10. (she's short, has medium boobs, looks a bit mousy and timid and crazy. but now I think she's the most beautiful girl in the world – no kidding)

        be yourself: dont try to be someone else and your inner beauty will shine through. thats what's important.

        I do maintain that looks are still vital for that first (shallow) feeling of attraction, but only up to a point.

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    3. Lauren says:

      "Using full words and sentences while texting me. That shit gets me hard as a rock."
      My panties just hit the floor. Who is this wonderful human being?

      1. A. says:

        Thought the same thing. Hilarious!

      2. Hana says:

        same here.

    4. Ally says:

      I gotta agree to the glasses and messy hair and the whole undone look. I mean I'm low key as it is but when I got glasses I really hated them but guys love them. Sometimes I wear contacts and my boyfriend asks me where my glasses are ahah.

    5. charlotte says:

      well some of that is a load of sh**t, its always if ur a slut then youll get the guys. guys never look at whats on the inside, they always pay attention to whats on the outside (boobs).

      1. only the guys who aren't worth your time!! at the end of the day, guys dont marry a girl just because of her big boobs!

    6. Kay says:

      These are cute, but I have to agree that they seem a little made up and…hopeful? The same way girls say they like nice guys and end up going out with deuchbags; guys say they like shy awkward girls who don't wear makeup and they end up going out with the outspoken party girl who attends beauty school. No one knows what they want, its all a learning experience.

      1. Frank says:

        I'm a man. I agree with Kay. However, the "moments when they put their hair up or let their hair down" is almost always sexy for any man. This is because raising a woman's arms like that makes her breasts stand out. Even if a woman has small breasts it will look wonderfully sexy to a man.

    7. Shanna says:

      I'm with Ally, my husband loves when i wear glasses. He's much taller than me also and he finds it "cute" when i'm on my tip toes trying to reach something out of reach.:)

    8. Carmen says:

      some of these sound too good to be true.

    9. scavanger toss says:

      hey guys which part of the world r u in. in asian subcontinenet guys go pretty much after any girl who cares to reply them atleast once.. its just bcoz they aint got any choise. infact its the girls out here that show attitude and rarely ever like a guy.

    10. marriagecoach1 says:

      I like short skirts and a woman who will deliberately but accidentally on purpose flash me a peek at her sexy panties and no white nylon panties with no lace or color and definitely no cotton panties, cotton panties only belong on little girls and little old ladies

    11. Shannon says:

      I get where most of the girls are coming from first impression are often shallow. But girls are the same way. I am not ashamed to say I can appreciate a man that look fine and put together. But that doesn’t mean that’s all I look for. All I’m saying is the girl that’s wild and will do anyone is not the girl they would take home to mom.

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