• How Do I Get Him To Be More Adventurous In Bed? [Ask A Dude]

    How Do I Get Him To Be More Adventurous In Bed? [Ask A Dude]

    We have had sex a couple times already and it was that sweet, loving kind of sex. Don’t get me wrong, it was wonderful, but I was wondering what the best way is to see if your boyfriend would consider being a little naughtier in the sheets (ex: dirty talking?) without looking like a total sl00t?

  • Am I Too Young For Him? [Ask A Dude]

    Am I Too Young For Him? [Ask A Dude]

    I really like this guy and he says he likes me a lot too, but I don’t want to open my heart to someone who is just going to be all like, “JK, you’re too young for me” in another month.

  • When Do Men Stop Thinking “Me” and Start Thinking “We”? [Ask a Dude]

    When Do Men Stop Thinking “Me” and Start Thinking “We”? [Ask a Dude]

    Our relationships, in whatever form they take to begin with, always seem to hit the same problem area eventually. The dreaded “gray area”. It’s where men tend to drag out the dating or hooking up phase, and avoid putting a label on “what we are”.

  • What Part of Women’s Bodies Do Men Look at During Sex? [Ask A Dude]

    What Part of Women’s Bodies Do Men Look at During Sex? [Ask A Dude]

    I’m pretty secure with my body, but I know there are some areas I could use to tone up. (Shout out to my Kardashian butt!) When I have sex, it’s pretty inevitable that my less-firm parts take center stage and I’m worried it’s a turn off to guys.

  • How Much Do Guys Expect on the First Date? [Ask a Dude]

    How Much Do Guys Expect on the First Date? [Ask a Dude]

    I’ve been out on first dates with guys who barely go in for a kiss at the end of the night, and others who can’t seem to get my clothes off fast enough.

  • The 14 Best Movies to Watch On a Date [Dude's List]

    The 14 Best Movies to Watch On a Date [Dude's List]

    This is as varied and specific a list as it gets. Some people find the Aliens saga extremely romantic while others tend to be suckers for a cliché tearjerker like The Notebook. It’s a difficult decision oftentimes, finding that right balance of romance, sex appeal, tension and craft.

  • What’re the Morning After Rules for a FWB? [Ask A Dude]

    What’re the Morning After Rules for a FWB? [Ask A Dude]

    Hey Dude!
    I have a question about proper morning-after protocol. After spending the night with…

  • Has Texting Improved or Ruined Dating? [Ask A Dude]

    Has Texting Improved or Ruined Dating? [Ask A Dude]

    Dating is a dance and texting is a brand new routine. You modify some old moves but you’re also creating new ones. The results are mostly the same and based on the same fundamentals, timing and rhythm included. But while the benefits are great, the burns are more severe.

  • Can He Keep It In His Pants and Out of Our Texts? [Ask A Dude]

    Can He Keep It In His Pants and Out of Our Texts? [Ask A Dude]

    Why do guys send pictures of their dicks? It’s not like I’ve asked for this. It’s not like I WANT to see him with his jeans around his ankles and his business in his hand. I know men have extremely fragile egos and I don’t want to hurt feelings, but come on.

  • 11 Things You Can Do For Him on Valentine’s Day

    11 Things You Can Do For Him on Valentine’s Day

    The Hallmark holiday is fast approaching. The one day of the year when it’s mandated you find ways to display, publicly or privately, how much you love/want to f*ck/care about another person…or persons if you’re involved in a polyamorous relationship/affair/dream come true/nightmare.

  • 11 Benefits of Dating a Nerd [Dude's List]

    11 Benefits of Dating a Nerd [Dude's List]

    In case you haven’t noticed, this is the 21st century. And in the 21st century geek culture has been steadily been becoming mainstream. But this isn’t a fad like Cocktail Nation, no, this cultural movement is primed to last a long while. Who are the movers of this movement? The nerds.

  • How Do I Let Him Know I’m Interested? [Ask A Dude]

    How Do I Let Him Know I’m Interested? [Ask A Dude]

    The bars are such a chaotic scene and I don’t want to look like an idiot making do-me eyes at everyone I bump into. In places that aren’t exactly conducive to extensive conversation, do you have any advice for getting guys’ attention and letting them know you’re interested in a tactful, tasteful way?

  • “Do I Give Him The Boot Because He Won’t Return After I Give?” [Ask A Dude]

    “Do I Give Him The Boot Because He Won’t Return After I Give?” [Ask A Dude]

    I’ve started hooking up with a guy who seems great in every way but one — he’s a little selfish in the bedroom. He gets his every time, whether it’s through oral or old fashioned sex, and leaves me to fend for myself.