What Guys Wish Women Did In Bed, According to The Dude
“The time has come,” the Dude hath said, “to speak of many things, of threeways, tits, and public sex, and usage of cock rings.” We’re through the looking glass today, Ladies. I’ve gone years of Dude’s Lists without addressing this particular topic but I could hold back no longer.
The Secret Tip for Having Mind-Blowing Sex! [Sexy Time]
I was scouring the web looking for inspiration for this week’s column, and after the billionth “How to Blow Your Man’s Mind” article, I reached the zenith of irritation. Not only are all of those articles redundant (the answer is always anal or BJs), heterosexist (not all ladies date guys, and lesbians do read mainstream media sites), but they’re so disempowering.

“I Want To Do This With Your…” Bringing Dirty Talk To The Bedroom
No one wants to blurt out a few XXX words in the heat of the moment only to realize they sound ridiculous. But have no fear, we’ll show you the basics on how to start talking dirty in the bedroom.
What Does Your Favorite Sex Position Say About You?
We are creatures of habit. Everything we repeatedly do says something about who we are as people. You repeatedly order vanilla ice ream? People say you’re bland and hate taking risks. You make list after list for everything? People say you’re anal and need to loosen up more. The same goes for your favorite sex position.
Bachelorette Partying 101 [Ask Tuffy Luv]
I have to go to a bachelorette party, but I’ve never been to one. What are we going to do? Where are we likely to go? What should I wear?
Want to Win a Break Up? Get Fake Happy.
In every break up there is a definite winner and a definite loser. Someone who comes out of it all bright eyed and happy as if they just got out of rehab and someone who comes out looking like rehab is probably their best option.
Looking for Your Soul Mate? Here Are 6 Tips to Help You Recognize Him or Her
Do soul mates exist? When I was younger I’d say yes, and although I’ve gone through some rough turns in my early-adult life, I still think they’re out there. I am not sure how to define them, or if there is even one universal definition for what they are and how we find them.

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What Should I Get Him For Graduation? [Ask A Dude]
I want to get my boyfriend a gift for graduation, but I’m stumped. My budget would preferably be below $100 since I’m a poor student myself, so fancy watches and gadgets might not be the most realistic for me.
The First Date From Hell, As Told By Tina Fey .Gifs
We’ve all had that horrible first date from hell. You get food in your teeth. He talks about his ex. You’re getting super uncomfortable and then everything is a disaster after that.
9 Super Fun (and Cheap!) Dates to Go On With Your Boo
I love treating my boyfriend to a fun date every now and then. I think it makes him happy. The only problem with this is that sometimes money is a little tight.
10 Songs for the Perfect Make-Out Sesh
Something that is a must during those first few amazing make-out sessions with a new boo is the tunes that you’re grooving to in the background.
How to Give a Man the Best Orgasm of His Life
Everybody knows the way to a man’s heart might be through his stomach, but the way to keep a man’s heart is through another organ.

On Finding “The One” and Knowing When To Keep Looking [Dear DBN]
“You’ll know.” We always hear that when on the hunt for our great loves, but it’s rarely mentioned that “you’ll know” is about one week of bliss, and everything prior and everything after is a struggle. It’s worth it, but it’s a struggle. This week, how to keep going when the goal seems unattainable and when to bunker down when the goal is just so-so.