Tuffy Luv Sez: Let Him Heal!
My boyfriend of three years just had a falling out with one of his closest friends. I don’t want to go into it here, but it was over something really stupid, neither of them will apologize and now they’re not speaking. I want to help him mend it, but it seems like it’s just making us fight.
Tuffy Luv Dispenses Condoms
I’m a senior in college and have been in a serious relationship for the past 5 years. He’s my high school sweetheart. I know, we’re so cute! We just got engaged and are getting married when I graduate (he’s two years older and is already working). Now that we’re engaged, I want to go on birth control, but I’m not sure what to try. What do you recommend?

The Best Top Ten Lists You Read This Year
While we’re looking back at all the wonderful moments (and the not so wonderful ones, i.e. that time you threw up in your new boyfriend’s bed) here are a few articles that made my year just a smidgen better. I know for a fact after reading them you’ll feel ten thousand times better about all of your not-so-great moments of 2011.
How To Be Friends With Your Ex
Is being friends with your ex even possible? I mean, you’ve seen each other naked many, many times. You’ve opened up to each other about some weird stuff. And you once didn’t know how you could live without him. I’m still pretty much trying to figure out the real answer to that question, but I’d like to think that, yeah, sometimes you can be friends with your ex.
Tuffy Luv Tells You How to Be More Confident
I’m a college sophomore girl and I seem to have a major problem with boys — I am CLUELESS when it comes to them! I just got out of a short relationship (actually my first one) and what it made me realize was I gravitate toward guys who express their interest in me FIRST because I feel unworthy of the guys that I have a crush on (like they’re too good for me or something along that line).
5 Ways Girls Can Wear A Man’s Shirt
It’s no secret that we at CollegeCandy gladly embrace all the menswear-inspired fashion trends, especially the boyfriend blazer, boyfriend shirt and a reliable pair of boyfriend jeans. Time and time again, each of these wardrobe pieces have proven themselves to be reliable, versatile and sure to make a good impression. You know, all the things we wish our actual boyfriends would be.
Brandyn Burnette’s Mashup of Bruno Mars and Gavin Degraw
Have you ever been stuck in a funk that, even though your friends are concerned and your finals are creeping up, you really just don’t want to get out of it just yet? Like you just want to crawl into your Snuggie with a pint of Ben & Jerry’s and while listening to a song that articulates your inexpressible feelings so perfectly?

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Tuffy Luv Says Don’t Hook Up With Your Best Friend’s Boyfriend
I stole my best friend’s boyfriend. I know it sounds bad but here’s the situation. She didn’t love him. They were just dating because he asked her out and she was too lazy to break up with him. She was always complaining that he wasn’t thoughtful enough or romantic enough and etc.
Tuffy Luv Is Confused By Your Confusion
My boyfriend of 5 months broke up with me about 3 weeks ago after sitting me down and saying that he wasn’t ready to commit and that he felt as if he wanted to be alone. I didn’t agree with the breakup but I told him that I supported his decision. We decided to remain friends despite everything and I’m totally fine with that.
Tuffy Luv Sez: Sex Is For Both Of You
I’ve recently hit the 1-year mark in my relationship and everything is going great. Except for one key thing – the sex. It seems everytime I try to initiate anything with the boy I get shot down.
Tuffy Luv Gets Anxiety
The problem lies in ones of the things my ex-bestie said to me during this final conversation. After basically listing all the things about me that she didn’t like, she also informed me that she didn’t like my boyfriend, John. When I asked why, she said it was because she “didn’t get him.”
Tuffy Luv Throws Up
I had always told myself I would wait until marriage to sleep with a guy but I found myself so very much in love and couldn’t see myself ever being with anyone else so I gave in about 4.5 months into the relationship. We had our ups and downs, at the beginning of the relationship he got kicked out of his dad’s house and had to live with some friends.

Tuffy Luv Sez: Let It Go
But here’s the thing: this whole thing is my fault. The whole time we were together, practically, I didn’t trust anything he told me. I’ve had relationships in the past, and they all turned out terribly. I realize that everyone has terrible relationships sometimes, but it seems like everyone I care about lets me down. I don’t trust anyone.