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Tuffy Luv Sez Kick Senioritis to the Curb
What can I do to be more motivated and inspired with my studies? I just don’t know what to do. I’ve tried changing study habits, planning things out, and I’ve even tried to surround myself with people who have high work ethic and an energetic drive about school.
Are Romantic Relationships Just Power Struggles? [Diary of the Undateable]
My friend Bernard called me on Tuesday night, almost in tears. His girlfriend of six months, Tierra, was threatening to break up with him. Though they’ve only been official for a while, they’ve been through so much – including promise rings and pregnancy scares.

On The Difference Between an Adventure and A Bad Idea [Dear DBN]
Adventures come in all shapes and sizes. There’s a difference between joy-riding down the highway in your sweet new car versus joy-riding down the highway drunk in your dad’s new car. This week, take a risk because the adventure is one you want to take, not because someone else wants to.
“Do I Give Him The Boot Because He Won’t Return After I Give?” [Ask A Dude]
I’ve started hooking up with a guy who seems great in every way but one — he’s a little selfish in the bedroom. He gets his every time, whether it’s through oral or old fashioned sex, and leaves me to fend for myself.
29 More Sex Tips From Sexperts
Last year we brought you 29 Sex Tips From Sexperts and this year we’re back with 29 more “Dos and Don’ts” from sex doctors, coaches, columnists and authors.
Avoiding Holiday Awkwardness [Diary of the Undateable]
I can talk about my dating struggles to my friends, to my classmates and to you guys. But when my family asks me about them, it’s a whole ‘nother story. I don’t want to be the black sheep, the one that ends up being on receiving end of a blind date or constantly put on non-marital watch.
10 Ways Men Show Love
Winter has me all sorts of feeling things about everyone’s favorite “l” word. I actually have already watched Love, Actually about a dozen times and it’s not even December yet. I can’t help it though, the cold weather just makes me want to snuggle!

On Being Self-Aware…Without the Self-Destruction [Dear DBN]
When you feel wronged it’s easy to slip into sadness, but in order to move forward, you need to slip into something a little more fierce. This week, how to be self-aware enough to not be self-destructive.
When Sex Hurts [Sexy Time]
When I first started having sex, I was so excited to be doing it that I totally glossed over all the things that sucked about it. Like the learning curve of figuring out how to contort your body for maximum pleasure. Or the fact that even with condoms, it was always a bit of a mess to clean up. Or, dear god, the fact that sometimes it hurt past the point of pleasure.
Do Guys Still Care About Leg Hair? [Ask A Dude]
The weather is getting a bit colder, so I’m getting a bit lazier and . . . during the winter months I tend to skimp on shaving my old gams. Would the guy I’m dating be freaked out by my beastly legs or is it NBD?
Tuffy Luv Sez: Platonic?! More like NO.
I hung out with one guy for about 8 hours; we just talked and really connected, and he told me how great a person I was and how I was so different from other girls, blah blah blah. We didn’t do anything but talk and the conversation was great; I thought for sure I’d found a great friend.
6 Easy Ways To Get Him Out Of Bed The Next Morning
Then it’s the next morning, and you’ve got somewhere to be, and there’s a snoring guy in your bed. And you’re pissed. Look, it’s okay. We’ve all been there. Right? Well CollegeCandy is doing all you go-getters a solid.
11 Tips To Having Sex at Your Parents’ Place These Holidays [Dude's List]
Thanksgiving has come and gone but that leaves Channukah, Christmas and Kwanza to potentially…
On Taking a Beat Before Defining the Relationship [Dear DBN]
So you met somebody. That’s cool. They want to date you. That’s cool, too. But you’re freshly single, just out of a relationship, learning about yourself, kumbayah and self-exploration, whatever. This week, should you DTR?
3 Ways You Can Tell If He Likes You
He held your hand, but he didn’t kiss you goodnight. He texted you that he had a great time, but didn’t ask for a follow up date. He says you’re basically amazing, but he hasn’t proposed yet. Wait…what? JKing with the last one, but come on.
How to Keep Long-Term Relationships Exciting [He Said/She Said]
When you’ve been with someone for a long time, it takes just that extra bit of effort to keep things fresh and both people happy. So what can you do?