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Wondering What to Wear to a Dating Event? [Ask Tuffy Luv]
I am going out to a Match.com event tomorrow at Nordic Scandinavian Bar and it’s been a while since I hit town. Can you please help me figure out the perfect thing to wear?
Conquering the Perfect Date Night Outfit [Ask Tuffy Luv]
What’s the sexiest outfit ever? I have a really hot date with a guy I want to get with and go out with that I’ve had a crush on forever. What do I wear?

What to Do When the Sadness Becomes a Little Too Much [Ask Tuffy Luv]
We all get sad sometimes. It’s natural. And it’s okay. Look, we live in a culture where we’re supposed to be happy ALL THE TIME. And that’s so unnatural. Sadness motivates us. Sadness helps us become empathetic. Sadness helps us learn to become better people.
What To Do When Your Roommate Skypes Her GF All Night [Ask Tuffy Luv]
My roommate’s LDR is driving me crazy. She’s obsessed with her girlfriend which I get — I love my girlfriend too. But all this girl does is talk on Skype all night. We’re in college and we are right next to each other in the same room. I need to sleep too!
Drop It Like It’s Hot: Getting Rid of Negative Friends [Ask Tuffy Luv]
I had a falling out with a really old friend, like elementary school old, about six months ago. She did something really shitty to me and then apologized but it was really the last straw.
Rock the Weave Your Mama Gave You [Ask Tuffy Luv]
I’ve gotten some requests for a hair version of the post I wrote about last week regarding natural-looking makeup. Embrace your natural texture, girl. Thick, thin, curly, wavy, kinky, pin straight — honey, we all need some love.
Some “Natural” Inspiration for Your Makeup Look [Ask Tuffy Luv]
I recently started wearing makeup (I know, I know. I’m a late bloomer) but I heard guys prefer “the natural look”. What does that mean?

What to Do When You Hate Your Perfect Boyfriend [Ask Tuffy Luv]
I don’t know what to do. We’ve been dating for three years and now we’re about to finish college and I just can’t stand it anymore.
Tuffy Luv Tells Lil Sis to Behave
I lost the trust of my older brother. I told him I wouldn’t date his friends and then I dated his best friend behind his back. The problem is, too, that we had sex in his bed once.
Can I Keep Him In the Friend Zone? [Ask Tuffy Luv]
He and I have been really close friends for two years now, we get on really well and I like him a lot but I don’t want to go further if our friendship will be ruined and we break up then never talk again.
Two Guys, One Girl, Zero Matches [Ask Tuffy Luv]
I’m about to graduate from college and I need your help, because I’m terrible at relationships and the time is now or never. I have two guy friends and I like them both in different ways. Like, like like.
Tuffy Love Mixes Work and Romance
I don’t want to lose an opportunity with a guy that I’m really into, but I don’t want to mess things up either! What should I do?
Tuffy Luv Deals With Your Friend’s Breakup
A week or so ago, my friend’s boyfriend of three and a half years broke up with her citing that he “wanted to experience college and allow her to do the same.” Every day last week consisted of her crying.
Tuffy Luv Has First Date Ideas
I asked this guy out on a date and now I’m freaking out because I have no idea where to take him. I want to seem cool so I don’t want to just take him for dinner and a movie. Ideas?
Help! I Sexted My Best Guy Friend [Ask Tuffy Luv]
There’s always been a mutual sense of harmless flirting to our friendship, however, as we are both single. About a week ago, we were texting each other and the typical flirting began. But then the tone changed and we were suddenly sexting!
Can A Princess Date a Pauper? [Ask Tuffy Luv]
I’m afraid of bringing him to work parties and having my co-workers ask what he does. I’m afraid of bringing him around my friends with their highly successful fiancés – not because of his lack of ‘experience’, but because being with someone like that has never been an option for me, and it’s not really who I am.