• Tuffy Luv Hates Your Friend

    Tuffy Luv Hates Your Friend

    I’ve had a friend since 6th grade who drives everybody crazy. She’s very judgmental and annoying to be around, and she doesn’t ever think the problem is her. She was one of my closest friends, but everyone else in our group has dropped her.

  • Tuffy Luv Frenemies It Up

    Tuffy Luv Frenemies It Up

    My best frenemy is getting married. Ok, fine. I was happy for her. The problem is she asked me to make a speech. Tuffy, this girl is not someone I can say something nice about. We have a lot of the same friends so I can’t back out of giving the speech, but we have had a lot of problems in the past.

  • Tuffy Luv Gets Down

    Tuffy Luv Gets Down

    I kind of hate my best friend. It’s not her fault. She’s fine. She’s nice to me. She’s nice to our other friends. I’ve been living with her since Freshman year (we’re Juniors now) and she’s good as a roommate. But I just can’t stand her. She’s just always on my nerves. She complains about everything.

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  • Tuffy Luv Can’t Believe This Ashhole

    Tuffy Luv Can’t Believe This Ashhole

    Dear Tuffy Luv, A few weekends ago while my roommate/best friend was passed out in her bedroom, her boyfriend and I hooked up. The boy and I had been friends freshman year, and I had feelings for him before he started dating my best friend. He and I agreed that it was never going to happen again and to not tell anyone.

  • Tuffy Luv Sez: Old Friend, Shmold Friend

    Tuffy Luv Sez: Old Friend, Shmold Friend

    Dear Tuffy Luv, I have a friend who is, like, obsessed with me. I don’t know what to do. She calls me all the time and then just wants to talk and talk and I don’t really feel like listening. I mean how many times can I hear about her ex-boyfriend?

  • Friday Faves: The Best Friend Breakup

    Friday Faves: The Best Friend Breakup

    Most people know how much it sucks to break up with a boyfriend. Whether he treated you horribly or the relationship has just run its course, telling your boyfriend adios is not easy. The only thing harder than a romantic breakup is breaking up with a friend.

  • Ask a Dude: We Hooked Up and Now He Won’t Talk to Me

    Ask a Dude: We Hooked Up and Now He Won’t Talk to Me

    Dear Dude, So I’ve been feeling this guy for a while and last week after some serious making out we ended up hooking up at his place. No sex, just everything but, and in the morning I got my stuff and left cause I had a project to work on.

  • Tuffy Luv Sez: Friends With No Benefits

    Tuffy Luv Sez: Friends With No Benefits

    Dear Tuffy Luv, I have found myself in a tough situation. My best friend of three years recently sent me a Facebook message out of the blue telling me that she no longer wishes to be friends or in contact with me. Her reasoning was that being friends with me causes her “too much stress” and she has been thinking about it “for the last two months.”

  • Good Friendships: A Guide

    Good Friendships: A Guide

    There are some unwritten rules of friendship we all know: Thou shalt hold her hair back when she is praying to the porcelain god after a long Friday night. Thou shalt never date her ex-boyfriend, brother or best male friend. Thou shalt never have to watch Say Yes to the Dress alone. Thou shalt risk your life to satisfy the drunken cravings of your BFF.

  • Tuffy Luv Sez: Get Over Your Crappy Friend

    Tuffy Luv Sez: Get Over Your Crappy Friend

    Dear Tuffy Luv, So freshman year is coming to close, but with a terrible ending. My best friend here has decided to go chase after the guy I had a history with/crush on at the beginning of the year. I’ve moved on from liking him ever since he clearly rejected me in February and have been able to settle on friendly terms with him even though he really left me in the dirt.

  • Tuffy Luv Sez: Hags and Freds May Break My Heads But Skanks Will Never Hurt Me

    Tuffy Luv Sez: Hags and Freds May Break My Heads But Skanks Will Never Hurt Me

    Dear Tuffy Luv, This is a really really long email, but necessary for you to understand my situation. First off, I should let you know that I am on a sports team at my school. That being said, it is a very small team with about eight girls on it. We are a close team but have a lot of drama and tension, which gets incredibly exhausting at times.