What’s a Girl To Do About The Guy Who Keeps Coming Back? [Ask A Dude]
I’ve been FWB’ing with someone for a while. Over the course of the years we’ve known each other, we’ll occasionally have a huge blow-out argument, after which we go our separate ways. This will last a few months, and then slowly and certainly this guy comes back.
How Do I Get Him a Gift Without Making Him Think I’m Asking to Get Serious? [Ask A Dude]
With the holiday season upon us, I wanted to know if it would be appropriate to get him a gift. I wasn’t planning on setting up a formal “gift exchange” dinner or anything, but every now and again I’m in a store and see something that makes me think, “Ahh, he would love this!”

Do Guys Still Care About Leg Hair? [Ask A Dude]
The weather is getting a bit colder, so I’m getting a bit lazier and . . . during the winter months I tend to skimp on shaving my old gams. Would the guy I’m dating be freaked out by my beastly legs or is it NBD?
How Do I Tell Him I’m Bored In Bed? [Ask A Dude]
My boyfriend is super sweet and we’ve been together for over a year now and I feel really bad even thinking this, but he has gotten kind of boring in bed. I wonder if he is less attracted to me or if I’m just bored of his usual moves.
Is He Saying I’m Ugly? [Ask A Dude]
The guy that I am dating, like actually dating (none of that ‘it’s complicated’ business) does this really annoying thing. I think it’s mean, hurtful and degrading. He points out other girls’ flaws all the time. He’ll say something about a girl’s flat chest or crooked teeth. What’s worse is that the stuff he points out are often things that I am self-conscious about. I feel like he is making fun of me when he makes fun of them. Does he think that I’m ugly?
What If His Friends Hate Me? [Ask A Dude]
My boyfriend and I have been dating for a few months and every time we go out with his friends I can tell they don’t like me. These dudes are giving me some serious side-eye and are super passive aggressive.
Why Do Guys Take So Long To Text Back? [Ask A Dude]
I’m not looking for volumes of prose sent via SMS, but a semi-prompt answer to my “Wanna catch a movie Friday?” invitation would be swell.

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Can I Date My Ex’s BFF? [Ask A Dude]
I crushed on his friend a little, but I was convinced that my Ex was the one for me. Now that we have broken up (he dumped me and was apparently flirting with other girls), I regret not choosing his friend.
He Said I love you…I Can’t Say It Back
This happens. Sh*t happens. And all we can do is ask the question, “What’s next?”
Why NOT To Get Back With Your Ex
Man, where do you even start with this? I mean, he’s that guy who was there with you for a really crucial time in your life, you know?
Why’d He Ask To Get Serious And Then Disappear? [Ask A Dude]
Fast forward one week and I don’t hear from him at all. I text him a few times and don’t hear back. I asked him to talk and when he called me he got very defensive.
The Secret To Keeping A Great Relationship Going
I mean, seriously, what happens? Something must. Something changes. Everything started out so well–the great sex, talks that lasted until sunrise, spooning ‘til class at noon, clothes were optional, and fun was constant.

Why Won’t He Leave The “Friend Zone”?
The time’s come. You lean in for that first kiss. You’ve known each other for years/months/weeks/days/hours. There’s this connection between you, he understands you, every moment together is stress free and sexual tension filled! Just as your lips are about to reach his…he turns the other cheek…which is the equivalent of taking a shat in your hat then offering it to you for wear. WHY? What happened? Did you grow another head? Was there not enough Dewars?