Okay, I admit it: I have withheld sex from my boyfriend as a form of cruel and unusual punishment. I mean, it’s totally cool and fine that he snapped at me over nothing, but hmm… I don’t know, I’m just not really in the mood tonight.

Have you been there?

Well apparently, as women, we’re not the only ones that lock it up when we’re feeling put down. Researchers at the Johns Hopkins Bloomberg School of Public Health found that women who “wear the pants” at home lose out on sex – and sometimes have to wait 100 times longer to get some!  In other words, the minute a woman emasculates her mate (or you know, makes any of the decisions), she’s hung up to dry. That’s right. Nada.

Author Professor Michelle Hindin adds to this by saying, “the more decisions a woman reported making on her own, as compared to joint decision making, the less likely she was to have sex and the longer it was since she last had sexual intercourse.”

In all six counties in which this experiment was conducted, a clear correlation between “take charge” women and the amount of sex they have was found. That means if you are the one making Friday night plans, doing the grocery shopping and picking the wall color, you may be paying for it in the bedroom. Read More »

Yeah, you heard right: Bitches is crazy.

Every girl has a story about some other girl who stabbed her in the back and then made her feel like crap about it. I mean, unfortunately, it’s a fact of life. Women are mean to each other.

Now, obviously, this is messed up. Aren’t men mean enough? Why do we have to make each other miserable too? But the fact is, we do.

So how to deal with such underhandedness? Cry? Scream? Pee in her soup?

Nope! Take the high road and follow these easy tips for counteracting cattiness. Because, seriously? She’s SO not worth it.

Don’t Cry

This is usually the first instinct. In that stinging moment when you discover her betrayal, tears almost always seem inevitable.

But fight those motherf*ckers!! Tears make her happy and make you look upset. And that’s what you don’t want. Think about something really funny and bite the inside of your cheek. Do NOT let her see you cry. Read More »