Single Girl Society: Stand By Your Single Sisters
Look, I know it’s cheesy but as single ladies, we’re only as good as the girls we surround ourselves with and when one of us is down, we’re all down. Of course it gets frustrating sometimes, watching your formally single and fabulous bestie go from taking names (and numbers) and kicking ass to sullen and sunken into a sofa watching “The Notebook.”
He Said/She Said: Does Your “Number” Matter?
There are a lot of important numbers in college girls’ life – phone numbers, number of times you been Facebook-tagged in an outfit, number of times you’ve considered dropping out of college, the number of calories in your next late-night study sesh meal. But there’s one number in particular that’s bound to stir up a commotion, whether it’s zero or in the double digits: The number of people you’ve had sex with.

Ask a Dude: Why’d He Act Like a Boyfriend?
Dear Dude,
Over the summer, I met this really great guy at work; there was definitely a mutual attraction between us. With every conversation we had, we found out we had a lot in common with each other. I was about to ask him out, but then found out he had a girlfriend. Needless to say, I didn’t ask him out and things stopped there…
He Said/She Said: Sex…on your Period?
I think I can say with 100% certainty that nothing raises eyebrows (and elicits “EW. OMG. WTF. Nooooo.”) more than period sex. Seriously, just writing the words “period” and “sex” in the same article made me cringe a little.
Ask a Dude: Is Asking for Clarification a Relationship Death Sentence?
Hey Dude, I just turned 20 and am a sophomore in college. I have plenty of friends, but I have never had a boyfriend. I have hooked up with random guys, with only one being “considerable” for something more. We were set up and hit it off right away, however it all changed when I asked where it was going (relationship or hook up) after a month of us going out…
Tuffy Luv Doesn’t Think You’re Better Than His Girlfriend
Dear Tuffy Luv, It’s my freshman year of college and I started spending a lot of time with this boy on my floor. By a lot I mean we stay up until 3 a.m almost every night talking and he comes over to my room unannounced just to hangout, he texts me on weekends after I’ve gone out to hangout, and he flirts with me on the regular. Needless to say, I like him. The only issue is he has a girlfriend.
Ask a Dude: Can I Ask for a Second Shot?
Hey Dude, This is my freshman year of college and before I was really nieve. I’ve hooked up with plenty of guys here, but I had a really fun night a few months ago and the guy and I started talking on a regular basis. He always texted me first and invited me to do things with him or him and his group of friends. I was really excited because he was my ideal guy and I (now regrettably) kept on telling myself he was better than me.

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What Does “Love” Even Mean These Days?
I am in the most amazing, secure and satisfying relationship I have ever been in but there is just one so-called “problem”; after nearly a year and a half, neither of us have said, “I love you.”
The Secret To Why Guys Act The Way They Do
Since I started coaching college women, I feel like I am living in a world of stories about drunken hook-ups, walks of shame and disappointment. Understand, I am not judging AT ALL. Hooking-up is part of the college culture and can be a lot of fun.
Ask A Dude: Why Won’t He Say The “L” Word?
Dear Dude, My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over a year now. We are long distance (he’s about an hour away) and we have ridiculous amounts of fun when we are together and he means the world to me. The problem is this: the feared and revered “L” word (love) has yet to enter the mix.
Not Everything About Your Ex is Bad
Just about everyone out there seems to have dating horror stories. Seriously, ask anybody; chances are they’ll tell you that they have a relationship that they wish had just never happened. I myself went through a pretty nasty break up earlier this year. I’ve spent the past 7 months trying to put my life back together and pretty much hating my ex for how nasty he got post-breakup.

Ask a Dude: Why Won’t He Let Me Live My Life?
Hi Dude, My boyfriend and I have been dating for about a year. He was my best friend in the entire world for about 3 years before we started dating, and he means the world to me. But since I started college about 3 months ago, things have been getting really hard.