• Tuffy Luv Has Conniptions

    Tuffy Luv Has Conniptions

    Dear Tuffy Luv, The last two years have been a whirlwind for me. I was really overweight pretty much all throughout high school and was really shy/awkward towards anyone who I didn’t know very well. A year after I graduated high school, I decided to start losing weight and since then have lost nearly sixty pounds. I still have a little weight to lose, but this new body of mine has definitely caused me to feel more comfortable with myself, and the male attention has increased drastically

  • Ring Ring: Your Orgasm’s Calling

    Ring Ring: Your Orgasm’s Calling

    Are you currently suffering in a long distance relationship? Feeling lonely with all those miles between you and your hot, sexy boyfriend? The LDR can be a tough thing. Boy do we know it!

  • Single. Though Someday, Maybe Not

    Single. Though Someday, Maybe Not

    After a hard week for this single girl last week, with the flashbacks to my own rough break up, it’s good to have a vague hope that while things might not be swinging my way right now, someday they will. And maybe when that day comes, it will be with someone I already know and love.

  • When Dating Philosophies Collide

    When Dating Philosophies Collide

    Recently, I met a guy. (Whew, crazy right?!). I met him at work – he was visiting the racetrack (I work up in the press box) with a large group of his buddies. They were enduring a bachelor party so had shimmied over on a nice little margarita buzz.

  • Ask A Dude: My Ex Won’t Be My Friend

    Ask A Dude: My Ex Won’t Be My Friend

    Dear Dude, My boyfriend and I recently broke up. I told him we could still be friends and everything wouldn’t be awkward. Then I find out a couple days later he deleted me as a friend on Facebook. What confuses me is that he is not the first ex to delete me. In fact my other last 2 exes have deleted me as a friend on Facebook as well.

  • It’s Complicated:  It’s Not Just a Facebook Status

    It’s Complicated: It’s Not Just a Facebook Status

    I think it was the genius singer-songwriter Avril Lavigne who brought up the ever important question…”Why did you have to go and make things so complicated?” Man, do we complicate things. Sometimes things are so easy, almost simple, and we somehow make things harder than they are.

  • Tuffy Luv Camps Her Fist in Your Face

    Tuffy Luv Camps Her Fist in Your Face

    Dear Tuffy Luv, My college program keeps me and my friends in school full time in the summer. I was totally excited to be back at school after our winter internships and see all my friends. Everything was going totally swell. The weather was great and we had one midterm left to go so we started planning a beach trip/camping trip.

  • 5 More Things I’ve Learned From My LDR

    5 More Things I’ve Learned From My LDR

    A few weeks into our new LDR, reality set in and I was down and out, wishing someone had taken me aside and told me what to expect from such a difficult situation. I shared those lessons with you, so anyone diving into their first LDR would know what to expect. Now, months later, I am still learning and still struggling.

  • Sexy Time: Not Getting Any

    Sexy Time: Not Getting Any

    It wasn’t until I stopped having sex that I realized how sexualized everything has become. Every TV show, every movie, every magazine picture, and every song is some way related to sex. To quote Superbad, “You know what kinds of foods are shaped like dicks? The BEST kinds.”

  • Ask a Dude: Should I Get Implants?

    Ask a Dude: Should I Get Implants?

    Hey Dude, I have issues with self-esteem. Even though I know I’m fairly attractive, dress pretty well, and don’t have a problem getting guys attracted to me, I have no boobs. Yes, I’m flat, and it’s not like I’m super skinny so my body just looks way out of proportion. I have contemplated plastic surgery just so that I can feel completely comfortable showing off my body.

  • When It Comes to Dating, Should You Be Channeling Your Inner G.I.Joe?

    When It Comes to Dating, Should You Be Channeling Your Inner G.I.Joe?

    When I was in college one of my boyfriends would always quote G. I. Joe to me. Whenever I said “Well now I know,” he would chime in with Joe’s famous line “and knowing is half the battle.” I was always thought it was cute because he was cute and it was one of “our things.” Give me a break, I was smitten.

  • Tuffy Luv Says: This Guy Sucks

    Tuffy Luv Says: This Guy Sucks

    Dear Tuffy Luv, 3 months ago, I ended a 3.5 year relationship. 3 weeks later, I jumped back on the horse, hoping just to get some rebound action. I met an incredible guy who embodied everything I ever wanted: he’s the smartest guy I’ve ever met, he makes me laugh harder than anyone ever has, and our chemistry is off the charts. 2 weeks later we were “official.” But things got out of hand quickly.

  • Celebrity Dating Advice: How To Get Your Man to Commit

    Celebrity Dating Advice: How To Get Your Man to Commit

    Getting a man is tough stuff. Getting a man to marry you…now that’s nearly impossible. Luckily the stars can once again be our guides and help sad women everywhere navigate the rocky path to monogamy. Get out a paper and pencil; you’ll want to remember all the golden advice recent celebrity brides are doling out.