Contrary to popular belief, ignorance is not always bliss. This is especially true when it comes to pregnancy scares, genital warts, and gay boyfriends. No one wants to be that girl insisting that her boyfriend is straight every time he orders an apple martini from the bar or the friend everybody is whispering about because her boyfriend has more sparkle and pizzazz than Richard Simmons. Now, most girls are pretty good at spotting the needle in a heterosexual haystack, but if you are one of the unfortunate girls that mother nature forgot to grant an amazing gaydar to, don’t fret. Here are a few ways you can tell if your new boo likes the same thing as you do.