• Is He Worthy Enough to Be Your Valentine?

    Is He Worthy Enough to Be Your Valentine?

    Valentine’s Day is always a daunting holiday. It doesn’t matter if you’re single or in a relationship; there’s a lot of pressure put on you to make the day worthwhile, whether its by you, Hallmark, or those cheesy commercials that you secretly wish you could reenact.

  • This Guy Does NOT Date Feminists..Huh? [Ask Tuffy Luv]

    This Guy Does NOT Date Feminists..Huh? [Ask Tuffy Luv]

    Recently I was on a date with this guy I’ve been seeing for a few weeks, and we were really getting along until I mentioned that I was a feminist. He started telling with me how I shouldn’t be one and that he’s not one because he believes in equality between both sexes.

  • Ask Him Out Already!! [Ask Tuffy Luv]

    Ask Him Out Already!! [Ask Tuffy Luv]

    At first my girlfriends were pretty convinced that he liked me, but after our movie date (if it even was a date), they aren’t sure. When we parted ways, we both said we had a great time and that we hoped to see each other soon, but I didn’t get a text afterwards. Is it worth pining after this boy, or should I take my “three day rule” girlfriend’s advice and just get over it?

  • Dressing Up Date Night [CC Lookbook]

    Dressing Up Date Night [CC Lookbook]

    The first date outfit is a big one. You want to look great, but you also don’t want to look like you’re trying too hard? But most of the time you’re probably just over-thinking it. Really, you just need to follow these two rules.

  • 11 Places You Should Never Take a Date [Infographic]

    11 Places You Should Never Take a Date [Infographic]

    Common wisdom should tell you that movies and clubs are great places to take a first date. don’t take your first date to any of the following places. But sometimes where you are and what you’re doing plays a key role in whether things go well or not. However if you want to start a potential relationship off on the right foot, don’t take your date to any of the following places.

  • Single. Accidentally on a Date?

    Single. Accidentally on a Date?

    I agreed to grab dinner with a guy who had been in my honors seminar this past semester and I didn’t think anything of it. When he came to get me before dinner, I just figured it was on his way or something. But then he paid for dinner and insisted that we go to a movie… and it was around there that I started to catch on.

  • The Morning After: The Non-Date

    The Morning After: The Non-Date

    My friend’s parents were out of town a few weeks ago and, naturally, she threw a party. Between beer bongs on the deck, I started talking with one of the other party-goers. She told me about a great guy she knew that she thought would be perfect for me. “I’m going to have him Facebook you. You have to go out.” Being the perpetual single girl, I was excited at the prospect. Especially when she told me he was tall, cute and funny.

  • Would You Rather: Parental Control Edition

    Would You Rather: Parental Control Edition

    Would you rather your parents watch every date you go on for a year OR find them sitting on your bed at 2am when you come home with a “friend”?

  • Single. And I Think It’s My Fault

    Single. And I Think It’s My Fault

    Something weird is happening. After a month of bitching that I don’t get asked out on dates enough, I canceled a third date. With a cute law student. If she were dead, my grandmother would be rolling in her grave right now…but instead she’s screaming at me that she’s never going to have great grandchildren.

  • Tuffy Luv’s Interest Ain’t Lukewarm

    Tuffy Luv’s Interest Ain’t Lukewarm

    Dear Tuffy Luv, So I met Chuck in school last year, he lives across from my dorm. Since we have the same major and in the same year, we studied for exams together throughout the whole year. At first, I didn’t think I would ever be attracted to him since he is not the type of guy I usually fall for.

  • Life After College: I Need Patti Stanger

    Life After College: I Need Patti Stanger

    My grandparents are determined to get me married off to someone with a respectable profession before I’m 23. They’re convinced that if I haven’t met the right corporate lawyer or hedge fund banker by then, I’ll recieve a one-way nonrefundable ticket to spinsterhood.

  • Tuffy Luv Benefits A Friend

    Tuffy Luv Benefits A Friend

    Dear Tuffy Luv, So for the past two months I’ve been hooking up with a friend of mine. We hang out most nights a week, though sometimes we hang out with other friends too so we don’t hook up then. And sometimes we hang out and do other stuff instead of hooking up. That has been happening more and more lately, and in situations where we could be hooking up, and it’s kind of been frustrating me.

  • The CC Weekly Weigh In: Advice for Dudes

    The CC Weekly Weigh In: Advice for Dudes

    I saw a guy yesterday wearing two pastel polo shirts with both collars popped. Yesterday. As in 2009. Where was this kid’s girlfriend/friends to inform him that the popped collar thing went out in 2005? Or, I don’t know, that the double pastel shirt look wasn’t OK on a guy even then? Friends don’t let friends pop their collars (anymore)!

  • Miss Manners: The DL on Weddings

    Miss Manners: The DL on Weddings

    One of my oldest childhood friends is getting married this Saturday and, quite frankly, I am horrified by the thought of attending his wedding. Not that I have anything against the lovebirds; on the contrary, I’m glad he’s happy. It’s just, well… I never know how to act at weddings. There are just too many unspoken rules, too many unanswered questions…

  • Candy Dish: Carrie Prejean Gets Nakey

    Candy Dish: Carrie Prejean Gets Nakey

    Miss California takes it off!
    Hooking up is not so good for ya.
    • Ok, so Pink doesn’t like the ladies
    • Behind the scenes with Dane Cook.
    • Cheap summer date ideas.
    Ed Westwick looks hot (pun intended)

  • The Morning After: Pillow Fight!

    The Morning After: Pillow Fight!

    I hadn’t known John* very well, so when I got a text at 11pm saying “I’m bored, come hang out” I should have immediately seen the booty call red flag. Especially because we had set up a first date for the next night, but John was hot and he cracked me up so I was excited to see him.