• We Hooked Up And Now He’s Backed Off! WTF? [Ask A Dude]

    We Hooked Up And Now He’s Backed Off! WTF? [Ask A Dude]

    So I recently hooked up with one of my best guy friends. I was ridiculously drunk and he was well on his way.

  • The Golden Rule For Your Job Interview

    The Golden Rule For Your Job Interview

    I’ve been on a bunch of job interviews. I’ve been interviewed by one person, a panel of three, in multiple cities, for varying sizes of companies, and for everything from retail to administrative to creative positions.

  • What Are The Rules To An Open Relationship? [Ask A Dude]

    What Are The Rules To An Open Relationship? [Ask A Dude]

    So I’ve heard about people having “open” relationships, but I don’t hear about a lot of them that ever end up well. So I guess my question is: what are the rules to an open relationship?

  • The Secret To Keeping A Great Relationship Going

    The Secret To Keeping A Great Relationship Going

    I mean, seriously, what happens? Something must. Something changes. Everything started out so well–the great sex, talks that lasted until sunrise, spooning ‘til class at noon, clothes were optional, and fun was constant.

  • How Do I Introduce Him To My Dad? [Ask A Dude]

    How Do I Introduce Him To My Dad? [Ask A Dude]

    So I’ve got a BIG problem, and I don’t have any clue what to do. I’ve been dating this guy for almost 8 months, and we’re crazy about each other. We’re basically that couple that’s so in love no one can stand to eat around us. Here’s the problem: I’m fairly certain my ultra conservative, Republican dad is going to hate him.

  • 100 Push Up Per Day – Week 4! [One Month Challenge]

    100 Push Up Per Day – Week 4! [One Month Challenge]

    And so it is, just like we knew it would be. The end of the road for this 30 day exploration and experiment to accomplish a great feat of discipline for one as undisciplined as myself: 100 push ups per day. Did I make it? You damn skippy I did!

  • Ask A Dude: What’s The Best Way To Meet Guy Friends?

    Ask A Dude: What’s The Best Way To Meet Guy Friends?

    What is the best way to meet good guy friends? I’m not talking boyfriend prospects, just good friends. I recently transferred to a new university and have always been “one of the guys”…how do I get a good group without being asked out on dates?

  • Why “GIRLS” Is The WORST New Show On TV

    Why “GIRLS” Is The WORST New Show On TV

    The cat’s been out of the bag for several days now; “GIRLS” has arrived, and it’s probably the most disappointing debut of a show in recent memory.

  • Should You Have Sex On The First Date? [Ask A Dude]

    Should You Have Sex On The First Date? [Ask A Dude]

    What do guys really think of sex on the first date? Is it a deal breaker? I feel like if you have a genuine connection with someone, and the sex is awesome, shouldn’t that make them want you more? Or does it completely take the fun out of the chase? I’ve had one long term relationship start out of sex on the first date. I’ve had other guys never call me again. What’s the deal?

  • How To Turn Down A Date

    How To Turn Down A Date

    There are infinite amount of ways to ask someone out because there are infinite amount of situations that it can come up in. And for as many ways that there are to ask, there are as many ways to reject. You could probably write it as an equation: X number of attempts = X number of rejections which can be rewritten as X attempts to procreate = X number of ways to get kicked in the nut sack.

  • Is Marriage A Deal Breaker? [Ask A Dude]

    Is Marriage A Deal Breaker? [Ask A Dude]

    I’ve been dating this guy for a few months, and we really get along phenomenally. We have a lot in common, including our sense of humor, we love to go on adventures and the sex is fantastic. Marriage came up in conversation the other day, because one of his friends is unhappily married. During the conversation he revealed that he didn’t believe in marriage and would never marry.

  • Ask A Dude: Are We Going To Have Great Sex?

    Ask A Dude: Are We Going To Have Great Sex?

    I want to save my virginity until I’m married. But I’ve heard that there are people out there who don’t mesh well in the bedroom. Is it a possibility that on my wedding night I’ll find out that I’ve pledged my life to someone who will never be able to satisfy me, and I’ll never be able to satisfy him?

  • How Do I Know If He’s Blowing Me Off? [Ask a Dude]

    How Do I Know If He’s Blowing Me Off? [Ask a Dude]

    So I met this guy around Christmas time, and we really hit it off. We hung out a lot until we both had to go home for Christmas break. The momentum kind of died, and when we both got back into town, he started emailing me a lot. I asked him why he hadn’t tried to see me, and he gave the typical busy with school and work excuse. I wrote it off as him blowing me off, but the guy hasn’t stopped emailing and facebooking me! Does he really just want to be my digital friend?

  • Ask A Dude: Am I More Sexual Than Him?

    Ask A Dude: Am I More Sexual Than Him?

    What can a girl do if she’s more sexual than her guy? I never thought I would run into this problem, but I guess there’s a first to everything. I think I like sex more than the guy I am dating. Is he not sexually attracted to me? Is it possible that he’s just not that sexual? How do I talk to him about it?

  • Ask A Dude: Help! What Do I Do About My Suicidal BF?

    Ask A Dude: Help! What Do I Do About My Suicidal BF?

    I’ve been dating a guy for about a year now, he is 27 years old and I’m 24. We haven’t had any arguments because we’ve generally been very open and honest with each other. We’ve done the whole meet the family and discussion of the future talks… However, my problem is that recently he hasn’t been speaking to me (it’s been almost a month!).

  • Ask A Dude: Am I Un-Dateable Because I’m Medicated?

    Ask A Dude: Am I Un-Dateable Because I’m Medicated?

    Do guys flee when they find out a girl takes medication? My home life has led me to take medication for depression and general anxiety disorder. Both disorders run in my family, so it was only a matter of time. My last boyfriend was in high school when things with my family started to go downhill. I thought we were serious enough that I could tell him anything, so I told him I took medication for a chemical imbalance.