Tuffy Luv Sez: Blue Balls Are Real?!
Sometimes when I don’t want to have sex my boyfriend says we have to because he gets blue balls. I always go along with it but what is it exactly and how can I keep him from getting it in the first place?
I Hooked Up With My Best Friend’s Brother [Tuffy Luv]
So, I hooked up with my best friend’s little brother…

Tuffy Luv Sez: He’s SO Not Worth It
I have been friends with a guy for a while now, and we’ve always gotten along fine and hang out often with a bunch of other friends.
Tuffy Luv Doesn’t Think You Want This Threesome
I hate my boyfriend’s best friend / roommate. I think he’s really weird. He seems like he’s always trying to get my boyfriend’s attention over me.
Tuffy Luv Sez: Report Abuse
I was dating this guy for a 3 years who was really awful to me, and I don’t know why I stayed, but I did.
Tuffy Luv Helps You Relate to Others
If I am going to commit to a relationship, I have to be convinced we can make it last. Is it too much to ask for a guy who is kind and makes me laugh? (And who accepts me and my quirks?) I don’t think I lack confidence and I don’t think I’m hideous looking. I think my problem is I don’t know how to act and talk to guys.
10 Reasons My BlackBerry is Better Than My Boyfriend
Boys. Not always quite as reliable as we would like, are they? I blame rom coms for raising my expectations when it comes to relationships.

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Pwned by P0rn [Tuffy Luv Sez]
This is really embarrassing, so I’m just going to say it – I love porn. My boyfriend likes porn, too, but he doesn’t know that I like it. I want to tell him, because I think it would be really hot to look at it together.
Tuffy Luv Soothes You and Shoop
So my boyfriend of almost two years and I just broke up. I can honestly say that this is the first time that I have been literally devastated after a breakup. I’m in college and I can’t bring it in myself to do anything, except go to class and back to my apartment.
Tuffy Luv Tackles the LDR
My question is… should I try this LDR thing? Or should we just go our separate ways until the logistics change–in an effort to avoid hurting each other and ruining what we could possibly have in the future? Either way, do you have any advice for how I should approach the situation? How to make an LDR work?
Our Thoughts on Justin Bieber’s New Single “Boyfriend” [Video]
I’ve never been a Bieber fan (cue the angry comments), but I think he’s reached a new level of awful with this song. In the intro, he makes sort of an attempt at rapping, but it’s more like a male version of the Ke$ha sing-talk. And then he starts singing, and from there the song pretty much turns into a Jesse McCartney ripoff.
What Happened to Romance?
What happened to wooing? What happened to a guy and a girl getting together for a date and getting to know each other? What happend to calling a girl to speak to her instead of sending an endless stream of texts? Why are guys trying to arrange and cancel dates via Facebook? It’s awkward and unnatural, and honestly, kind of cowardly. And completely unromantic.

Tuffy Luv Dislikes Your Jealousash Friend
I have a friend (let’s call her D) who is always asking me when I’m going to break up with my boyfriend. My boyfriend and I got together senior year of high school, and now it’s junior year of college. He’s really great, and we love each other. He’s not going anywhere. What should I do?