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		<title>A Ring By Spring: The MRS Degree</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 27 Dec 2007 21:05:30 +0000</pubDate>
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<p>Your dream has finally come true.  You&#8217;ve made it into a private college, you&#8217;re paying upwards of $50,000 per year for your education, and you&#8217;ve just met the man of your dreams- a wealthy and intelligent man, who you plan to marry upon graduation.  Congratulations, you have just been awarded your very own &#8216;MRS&#8216; degree&#8230; and will never have to work again!</p>
<p>Possible holders of an MRS degree (pronounced EM-AR-ES) are women who attend college just to meet potential husbands &#8230;</p><img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=collegecandy.com&amp;blog=860993&amp;post=6485&amp;subd=collegecandy&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
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<p>Your dream has finally come true.  You&#8217;ve made it into a private college, you&#8217;re paying upwards of $50,000 per year for your education, and you&#8217;ve just met the man of your dreams- a wealthy and intelligent man, who you plan to marry upon graduation.  Congratulations, you have just been awarded your very own &#8216;<em>MRS</em>&#8216; degree&#8230; and will never have to work again!</p>
<p>Possible holders of an MRS degree (<em>pronounced EM-AR-ES</em>) are women who attend college just to meet potential husbands with high social standing and future earning potential.</p>
<p>This phenomenon, which occurs predominantly at private Christian institutions, has turned America&#8217;s &#8216;Bible colleges&#8217; into &#8216;bridal colleges&#8217;.  On these campuses, engagement is not only an eagerly awaited (and accepted) part of a relationship, but marriage is often promoted and planned around graduation.</p>
<p><em>&#8220;I don&#8217;t care how young I am.  I love my boyfriend and I know we will get married and start a family when I graduate,&#8221; </em>says one eager Baylor University female<em>.  &#8220;Never having to work &#8211; that&#8217;s just fine with me.&#8221; </em><span id="more-6485"></span></p>
<p>Conversely, this push to wed is in opposition to the values taught at many large public universities, which promote female students&#8217; independence and career planning.</p>
<p><em>&#8220;I find it completely unattractive,&#8221;</em> says Ryan Bruels, a recent graduate from the University of Colorado.  <em>&#8220;One of the most important things to me is that my wife has a passion for something- not just becoming a breeder.&#8221; </em></p>
<p>Bruels&#8217; perspective may be shared by others, but the times speak otherwise.  Many students in relationships push the envelope by exchanging &#8216;<em>promise rings,</em>&#8216; symbols of an engagement soon to come.  Sororties , for example, add to the marriage madness with caqndle ceremonies pronouncing the engagement of a fellow member &#8211; typically, by lighting a candle and passing it around the room until the newly engaged sister blows it out and the describes in detail &#8216;how he proposed.&#8221;</p>
<p>And these wedlock-bound coeds have even taken to the internet.  Hundreds of Facebook users have created groups in support of the MRS cause.  Student-led groups range from the <em>&#8216;Future Homemakers Club</em>&#8216; to one called &#8216;<em>College is my Backup to Becoming a Trophy Wife</em>!&#8217;</p>
<p>One group in particular, entitled &#8216;<em>I Don&#8217;t Really Care as Long as He Has a Trust Fund</em>,&#8217; describes its membership this way:</p>
<p><em>&#8220;We know men want sexy, but they also need someone sophisticated enough to take home to Mama&#8230; Heck, he&#8217;ll be graduation soon, and if he already has, then you&#8217;re only a few steps closer to the day you are both driving Beamers and Benzes.&#8221;</em></p>
<p>Although independence and career goals for women are now accepted on college campuses, evidence still exists of women going the old-fashioned route:  investing their money in pursuing a future lifestyle rather than in an academic conquest.</p>
<p>You have the ring on your finger and the diploma in your hand.  The future is up to you.</p>
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