advice from a dude

How Do I Introduce Him To My Dad? [Ask A Dude]
So I’ve got a BIG problem, and I don’t have any clue what to do. I’ve been dating this guy for almost 8 months, and we’re crazy about each other. We’re basically that couple that’s so in love no one can stand to eat around us. Here’s the problem: I’m fairly certain my ultra conservative, Republican dad is going to hate him.
Ask A Dude: What’s The Best Way To Meet Guy Friends?
What is the best way to meet good guy friends? I’m not talking boyfriend prospects, just good friends. I recently transferred to a new university and have always been “one of the guys”…how do I get a good group without being asked out on dates?

Why “GIRLS” Is The WORST New Show On TV
The cat’s been out of the bag for several days now; “GIRLS” has arrived, and it’s probably the most disappointing debut of a show in recent memory.
Should You Have Sex On The First Date? [Ask A Dude]
What do guys really think of sex on the first date? Is it a deal breaker? I feel like if you have a genuine connection with someone, and the sex is awesome, shouldn’t that make them want you more? Or does it completely take the fun out of the chase? I’ve had one long term relationship start out of sex on the first date. I’ve had other guys never call me again. What’s the deal?
11 Signs He’s A Cheater! [Dude's List]
All men are capable of cheating. Hell, all people are! Let’s not pretend that there aren’t temptations and that there aren’t opportunities. There are times when it’s just a slip and then there are other times when it’s a damn Charlie Chaplin sketch. The question is, how do you know if he’s cheating on you?
How To Turn Down A Date
There are infinite amount of ways to ask someone out because there are infinite amount of situations that it can come up in. And for as many ways that there are to ask, there are as many ways to reject. You could probably write it as an equation: X number of attempts = X number of rejections which can be rewritten as X attempts to procreate = X number of ways to get kicked in the nut sack.
Is Marriage A Deal Breaker? [Ask A Dude]
I’ve been dating this guy for a few months, and we really get along phenomenally. We have a lot in common, including our sense of humor, we love to go on adventures and the sex is fantastic. Marriage came up in conversation the other day, because one of his friends is unhappily married. During the conversation he revealed that he didn’t believe in marriage and would never marry.

12 Places To Get It On Before You Graduate
You’ll take a lot of memories with you from the journey from duckling Freshman to swan Senior, but there will also be some regrets. Some of those regrets are going to haunt you for the rest of your life, or until you get a good paying job, which in this economy might mean the rest of your life. And of those regrets, potentially chief among them are not having sex in places you wish you would have.
Ask A Dude: Are We Going To Have Great Sex?
I want to save my virginity until I’m married. But I’ve heard that there are people out there who don’t mesh well in the bedroom. Is it a possibility that on my wedding night I’ll find out that I’ve pledged my life to someone who will never be able to satisfy me, and I’ll never be able to satisfy him?
How Do I Know If He’s Blowing Me Off? [Ask a Dude]
So I met this guy around Christmas time, and we really hit it off. We hung out a lot until we both had to go home for Christmas break. The momentum kind of died, and when we both got back into town, he started emailing me a lot. I asked him why he hadn’t tried to see me, and he gave the typical busy with school and work excuse. I wrote it off as him blowing me off, but the guy hasn’t stopped emailing and facebooking me! Does he really just want to be my digital friend?
Ask A Dude: Am I More Sexual Than Him?
What can a girl do if she’s more sexual than her guy? I never thought I would run into this problem, but I guess there’s a first to everything. I think I like sex more than the guy I am dating. Is he not sexually attracted to me? Is it possible that he’s just not that sexual? How do I talk to him about it?
Ask A Dude: Help! What Do I Do About My Suicidal BF?
I’ve been dating a guy for about a year now, he is 27 years old and I’m 24. We haven’t had any arguments because we’ve generally been very open and honest with each other. We’ve done the whole meet the family and discussion of the future talks… However, my problem is that recently he hasn’t been speaking to me (it’s been almost a month!).
Ask A Dude: Am I Un-Dateable Because I’m Medicated?
Do guys flee when they find out a girl takes medication? My home life has led me to take medication for depression and general anxiety disorder. Both disorders run in my family, so it was only a matter of time. My last boyfriend was in high school when things with my family started to go downhill. I thought we were serious enough that I could tell him anything, so I told him I took medication for a chemical imbalance.
Dude’s List: 11 Things Women Should NOT Give Up For Lent
Being as this is the season of Lent, when good Catholic boys and girls are sacrificing one of their favorite luxuries for 40 days, I started to wonder, how productive an idea is this for the 21st century? I’m all for penance, don’t get me wrong, love me some BDSM, but while you can give up certain things, are their ones that you shouldn’t give up?
Ask A Dude: I’ve Fallen For A Gay Guy!
I started college this year and I live in an all freshmen honors dorm. I met a guy who lives on my floor. He is adorable, funny, nerdy, sweet, a bit arrogant and I love being around him. Considering I’ve liked him for a few months, I put on my big girl panties and told him how I felt. He comes back and tells me he is gay. F*ck. F*ck. F*ck.
Ask A Dude: Am I Using Him or Is He Using Me?
I moved to a new city not too long ago after graduating college. I met a boy immediately after getting here and we really hit it off. That same week, we ended up fooling around pretty heavily, but when I admitted I was a virgin, he started to back away. He contacted me frequently via phone, but we never really got together again — that is, until this past week.