Can I Keep Him In the Friend Zone? [Ask Tuffy Luv]
He and I have been really close friends for two years now, we get on really well and I like him a lot but I don’t want to go further if our friendship will be ruined and we break up then never talk again.
Tuffy Luv Sez: What Do You Mean What Do Guys Like?!!?!?!
Ooooh my unbridled rage is held back only by the sadness of your sign-off!!! Okay, for realz. This kind of pisses me off. Because, like. Number 1: GUYS DON’T JUST LIKE ONE KIND OF GIRL.

Tuffy Luv Says Hos Over Bros
I’m in a very uncomfortable situation at the moment. My best friend has liked our mutual good guy friend for some months now, and I actually met him through her. The problem is he likes me, and she’s the one who told me this information.
Stupid Stuff I’ve Done For Guys [The Weekly 10]
I would love to think that I’m that “cool girl” who doesn’t chase guys and act like an idiot when it comes to relationships. I’m not the “cool girl” though, I’m a total idiot.
Tuffy Luv Tells You How to Be More Confident
I’m a college sophomore girl and I seem to have a major problem with boys — I am CLUELESS when it comes to them! I just got out of a short relationship (actually my first one) and what it made me realize was I gravitate toward guys who express their interest in me FIRST because I feel unworthy of the guys that I have a crush on (like they’re too good for me or something along that line).
Tuffy Luv Is Confused By Your Confusion
My boyfriend of 5 months broke up with me about 3 weeks ago after sitting me down and saying that he wasn’t ready to commit and that he felt as if he wanted to be alone. I didn’t agree with the breakup but I told him that I supported his decision. We decided to remain friends despite everything and I’m totally fine with that.
A Few Signs We’re Really Into You
Unfortunately, when it comes to girls there is no “She’s Just Not That Into You” book to prepare you for the art of pick-up. The first impression can make or break you ,and you certainly don’t want to embarrass yourself by going after a girl who just isn’t interested. Don’t push too hard for a girl unless you are sure she wants it, and take it from me–if a woman likes you, you’ll know it.

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Friday Faves: The Feminist’s Dating Dilemma
Recently, a few of my friends and I got into a bit of a disagreement over who pays on a date. Although a few people agreed with me that if the relationship is long-term, the couple should split the costs for practical reasons (after all, especially if you’re on a college budget, it’s hard to bear the burden of all expenses), the overall consensus was that the guy should always pay at first. Some said the first date, some the first three dates, and others advocated up to the first year.
Real Friends Let Friends Learn from Their Dating Mistakes
I know Shakespeare says love is blind, but he never said anything about our best friends. What about their eyes? They can still see. If we had only been upfront with each other, there would have been no pain, no mistakes, no “WTF” relationships that in retrospect feel like a drunken dream, years lost and Friday nights ruined.
Does Chivalry Even Exist in the College World?
Okay. So we’re going to do that thing where I write a word, and you say the first word that comes to mind. Ready? Okay.
Chivalry. Right. So what are you thinking? Knights and ladies? Castles? Old school gentleman? Do you even know what chivalry is?
Top 5 Modern College Norms Parents Will Never Understand
As a college student I’ve learned that there are just some things that parents will never understand. And I’m not talking about how to change their profile pictures or how to DVR The Closer. I’m talking about the way life is now, the way we college students communicate and socialize and hook-up.
Even Gaga Would Call it a “Bad Romance”
As girls, there’s one itty bitty thing that got screwed up in our chromosomes. Any time we see a slightly attractive male we automatically throw ourselves in their direction like a piece of freakin’ meat. We instantly get big googly eyes, say things that we should be keeping to ourselves, and completely freak the eff out our potential soul mate.

Glamour Says The Darndest Things: December Edition
For an issue that is supposed to be inspiring women, I was feeling pretty dejected reading through it. Glamour made me feel skanky, unhygienic, and sexually unadventurous. And then I came across an article that was so absurd that I had no choice but to feel a lot better about myself because at least I’m not clueless enough to take this advice seriously.