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I Think Women are Sexier Than Men, But I’m Not a Lesbian

Women are sexy, and I don’t think you have to be a straight guy or a lesbian to realize that. There are several more “Hottest/Sexiest/Most Beautiful Women” lists in magazines and on the internet than lists about the most attractive men.

Women’s bodies are just more aesthetically pleasing. When I look at a hot woman, I immediately think, “OMG that woman is SO gorgeous.” For me to think a man is gorgeous, I have to take other things into account. Yes, Ryan Gosling has a hot face/body, but would we all love him as much as we do if he didn’t break up fights or save women from getting hit by cars? I don’t think so. It’s the white knight quality that makes him irresistible, but it’s the hair, boobs and curves that make someone like Sofia Vergara sexy.

When I mention any of this to my boyfriend, I think he thinks I’m a secret lesbian. He probably thinks it’s weird, because he doesn’t talk about hot guys like I talk about hot girls (he doesn’t talk about hot guys at all). I’m not a lesbian, I just think girls are way more comfortable with their sexuality than most guys. I don’t have a problem saying Scarlett Johansson has sexy curves, but some guys have a problem if they feel like they even shake hands with another guy for too long.

When I look at a naked woman (like these photos of Kim Kardashian, not porn women), I say to myself “Wow she has amazing boobs and a great ass!” Don’t all women do that? Am I the only one who is interested in looking at other women’s boobs just to see how they compare to mine. Are mine normal? Are Kim’s normal? And also, naked women are just more easy on the eyes than naked men. I think Katy Perry is so hot, and I think she would look amazing naked. I bet her boobs are perfect. However, when it comes to men, I would rather see a shirtless man, not a naked one. I think abs are sexy, but I’ve never looked at a man and thought, “Wow I’d love to see that guy’s penis!” (Balls just aren’t sexy). There’s a reason women’s shirts show chest cleavage, but men’s shorts/jeans don’t show any penis cleavage (whatever that would be).

What do you guys think? Do you think women are sexier than men even though you’re straight? 

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    1. Anony says:

      I disagree a little bit. I mean, I can definitely appreciate when a woman looks good, and I'll be like 'She's really sexy/gorgeous/pretty/etc' no prob. And yes, I think we all do that to a certain degree, compare ourselves to other women. But I find that although I can admire women's bodies/faces/what have you, I'd much rather look at a guy. I find that as a whole I'm more in awe when I see a man, and it doesn't take the whole white knight for me to appreciate it. I'm not sure, but like I said, I do agree with parts of this. ^_^

    2. Alyssa says:

      I totally agree. Often times when I'm walking around campus or in the city, I'll walk by an attractive woman and think to myself, "that is one beautiful woman!"
      Hardly ever do I walk by a guy and have that thought. Sure, sometimes I'll see a really attractive guy and appreciate his good looks briefly, but I think women are just more aesthetically pleasing.
      It seems that other people have felt the same way throughout history, I mean with the exception of the greek sculptures of male athletes, the majority of paintings and art that have people in them are of women and appreciating their beauty.

    3. dametra07 says:

      I agree that women can look at other women and not be a lesbian. Women do tend to be more secure with their sexuality. Penis cleavage<—–hahaha

    4. jane says:

      ok ok well i don't think wow she's gorgeous if I see a hot chick I immediately think of how I'd like to eat her out or squeeze her boobs. I like to stare at chicks behinds as they walk. is this more lesbian territory??

      1. kareno says:

        that's definitely more lesbian. i love looking at girls but i have no desire to hook up with them in any way. not that either is wrong!

    5. Jen says:

      Yeah, I am EXACTLY the same way. I don't think I have EVER seen any guy and thought "I bet he would look great naked!" No dude ever looks sexy naked, regardless of what shape they're in, because the body hair and the weirdness of male genitalia just makes that completely unattractive to me. It definitely takes attaching some kind of story/personality for me to be attracted to any guy.

      I always thought this had more to do with the fact that I'm an art major and it was related more to the fact that women are just more aesthetically pleasing to any eye because of how organic curves are, etc, but I'm glad to know it isn't just me!

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    7. Abby says:

      Definitely agree! I think it comes down to the fact that woman are more sensual which is so sexy.
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    8. George says:

      I understand your sentiments, but you seem to be implying that women are inherently more attractive than men, which is bull. Society has surely you taught you and many others this, both men and women. Women for so long now have been cast as the beautiful and sexy and sensual gender- we see naked women plastered everywhere, smooth, tanned, photoshopped, the whole nine yards- women get to show their bodies in clothes. Men's bodies aren't turned into a commodity by society bc society is still ruled by the patriarchy, and patriarchy has deemed that a man's body is not to be seen (men wear baggy and boy revealing clothing), and the myth is that a man who does show his body or whatever is considered to be 'gay'. Since men aren't expected to look as good as a woman and look good in skimpy clothing or have as impccable hygiene, etc, is it of any surprise that the average woman generally does seem to 'look better' or be 'more attractive' than a man? Men can get away with walking around with bad skin and beer bellies and boring unfashionable clothing, bc society doesn't hold men to that standard. If society actually celebrated the male body like the female body through art, media, etc., men would feel the pressure as strongly as women to achieve greater physical beauty. I truly believe that your feelings are a result of being conditioned to see a woman's body as 'sexy', awhile men are generally not displayed similarly. I also think that you suffer from living in a society where you tend to see many more sloppy and unattractive and unkempt men than women, so this has surely brought you to your conclusion.

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    11. VJ Nair says:

      Oh I am sorry. men and women have equal sex appeal by any standard. It's just that I don't see a guy's sex appeal except in very particular scenarios, since I am straight. But that being said, I can never date a girl who is obsessed with women's beauty more than men's and still says she is not lesbian. That's just not believable somehow. (even with my non-belief in homosexuality). I want my gf to talk about me n my guy parts than another beautiful girl. It's a turn off big time, and I would rather date someone else.

    12. @Knotches says:

      I'm going to break this down for you gals so you can see how unusual you all sound

      Gay man: I find a man's body clothed or naked to be so beautiful and sexy it causes me so much pleasure and i always look when i see a sexy guy i could masturbate and orgasm looking at naked men. But naked women and clothed women i don't even turn my head for them because i don't want them sexually. I'm a Gay Man

      Lesbian women: I find a woman's body clothed or naked to be so beautiful and sexy it causes me so much pleasure and i always look when i see a sexy woman i could masturbate and orgasm looking at naked women. But naked men and clothed men i don't even turn my head for them because i don't want them sexually. I'm a Lesbain Woman

      Straight Men: I find a woman's body clothed or naked to be so beautiful and sexy it causes me so much pleasure and i always look when i see a sexy woman i could masturbate and orgasm looking at naked women. But naked men and clothed men i don't even turn my head for them because i don't want them sexually. I'm a Straight Man

      Straight Women PART 1: I find a woman's body clothed or naked to be so beautiful and sexy it causes me so much pleasure and i always look when i see a sexy looking woman clothed or naked. But naked men and clothed men i don't even turn my head for them if i do its briefly. I'm not a lesbian thou i'm a straight woman and i love my boyfriend.

      Straight Women PART 2: I find a woman's body clothed or naked to be so beautiful and sexy it causes me so much pleasure and i always look when i see a sexy woman i could masturbate and orgasm looking at naked women and lesbian porn is the only thing that gets me off. But naked men and clothed men i don't even turn my head for them because i don't want them sexually. I'm not a lesbian thou i'm a straight woman and i love my boyfriend. I would never have sex with a woman thou its repulsive i like men.

      Now i'm not trying to be rude but something has to be wrong with your brain if you don't see something wrong with being a Straight Woman and only turning your head and admiring a hot girl not a hot guy. Are you girls sure your not lesbians or gay because the way your taking is like 1+1=3 when its really supposed to equal 1.

    13. @Knotches says:

      I'm going to break this down for you gals so you can see how unusual you all sound

      I'm going to break this down for you gals so you can see how unusual you all sound

      Gay man: I find a man's body clothed or naked to be so beautiful and sexy it causes me so much pleasure and i always look when i see a sexy guy i could masturbate and orgasm looking at naked men. But naked women and clothed women i don't even turn my head for them because i don't want them sexually. I'm a Gay Man

      Lesbian women: I find a woman's body clothed or naked to be so beautiful and sexy it causes me so much pleasure and i always look when i see a sexy woman i could masturbate and orgasm looking at naked women. But naked men and clothed men i don't even turn my head for them because i don't want them sexually. I'm a Lesbain Woman

      Straight Men: I find a woman's body clothed or naked to be so beautiful and sexy it causes me so much pleasure and i always look when i see a sexy woman i could masturbate and orgasm looking at naked women. But naked men and clothed men i don't even turn my head for them because i don't want them sexually. I'm a Straight Man

      Straight Women PART 1: I find a woman's body clothed or naked to be so beautiful and sexy it causes me so much pleasure and i always look when i see a sexy looking woman clothed or naked. But naked men and clothed men i don't even turn my head for them if i do its briefly. I'm not a lesbian thou i'm a straight woman and i love my boyfriend.

      Straight Women PART 2: I find a woman's body clothed or naked to be so beautiful and sexy it causes me so much pleasure and i always look when i see a sexy woman i could masturbate and orgasm looking at naked women and lesbian porn is the only thing that gets me off. But naked men and clothed men i don't even turn my head for them because i don't want them sexually. I'm not a lesbian thou i'm a straight woman and i love my boyfriend. I would never have sex with a woman thou its repulsive i like men.

      Now i'm not trying to be rude but something has to be wrong with your brain if you don't see something wrong with being a Straight Woman and only turning your head and admiring a hot girl not a hot guy. Are you girls sure your not lesbians or gay because the way your taking is like 1+1=3 when its really supposed to equal 1.

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