Tuffy Luv Is A Sucker For Luv
I’m suffering from heartbreak. My boyfriend is leaving me. Sort of. But only after I left him. Sort of…I’m suffering from heartbreak. My boyfriend is leaving me. Sort of. But only after I left him. Sort of…Here is my situation, I have the much coveted/dreaded position of broke but oh so sexy older musician’s girlfriend. (He’s 26, I’m 20). My man is a drummer, and a very talented one at that. Before I met him, he toured with a band for a few months around Europe. When I started dating him a year and a half ago, he was (and still is) in a local garage band with a couple friends, playing local shows recording a demo, and not really going anywhere besides that.
Tuffy Luv Says: He’s Telling You He’s Not Into You
Dear Tuffy Luv, Last semester I met this guy and we started hanging out a lot. We were never officially together, but he was my first everything and we had a great time for a few months.

I made the mistake of assuming he was with me exclusively, and kind of freaked out on him when I found out he had been with other girls and still had contact with his ex who he had been with for years.

The Weekly Ten: Fictional Boyfriends
We’re obsessed with vampire boyfriends. Edward Cullen in particular. An as someone who spends way too much time in the fictional world I have to step back, and ask…really? I mean come on! Edward Cullen is not the best fictional boyfriend out there. He’s obsessive, overbearing, and would find great satisfaction in tearing open his girlfriend’s veins and drinking her blood. This is the guy that makes you swoon? Well not me.
Does Chivalry Even Exist in the College World?
Okay. So we’re going to do that thing where I write a word, and you say the first word that comes to mind. Ready? Okay.
Chivalry. Right. So what are you thinking? Knights and ladies? Castles? Old school gentleman? Do you even know what chivalry is?
Tuffy Luv Sez: BLARGHDLPCZCXL<NFLEWIRQ!#J$EIWRJ
I am a freshman in college. I have been dating my high school boyfriend for more than a year now. He is everything I ever wanted in a guy and so ideal. He is so nice, patient, and kind. I had even been thinking about marrying him down the road. I could picture us together and I really thought that I loved him.
The Weekly Ten: We Heart Valentine’s Day
Happy Valentine’s Day! With three words I’ve probably caused every single reader to groan in frustration. You’re probably trying to forget this day exists, aren’t you? Trying to pretend this is just a normal Monday. Well it’s not.
Tuffy Luv Sez: Don’t Give Up Something Good
I used to be a real shut-in in high school and didn’t really get around as much as others my age. I only ever had one boyfriend before him and am not exactly very experienced in these kinds of things. Now that I’m in college and I’m a lot more outgoing, adventurous and, well, hotter than I used to be, I find myself wishing I was single just so I could try all this stuff college girls do.

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Ask a Dude: Why’d He Act Like a Boyfriend?
Dear Dude,
Over the summer, I met this really great guy at work; there was definitely a mutual attraction between us. With every conversation we had, we found out we had a lot in common with each other. I was about to ask him out, but then found out he had a girlfriend. Needless to say, I didn’t ask him out and things stopped there…
Tuffy Luv Sez: Casual LDR?! WTF?!
Dear Tuffy Luv,

I recently graduated from college and moved back home because I got a job offer. Around the time college was ending, I was casually seeing this new guy. We currently live about three hours away from each other and are in very different situations; I have moved back in with my parents and have a serious job, whereas he still lives with roommates and works hard but parties a lot harder…
Ask a Dude: Is Asking for Clarification a Relationship Death Sentence?
Hey Dude, I just turned 20 and am a sophomore in college. I have plenty of friends, but I have never had a boyfriend. I have hooked up with random guys, with only one being “considerable” for something more. We were set up and hit it off right away, however it all changed when I asked where it was going (relationship or hook up) after a month of us going out…
Tuffy Luv Doesn’t Think You’re Better Than His Girlfriend
Dear Tuffy Luv, It’s my freshman year of college and I started spending a lot of time with this boy on my floor. By a lot I mean we stay up until 3 a.m almost every night talking and he comes over to my room unannounced just to hangout, he texts me on weekends after I’ve gone out to hangout, and he flirts with me on the regular. Needless to say, I like him. The only issue is he has a girlfriend.
5 Must-Haves for a Good Boyfriend
Sometimes I think we should just rename winter the season of love. When the cold weather comes in, it seems like couples just come out of the woodwork….or snowbanks. Suddenly they are holding hands in every store, making out on the sidewalks, and sharing kisses between sips of coffee at Starbucks.

Friday Faves: Am I Too Picky?
Someone once told me that the reason I’m still single is because my standards are too high. I laughed in her face, flipping through a mental catalog of the disgusting creatures who’ve woken up in my bed. “Au contraire,” I told her. “I think my standards are non existent.”