The Secret Tip for Having Mind-Blowing Sex! [Sexy Time]
I was scouring the web looking for inspiration for this week’s column, and after the billionth “How to Blow Your Man’s Mind” article, I reached the zenith of irritation. Not only are all of those articles redundant (the answer is always anal or BJs), heterosexist (not all ladies date guys, and lesbians do read mainstream media sites), but they’re so disempowering.
Bachelorette Partying 101 [Ask Tuffy Luv]
I have to go to a bachelorette party, but I’ve never been to one. What are we going to do? Where are we likely to go? What should I wear?

What Should I Get Him For Graduation? [Ask A Dude]
I want to get my boyfriend a gift for graduation, but I’m stumped. My budget would preferably be below $100 since I’m a poor student myself, so fancy watches and gadgets might not be the most realistic for me.
On Finding “The One” and Knowing When To Keep Looking [Dear DBN]
“You’ll know.” We always hear that when on the hunt for our great loves, but it’s rarely mentioned that “you’ll know” is about one week of bliss, and everything prior and everything after is a struggle. It’s worth it, but it’s a struggle. This week, how to keep going when the goal seems unattainable and when to bunker down when the goal is just so-so.
How To Know If Your Boyfriend Is Gay
No one wants to be that girl insisting that her boyfriend is straight every time he orders an apple martini from the bar or the friend everybody is whispering about because her boyfriend has more sparkle and pizzazz than Richard Simmons.
Why Can’t Guys Admit They Like Spooning? [Ask A Dude]
Never have I encountered a guy who threw his hands up and told me to get away when I went in for a cuddle sesh, and I’ve even woken up in the middle of the night not a few time to find that my bedmate wound himself around me all on his own.
On Discerning the Misguided Good Guys From the Outright Creeps [Dear DBN]
Sometimes people are creeps and all you really need is an outsider to tell you so. This week, when skeevy behavior should be forgiven and when it definitely shouldn’t.

Around the Web

Conquering the Perfect Date Night Outfit [Ask Tuffy Luv]
What’s the sexiest outfit ever? I have a really hot date with a guy I want to get with and go out with that I’ve had a crush on forever. What do I wear?
This Adorable, Tiny Child Gives College Guys a Lesson in Dating [Video]
While your crush is out ignoring your texts and definitely maybe hitting on other girls, bb boy Cole wants to sweep you off your feet with this little video he made called “The Extra Mile”.
Why Is My Boyfriend Treating Our Relationship As Though It’s a Chore? [Ask A Dude]
Since a couple months ago, however, I’ve noted that my boyfriend has started to view our relationship as a sentence that he’s locked into. When I tell him one of my friends is having a birthday dinner, he drags his feet and makes up excuses as to why he can’t make it.
How to Reject a Guy When You’re Just Not That Into Him
Sometimes, guys don’t take hints very well–so we need to be assertive and clear, but also don’t rip his heart out and tear it into shreads, y’know?
On Not Being Jerked Around By An Unworthy Guy [Dear DBN]
Are you being tooled around? Listening to guys make false promises left and right? We all want so badly to be treated like queens that we forget to treat ourselves that way. This week, we take no prisoners, and we take no bullshit.

What to Do When the Sadness Becomes a Little Too Much [Ask Tuffy Luv]
We all get sad sometimes. It’s natural. And it’s okay. Look, we live in a culture where we’re supposed to be happy ALL THE TIME. And that’s so unnatural. Sadness motivates us. Sadness helps us become empathetic. Sadness helps us learn to become better people.