cunnilingus

  • Teaching Your Guy How To Head South [Sexy Time]

    Teaching Your Guy How To Head South [Sexy Time]

    It may be tempting to push his head away and roll over or just endure it and give him props for trying. However, it would behoove you, him and any of his future partners to offer some constructive criticism.

  • How To Receive Stress-Free Oral [Sexy Time]

    How To Receive Stress-Free Oral [Sexy Time]

    If you're someone who is hesitant to let your partner go down on you, it's time to destroy that anxiety.

  • Friday Faves: He Said/She Said – Let’s Talk About (Oral) Sex, Baby

    Friday Faves: He Said/She Said – Let’s Talk About (Oral) Sex, Baby

    I have spent 8 years (not continuously) with my mouth between a dude's legs, and while I finally know that I'm good at it (one fine young man - whose name I do not know - exclaimed, "Wow! That was good!"), I still don't love all the work is involved.

  • The Doctor Is In: Smelly Cat. Literally

    The Doctor Is In: Smelly Cat. Literally

    Q: I’m a little concerned about the way things smell and taste downtown. It’s not like anyone has told me anything is funky down there, but I’ve had lots of guys perform oral sex on me once and never do it again. What can I do to clean it up (you know, if that is the problem)?

  • Sexy Time: How HE Can Be Great In Bed

    Sexy Time: How HE Can Be Great In Bed

    Last week I gave some pointers about how we girls can kick ass in the bedroom. This week, it’s the boys’ turn. My boyfriend is, by far, the best sex/oral I’ve ever had, and for a while I was actually freaked out that he would spoil me for life. To solve that issue, I had him write a guide on how to please to a woman (that I could assign as homework to any future boyfriends).

  • He Said/She Said: A Little Give and Take

    He Said/She Said: A Little Give and Take

    We've always heard that it is far better to give than to receive, but does that hold up in the bedroom? Is it really better to give a little lovin' than to get it!?

  • Heading South of My Border? Yessss, Please!

    Heading South of My Border? Yessss, Please!

    Taking a walk with some friends one day, sipping coffee and having one of those hilarious TMI sex conversations you sometimes slip into with people you know really well, I heard something that stopped me mid-iced latte. Totally casually, as though it was no big deal, a friend asked if the rest of us enjoyed receiving oral sex, because she really, well, didn’t.

  • Why I Don’t Speak Cunnilingus

    Why I Don’t Speak Cunnilingus

    I'm pretty adventurous when it comes to sex, I'm not going to lie. I love to experiment with men that I'm serious about and whom I trust, and I'm not opposed to an adventurous fling either. However, I have a confession: I might be open to hair-pulling, spanking, and playing dress-up... but I do not let men go down on me.

  • He Said/She Said: Let’s Talk About (Oral) Sex, Baby

    He Said/She Said: Let’s Talk About (Oral) Sex, Baby

    I have spent 8 years (not continuously) with my mouth between a dude's legs, and while I finally know that I'm good at it (one fine young man - whose name I do not know - exclaimed, "Wow! That was good!"), I still don't love all the work is involved. It kills my jaw, my neck, and I'd rather let the guy handle things on his own than risk lock jaw on a sweaty appendage.

  • Sex Diaries: The Sleepy, Sore, and Sunburned Girlfriend

    Sex Diaries: The Sleepy, Sore, and Sunburned Girlfriend

    [Editor’s Note: New York Magazine does these Sex Diaries that are sometimes cool, sometimes lame. Sometimes they’re interesting portrayals of every day life,...

  • Oral Education…Are You Listening, Guys?

    Oral Education…Are You Listening, Guys?

    Show of hands, ladies—how many times have you been psyched when the guy you’re hooking up with starts heading downtown, only to be left confused...

  • Sweeter Semen? Sign Me Up!

    Sweeter Semen? Sign Me Up!

    File this under: Fun Things to Bring Up During a Party. Although it’s not 100% provable, there’s a big movement that claims drinking a glass...