It feels like just yesterday we hadn’t met our dream BFF Rachel Lindsay and The Bachelorette was a very different (and much less attractive) show. Who were we before Peter K. blessed our eyes? Unsure.
We rooted for each of the couples from every season to make it, hoping that the leading ladies would find their dream men. Now, here we are years later… And it’s kinda happened? In some cases, at least. Who’s still together? Who broke up? Spoiler alert: a lot of them broke up.
Check out the update on each of the Bachelorette couples from seasons past.
1. Trista Rehn & Ryan Sutter
They’re still together! Trista and Ryan have two children, Max and Blakesley, and have been together for 14 years.
2. Meredith Phillips & Ian McKee
This couple was short-lived, breaking up in February 2005. Six years later, season two’s makeup artist married her high school sweetheart, Michael Broady. She eventually talked about her battle with alcoholism in the hopes of raising awareness about the disease, but has mainly stayed out of the spotlight.
3. Jen Schefft & Jerry Ferris
Jen isn’t very active on social media, keeping herself busy as a mom. Her end to the show was controversial, with Schefft rejecting both men from her season before eventually settling down with Chicago PR exec Joe Waterman in 2009. She has two children with Waterman, Mae and Charlotte. On Twitter, she says that she doesn’t watch the show, but does mention she would have loved to see Caila Quinn as a bachelorette.
4. DeAnna Pappas & Jesse Csincsak
Pappas and Csincsak were supposed to be married in May of 2009, but they broke it off in November 2008. Since then, Pappas married a high school teacher named Stephen Stagliano in 2011. They have two kids, Addison and Austin. Stagliano’s brother would go on to appear on the fifth season of The Bachelorette. Csincsak moved on to marry another Bachelor alum, Ann Lueders of season 13.
5. Jillian Harris & Ed Swiderski
Harris and Swiderski broke up soon after their season wrapped. She is engaged to Justin Pasutto and they have a child together. Swiderski married news reporter Natalie Bomke.
6. Ali Fedotowsky & Roberto Martinez
Fedotowsky and Martinez broke up about a year after their season ended, but remain friends. She continues to have a career in the public eye, and recently welcomed a baby, Molly, with her husband, Kevin Manno.
7. Ashley Hebert & J.P. Rosenbaum
These two are still together! They married in 2012, with their wedding airing on ABC. They have two children, Fordham and Essex.
8. Emily Maynard & Jef Holm
Emily and Jef’s relationship was short-lived, ending a few months after The Bachelorette ended. Maynard went on to release a book, start her own lifestyle blog and marry an old friend, Tyler Johnson. They have two sons, Jennings and Gibson.
9. Desiree Hartsock & Chris Siegfried
All I need is a pocket tee. 💙Still in relaxation mode after such a wonderful sunny weekend spent with the fam but the amount of boxes that still need to be opened and organized are haunting me. 😫 Where's the village when I need them? #takesavillage #movingproblems #ratherbeplaying photo: @katieparraphoto
Another couple that’s actually still together! Desiree and Chris have been married since 2015. They live in Seattle and just welcome their first child, Asher, in 2016.
10. Andi Dorfman & Josh Murray
Andi and Josh broke things off less than a year after their engagement. Andi is single, while Josh dated and proposed to a fellow Bachelor alum, Amanda Stanton, though they broke up in December of 2016.
11. Kaitlyn Bristowe & Shawn Booth
Bristowe and Booth are still engaged!
12. Jojo Fletcher & Jordan Rodgers
Though their relationship seems to always bring the drama, Jojo and Jordan are still engaged.
13. Rachel Lindsay & ?
Though spoilers claim to know the winner, but we can be sure of is that Rachel is engaged and totally in love. We can’t wait to see how this season ends!