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Jul 18, 2015Lifestyle
Midnight Texts From Guys That Can Only Mean One Thing

Midnight Texts From Guys That Can Only Mean One Thing

We’ve all been there before: You had a wild night out and gave some dude your number and he almost...

Oct 10, 2012Entertainment
Reasons Girls Turn Down No Strings Attached Hook Ups [He Said/She Said]

Reasons Girls Turn Down No Strings Attached Hook Ups [He Said/She Said]

Turns out there are a lot of reasons, ranging from the superficial to protecting your heart.

Oct 19, 2011Love
Ask A Dude: He Keeps Booty-Calling And I Keep Answering!

Ask A Dude: He Keeps Booty-Calling And I Keep Answering!

He texted me "Happy Thanksgiving," offered me sex on my birthday, which I declined, and sent me the "Merry Xmas" text. I next heard from him New Years Eve; I was a little drunk so I complied and went over to his house. We hooked up and then hung out with his friends and I left. I didn't hear from him for a few weeks and then finally, the text came. He asked me to come over, which I did, and he dropped the bomb on me, "but I have a girlfriend."

Jul 29, 2011Entertainment
Candy Dish: I Love Rock & Roll

Candy Dish: I Love Rock & Roll

•Our favorite lady rockers •8 rules to a booty call80's classics that need the big screen treatment •Pull off animal print without looking like the zoo •Mmmmm....David Beckham •The greatest romantic movie scenes •Did sobriety kill Amy Winehouse

Jul 5, 2011Love
He Said/She Said: 5 Signs We’re Just Not That Into a Guy

He Said/She Said: 5 Signs We’re Just Not That Into a Guy

Whether you’re a guy or a girl, gay or straight, old or young, one of the most frustrating things about liking someone is not knowing if they like you back. Wait, no - that’s not totally right. The most frustrating thing is the amount of time wasted thinking/wondering/analyzing/wishing they like you and then playing games to make them show it.

May 18, 2011Love
This Post-Grad Life: Grown-Up Sleepovers

This Post-Grad Life: Grown-Up Sleepovers

When I graduated from college, I told myself that I was never going to behave the way I had for the past four years. Especially since I was no longer going to be attending Thirsty Thursdays, Wasted Wednesdays and Tipsy Tuesdays, and there weren't horny boys lurking around every corner. Essentially, 'hooking up,' in all of its glory, was taking a gracious bow out of my life.

Apr 16, 2011Love
Do Those Come in a 7 1/2: Why Guys are Like Shoes

Do Those Come in a 7 1/2: Why Guys are Like Shoes

It’s 8 o’clock on a Friday night. While the majority of campus males are chugging beers and pulling dirty t-shirts out of the hamper, most of us girls are raiding our roommates’ wardrobes. We’re primping in front of the mirror, doing our hair, applying our make-up, choosing that perfect outfit that will make us appear sexy, but in a “I-don’t try too hard” kind of way.

Mar 30, 2011Love
Ask a Dude: What’s With the Cryptic Texts?

Ask a Dude: What’s With the Cryptic Texts?

Dear Dude, Get ready for a toughy—the way this guy has demonstrated interest in me is far beyond my comprehension. He started flirting with me in October: sitting next to me in class, texting me nonstop, asking if I had a boyfriend, etc. I was very receptive and flirtatious back, but nothing happened. Physically speaking, the most we ever did was hug one another. But sometimes when he texts me, they’re very direct and sexual.

Mar 22, 2011Love
He Said/She Said: Decoding Text Messages

He Said/She Said: Decoding Text Messages

Sigh. The text message. So few letters, so many hours spent analyzing it. And throw in some punctuation? My god, you might as well have me solve a trig equation. Ambiguous text messages leave so many of us ladies staring blankly at our cell phone screens, a look of completely confusion on our faces (and not always due to auto correct).

Mar 14, 2011Love
10 More Things You Should Know About Sex

10 More Things You Should Know About Sex

So last time we ran a post like this, you ladies learned a lot about sex, even though you didn't really think you needed to when you first clicked the link. 171 Facebook shares later, it was clear that you learned A LOT more than you expected. Even though we're young, college girl living the college life, we don't know sex like we think we do.

Feb 22, 2011Love
He Said/She Said: Making it Official

He Said/She Said: Making it Official

I'm not a crazy person. On the contrary, I like to think that I'm quite level-headed in all aspects of my life. I tend to think things through and really try to understand all perspectives in a situation before I say or do anything. And that's probably why all of my friends come to me for advice; they trust what I have to say and know I'll be objective. Of course, there is always an exception to that rule. And of course that exception has to do with guys.

Jan 24, 2011Lifestyle
We’ve All Been There: Sexiled

We’ve All Been There: Sexiled

It’s been a long night. The only thing on your mind is throwing the 12 decorative pillows (that your mom insisted you buy) off your big comfy bed and burying yourself under that warm, fluffy blanket.

Nov 18, 2010Love
The Secret To Why Guys Act The Way They Do

The Secret To Why Guys Act The Way They Do

Since I started coaching college women, I feel like I am living in a world of stories about drunken hook-ups, walks of shame and disappointment. Understand, I am not judging AT ALL. Hooking-up is part of the college culture and can be a lot of fun.

Nov 5, 2010Love
Daytime Romance? Not In College

Daytime Romance? Not In College

If a milkshake brings all of the boys to the yard, I know a way to keep them out. So far past the perimeters they’ve taken a three-mile long-cut just to avoid walking on your grass. What’s this guaranteed boy repellent? The un-relenting light of day.

Sep 8, 2010Lifestyle
Technology Takes Relationships to a Whole New Level

Technology Takes Relationships to a Whole New Level

It’s no surprise to say technology has completely changed the way we, as a society, come together. From Twitter to Foursquare, J-Date to Match.com, gone are the days of quainter communication. Forget about lying in bed twirling the phone cord around your finger as you trade campus gossip with your BFF....

Aug 31, 2010Love
6 Applications That Have Changed the Dating World

6 Applications That Have Changed the Dating World

What happened to the days when the most intense things to happen in a relationship was a game of Twister? Oh my goodness, Mary is practically on top of Bobby! Scandalous! OK, maybe I'm being a little over-dramatic. But, dating throughout the years has definitely changed. And one of the underlying factors for the dating transformation? Technology.

Aug 27, 2010Lifestyle
The Booty Call Goes Mobile

The Booty Call Goes Mobile

We can now update everyone on our every move, tag our friend's locations on Facebook, tweet out photos of our dinner while we're eating them, and make kissy faces to ourselves in the mirror and post them on our Myspace INSTANTANEOUSLY. It's safe to say technology has gotten completely out of control.

Mar 31, 2010Love
Ask A Dude: Can We Start Over?

Ask A Dude: Can We Start Over?

So. First semester last year this kid and I were kind of "what are you doing tonight" kind of friends, but I always got the feeling that he liked me. Second semester last year, I had drunken sex with him, which I felt bad about, because I had liked him and I felt like I ruined my chances. We continued hooking up that semester. At the end of the year he told me he liked me, but I didn't take it seriously because he was drunk.

Mar 14, 2010Entertainment
The Morning After: The Booty-Call Bomber

The Morning After: The Booty-Call Bomber

My night began like most others: taking shots to the beat of some Lady Gaga song (gimme a break - it was last fall), followed by endless rounds of pong (and probably some trash talking about how I once made a behind-the-back shot). To say the least, my texting abilities slowly declined with each game, and soon my night went from “hey what’s good?” to “meet pu laterrrrrrr???”

Feb 25, 2010Lifestyle
The 5 Texts You Just Can’t Delete

The 5 Texts You Just Can’t Delete

It’s Thursday night, 8:00 PM. Most kids on my campus are pre-gaming in their rooms watching the new episode of The Office, but I am sitting half-comatose in a giant lecture hall, taking notes on Neo-freudians. It’s my own fault for picking such an unfortunately scheduled class, but I still silently curse my Ben Stein-clone of a professor as my phone vibrates for the tenth time since class started.

Feb 3, 2010Love
Ask A Dude: More Than a One-Night Stand?

Ask A Dude: More Than a One-Night Stand?

Hey Dude, Recently I had what I assumed was my first legit one-night stand. Chatted up a friend of a friend at a bar, decided to accept his invitation to go home with him. In the morning as I was getting ready to leave for work, he mentioned that "we're going to a party tonight, give us a call."

Jan 20, 2010Entertainment
Would You Rather: Parental Control Edition

Would You Rather: Parental Control Edition

Would you rather your parents watch every date you go on for a year OR find them sitting on your bed at 2am when you come home with a "friend"?

Jan 12, 2010Entertainment
5 Guys Who Should Be Banned From Dating Sites

5 Guys Who Should Be Banned From Dating Sites

Recently, BeautifulPeople.com - an online dating service for, well, beautiful people – cleansed itself of its fatter members. After receiving customer complaints (from some ridiculously good looking people, I presume), the website went through and kicked out anyone with a little extra junk in their trunk.

Jan 8, 2010
Single. And Tired of the Technology Confusion

Single. And Tired of the Technology Confusion

Like any CollegeCandy girl, I am never far away from my cell phone. And if I'm not on my phone, I'm on my computer. And sometimes I'm on both at the same time. While watching TV. I'm a technology addict, but who isn't? Cell phones, wireless Internet and text messaging have made our lives so much easier to live. Except, of course, when it comes to dating.

Jan 3, 2010Entertainment
The Morning After: The Bloodbath

The Morning After: The Bloodbath

After overstaying my welcome at a friend's New Year's Eve party (read: falling over and taking out the lights and the music with my ass. True story), I decided to cut my losses and head home for the night. My friend with benefits was at a different NYE soiree and informed me via text that he was ready to get outta there and meet me for our own party.

Dec 16, 2009Love
Ask A Dude: Mixed Signals Or Missed Signals?

Ask A Dude: Mixed Signals Or Missed Signals?

Dear El Dude, Help! I’m quite the cynic when it comes to love, almost as a defense mechanism to avoid getting hurt. A few weeks ago I meet this boy out at a bar. He was cute, funny, and talked and danced with me the entire time. We exchanged numbers, hung out at my friend’s house, and ended up going back to his house for the night.

Dec 10, 2009Love
Friends Share Secrets, Not Fluids

Friends Share Secrets, Not Fluids

“Tonight let’s be lovers…and tomorrow we’ll go back to being friends.” Sorry Dave. While I fancy your rock band and appreciate the length you went to in order to solicit platonic sex from your besties, I simply cannot endorse these lyrics. (Sorry, male friends.)

Nov 29, 2009Entertainment
The Morning After: The Golden Shower

The Morning After: The Golden Shower

If someone were to ask me what was the worst day of my life to date, I would have to take them back to freshman year. I was young and naive and spent the better part of that fateful day being scammed by a nice man on the telephone who told me I had won a diamond watch and a trip to Hawaii.

Nov 24, 2009Lifestyle
Thanksgiving Break Dos and Don’ts

Thanksgiving Break Dos and Don’ts

Being back under your parents’ roof for Thanksgiving comes with a cornucopia of blessings, such as mom doing your laundry, shopping sprees and overeating until you actually consider braving the Black Friday crowds just to purchase a pair of jeans with an elastic waistband. However, being back under mom and dad’s watchful eye can be treacherous, as well.

Nov 19, 2009Lifestyle
Bar Fails: These Offenses Deserve a Penalty Fee

Bar Fails: These Offenses Deserve a Penalty Fee

A couple of days ago three bars at Penn State were fined for “lack of alcohol training.” What?! What exactly were those bartenders doing wrong to piss off the authorities? How hard is it to open a bottle of Bud Light or mix vodka and tonic together?

Nov 4, 2009Love
Ask A Dude: Am I Wasting My Time?

Ask A Dude: Am I Wasting My Time?

Dear Dude, So I met this guy. We hung out for about a week before he kissed me. It escalated from there and I ended up spending the night at his house. I didn't sleep with him, but I did mess around with him. He was really sweet and in the morning he asked me what I thought we were and where I wanted this to go.

Nov 3, 2009Entertainment
We’ve All Been There: Sexiled

We’ve All Been There: Sexiled

And then you see it. Scribbled on the dry erase board tacked to your door: come back later. The writing is messy, but the message is loud and clear. Your roommate’s got a boy in there and you are not welcome.

Oct 27, 2009Love
Keep Him Close or Far, Far Away?

Keep Him Close or Far, Far Away?

Long distance relationships suck. End of story. But what about semi-long distance relationships? You know, the guys who live all the way on the other side of campus. Sure, it may only be a mile but that's like having hoes in different area codes when you're in college. There are different restaurants over there, different bars; it's a whole new world.

Oct 11, 2009Entertainment
The Morning After: International Affairs

The Morning After: International Affairs

I elbowed my way to the bar, giving fake happy kisses to every camp/youth group/high school "friend" I saw along the way. They all wanted to catch up (and tell me how great I looked!), but I had one thing in mind: vodka. That is until I spotted, across the room, my camp crush. I met him when I was 14 and fell truly, madly, deeply in love with him. He was super tall, super hot and the object of every single girl's affection.

Oct 9, 2009Love
Single. And Focusing On Me

Single. And Focusing On Me

Give me a boy, any boy, and I’ll find something I love about him. This is why even I wondered if I was slightly insane when I decided to completely abstain from boys this summer.