• Wondering What to Wear to a Dating Event? [Ask Tuffy Luv]

    Wondering What to Wear to a Dating Event? [Ask Tuffy Luv]

    I am going out to a Match.com event tomorrow at Nordic Scandinavian Bar and it’s been a while since I hit town. Can you please help me figure out the perfect thing to wear?

  • Conquering the Perfect Date Night Outfit [Ask Tuffy Luv]

    Conquering the Perfect Date Night Outfit [Ask Tuffy Luv]

    What’s the sexiest outfit ever? I have a really hot date with a guy I want to get with and go out with that I’ve had a crush on forever. What do I wear?

  • What to Do When the Sadness Becomes a Little Too Much [Ask Tuffy Luv]

    What to Do When the Sadness Becomes a Little Too Much [Ask Tuffy Luv]

    We all get sad sometimes. It’s natural. And it’s okay. Look, we live in a culture where we’re supposed to be happy ALL THE TIME. And that’s so unnatural. Sadness motivates us. Sadness helps us become empathetic. Sadness helps us learn to become better people.

  • What To Do When Your Roommate Skypes Her GF All Night [Ask Tuffy Luv]

    What To Do When Your Roommate Skypes Her GF All Night [Ask Tuffy Luv]

    My roommate’s LDR is driving me crazy. She’s obsessed with her girlfriend which I get — I love my girlfriend too. But all this girl does is talk on Skype all night. We’re in college and we are right next to each other in the same room. I need to sleep too!

  • Drop It Like It’s Hot: Getting Rid of Negative Friends [Ask Tuffy Luv]

    Drop It Like It’s Hot: Getting Rid of Negative Friends [Ask Tuffy Luv]

    I had a falling out with a really old friend, like elementary school old, about six months ago. She did something really shitty to me and then apologized but it was really the last straw.

  • Rock the Weave Your Mama Gave You [Ask Tuffy Luv]

    Rock the Weave Your Mama Gave You [Ask Tuffy Luv]

    I’ve gotten some requests for a hair version of the post I wrote about last week regarding natural-looking makeup. Embrace your natural texture, girl. Thick, thin, curly, wavy, kinky, pin straight — honey, we all need some love.

  • Some “Natural” Inspiration for Your Makeup Look [Ask Tuffy Luv]

    Some “Natural” Inspiration for Your Makeup Look [Ask Tuffy Luv]

    I recently started wearing makeup (I know, I know. I’m a late bloomer) but I heard guys prefer “the natural look”. What does that mean?

  • What to Do When You Hate Your Perfect Boyfriend [Ask Tuffy Luv]

    What to Do When You Hate Your Perfect Boyfriend [Ask Tuffy Luv]

    I don’t know what to do. We’ve been dating for three years and now we’re about to finish college and I just can’t stand it anymore.

  • Tuffy Luv Tells Lil Sis to Behave

    Tuffy Luv Tells Lil Sis to Behave

    I lost the trust of my older brother. I told him I wouldn’t date his friends and then I dated his best friend behind his back. The problem is, too, that we had sex in his bed once.

  • Can I Keep Him In the Friend Zone? [Ask Tuffy Luv]

    Can I Keep Him In the Friend Zone? [Ask Tuffy Luv]

    He and I have been really close friends for two years now, we get on really well and I like him a lot but I don’t want to go further if our friendship will be ruined and we break up then never talk again.

  • Two Guys, One Girl, Zero Matches [Ask Tuffy Luv]

    Two Guys, One Girl, Zero Matches [Ask Tuffy Luv]

    I’m about to graduate from college and I need your help, because I’m terrible at relationships and the time is now or never. I have two guy friends and I like them both in different ways. Like, like like.

  • Tuffy Love Mixes Work and Romance

    Tuffy Love Mixes Work and Romance

    I don’t want to lose an opportunity with a guy that I’m really into, but I don’t want to mess things up either! What should I do?

  • Tuffy Luv Deals With Your Friend’s Breakup

    Tuffy Luv Deals With Your Friend’s Breakup

    A week or so ago, my friend’s boyfriend of three and a half years broke up with her citing that he “wanted to experience college and allow her to do the same.” Every day last week consisted of her crying.

  • Tuffy Luv Has First Date Ideas

    Tuffy Luv Has First Date Ideas

    I asked this guy out on a date and now I’m freaking out because I have no idea where to take him. I want to seem cool so I don’t want to just take him for dinner and a movie. Ideas?

  • Help! I Sexted My Best Guy Friend [Ask Tuffy Luv]

    Help! I Sexted My Best Guy Friend [Ask Tuffy Luv]

    There’s always been a mutual sense of harmless flirting to our friendship, however, as we are both single. About a week ago, we were texting each other and the typical flirting began. But then the tone changed and we were suddenly sexting!

  • Can A Princess Date a Pauper? [Ask Tuffy Luv]

    Can A Princess Date a Pauper? [Ask Tuffy Luv]

    I’m afraid of bringing him to work parties and having my co-workers ask what he does. I’m afraid of bringing him around my friends with their highly successful fiancés – not because of his lack of ‘experience’, but because being with someone like that has never been an option for me, and it’s not really who I am.