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10 Things All Women Need to Know About Men
There’s no way around it, ladies — they’re on this earth with us for the next million years (or at the very least, until we learn how to procreate on our own), so we might as well get with it. And since there’s absolutely no escaping the crux of the male existence, there are quite a few things all women need to learn about our male counterparts.
How Do I Let Him Know I’m Interested? [Ask A Dude]
The bars are such a chaotic scene and I don’t want to look like an idiot making do-me eyes at everyone I bump into. In places that aren’t exactly conducive to extensive conversation, do you have any advice for getting guys’ attention and letting them know you’re interested in a tactful, tasteful way?

Why Does Sex Always Hurt Me? [Ask Tuffy Luv]
I don’t know what is wrong with me, but I think my vagina is too tight/small. Although I have been having sex for almost a year, it is still often painful afterwards (if not during), and it snaps back to it’s original state.
On Backing Down and Backing Off Gracefully [Dear DBN]
Are you entangled? Irritated? Frustrated with unrequited love? This week, just back off and let it go because these knights in shining armor are just tools in costume.
How Do I Do Damage Control With This Guy? [Ask A Dude]
One thing about me is that when I like a guy, I just want to be around him and I yearn to talk to him, even if it’s just about stupid trivial things. Unfortunately, this always lands me in the friend zone. I am scared I’ve blown my chances with him in terms of being in a romantic relationship.
How To Deal When Your Friends Don’t Like Your Boyfriend
This is a typical “best friend hates boyfriend” situation. It happens all the time, but you could be blind to it if you like totally love your boyfriend.
On Calling It What It Is…And Finding Out What It Isn’t [Dear DBN]
Humans are a curious breed, always seeking explanations to questions that don’t have definitive answers: What’s the meaning of life? Is there life outside our universe? Are we exclusive, or what? This week, what role do labels play in relationships?

5 New Years Resolutions That Will Save Your Sex Life [Sexy Time]
Tis the season to make better choices. Beyond making promises to eat better, get in shape, stop procrastinating and other perfectly admirable goals, it’s time to reevaluate your sexual choices. Contrary to what Girls or Thought Catalog would have you believe, being a young adult doesn’t have to mean a constant litany of awful decisions that leave you feeling disgusting or unfulfilled.
“Do Guys Want You To Brush Your Teeth After…?” [Ask A Dude]
Never, NEVER, have I had a guy tell me to go brush my teeth afterwards if I wanted to continue the makeout sesh. Have I been living in Lala Land? Should I start bringing along mini-bottles of Scope with me to my dates’ apartments?
How to Survive New Year’s Eve When You’re Single
I feel like New Year’s Eve celebrators fall into three camps: 1. The coupled-up, super excited girl. 2. The single, but desperately hoping for a midnight kiss person. 3. The single, but really just wanting to party with friends person. I’ll say a quick hello to the coupled up people, but this post is not for you. It’s for the single ladies.
Ask Him Out Already!! [Ask Tuffy Luv]
At first my girlfriends were pretty convinced that he liked me, but after our movie date (if it even was a date), they aren’t sure. When we parted ways, we both said we had a great time and that we hoped to see each other soon, but I didn’t get a text afterwards. Is it worth pining after this boy, or should I take my “three day rule” girlfriend’s advice and just get over it?
On Making Up and Moving On [Dear DBN]
Mistakes and mishaps riddle our lives and their ability to haunt us is only amplified by our own inability to forgive them. You can grieve being made a fool, or you can accept it and get on with your life. This week, when to forgo the pity-party and move on.
“Do I Need To Go Bare Down There…?” [Ask A Dude]
I know everyone has different tastes when it comes to sex, and I applaud him for voicing his preferences respectfully. That said, I still have a weird voice in the back of my head telling me that men shouldn’t want their girlfriends, etc. completely bare down there…
Have I Never Had an Orgasm? [Ask Tuffy Luv]
I don’t know what I’m doing wrong, but I don’t think I’ve had an orgasm in my life. I’ve had sex with 3 guys to date but I still haven’t got that feeling… Is there something fundamentally wrong with me? Or do I simply don’t have an idea of what an orgasm feels like??! Help me, I wanna be wowed!!!
On Second Dates and Sexy Texts [Dear DBN]
It’s your call what lights your world and what doesn’t. It’s also your call whether or not to pursue it or pass on it. This week, when they deserve a second chance and when you do, too.
How Do I Get Him a Gift Without Making Him Think I’m Asking to Get Serious? [Ask A Dude]
With the holiday season upon us, I wanted to know if it would be appropriate to get him a gift. I wasn’t planning on setting up a formal “gift exchange” dinner or anything, but every now and again I’m in a store and see something that makes me think, “Ahh, he would love this!”