• Cuddling From the Friend-Zone [Ask Tuffy Luv]

    Cuddling From the Friend-Zone [Ask Tuffy Luv]

    One day I found out through one of his friends that he was seeing someone else…I was pretty heartbroken. I confronted him. He admitted up to it and said that he only saw me as a friend. And me, desperately trying to save face, said the same.

  • I Want a Boyfriend [Friday Faves]

    I Want a Boyfriend [Friday Faves]

    Having a boyfriend brings about a sense of pride and accomplishment. It gives us all feelings of worth, self esteem and validation. Oh, and a serious case of the butterflies.

  • Sex in the News: To Cuddle or to Sleep?

    Sex in the News: To Cuddle or to Sleep?

    It’s late at night and you’ve just had sex. Assuming you’re not about to bolt from the room (or kick your partner to the curb) you’ve reached a cross road. Do I cuddle or do I roll over and go to sleep? Both have their own implications.

  • He Said/She Said: Cuddles are Fantastic

    He Said/She Said: Cuddles are Fantastic

    You know what? For once I don’t have anything negative to say. Halle-freaking-lujah! Cuddles are are fantastic. Hugs are amazing. Salacious cuddles? Yes, please. Friendly hugs? Hell yes! Comforting cuddles? Great! Free hugs because I’m a ginger? Always welcome. I am a huge fan of cuddling, and I’ve been fortunate enough to not yet meet a man who ain’t one, too.

  • Coupled. New Year’s Resolutions

    Coupled. New Year’s Resolutions

    I’m a resolution maker. I think January 1 is a great time to stop, think about the things you want to do better for yourself, and start the improvement process. And while I’ve set a few for myself this year (thanks to that post-holiday trip to the scale), what I’m most excited for are the resolutions I’ve set for my relationship.

  • Coupled. Cozy Up When It Gets Cold.

    Coupled. Cozy Up When It Gets Cold.

    Ok, so maybe it doesn’t snow here in Texas, but it’s finally gotten to the point where I have to turn the heater on in my apartment! And while I’m really not a fan of snotsicles, I am a huge fan of staying indoors in the winter-time and cuddling up with the boyfriend.

  • I Want a Boyfriend. Do You?

    I Want a Boyfriend. Do You?

    With the exception of a short love affair that ended via email (which the boy addressed to Natalie), I’ve been single for a long three years. And I’ve been totally OK with that for the most part. I’ve really gotten to figure myself out; my good qualities (I’m incredibly generous to those I love) and my not-so-good qualities (I’m what some people might refer to as a judgmental bitch).

  • Candy Dish: Will Posh Replace Paula?

    Candy Dish: Will Posh Replace Paula?

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    • Steven Tyler’s moves aren’t what they used to be.
    • Penelope Cruz is gonna have one beautiful baby.
    • Are guys OK with just cuddling?
    • The 13 sexiest movie scenes ever.
    • Drink to a better complexion?

  • The Morning After: Don’t Let The Door Hit You On The Way Out

    The Morning After: Don’t Let The Door Hit You On The Way Out

    It was one of the many nights when I should have stayed in and done homework, but decided/was forced to go out with my roommates for a night of belligerence. Standard.

  • He Said/She Said: Cuddle Time

    He Said/She Said: Cuddle Time

    Don’t get me wrong, I love me some sexy time, especially early in the morning. But as much as I love to kickstart my day with a roll in the sack, there is nothing I heart more than a really good cuddle sesh. Totally girly, I know.

  • He Cuddles With Other Girls: Ok or Not Ok?

    He Cuddles With Other Girls: Ok or Not Ok?

    After a recent production with a free love hippie who was supposedly sleeping sexily only in my b…

  • Obsessed with Being Single

    Obsessed with Being Single

    So, you’re single.
    Do you embrace it, or bemoan it? Is it exciting, or just exhausting? Are you he…