This Guy Does NOT Date Feminists..Huh? [Ask Tuffy Luv]
Recently I was on a date with this guy I’ve been seeing for a few weeks, and we were really getting along until I mentioned that I was a feminist. He started telling with me how I shouldn’t be one and that he’s not one because he believes in equality between both sexes.
We’re Dating For All The Wrong Reasons [Diary of the Undateable]
“I think I’m going to go out on a date with him,” she said. “He’s been asking me out for a while now, and I am SOOO hungry.” Pause. She only wanted to date this guy for the free meal. Not because he was nice or polite or treated her well…but because he’d buy her dinner! Smh.

8 Modern Dating Rules Every Single Should Know
Bad news bears, singles: Match.com has released the results of a new survey that shows the dating rules and habits have changed. Again. But even though the playing field has become a bit of uncharted territory, some traditional dating dos and dont’s still apply.
How Do I Let Him Know I’m Interested? [Ask A Dude]
The bars are such a chaotic scene and I don’t want to look like an idiot making do-me eyes at everyone I bump into. In places that aren’t exactly conducive to extensive conversation, do you have any advice for getting guys’ attention and letting them know you’re interested in a tactful, tasteful way?
How to Make a Man Fall In Love With You
The title of this post is pretty absurd, right? I mean, I can barely make a guy take out my recycling, much less fall in love with me forever. Am I just supposed to wave some magic wand? “Poof, sir! Now you shall love me until the Kardashians are no longer on TV!” Get real. Well, shocker, apparently it is possible.
11 New Year Resolutions He Wishes You’d Make [Dude's List]
Most resolutions are a mistake to make. The reason they’re mistakes are simple: you’re the one making them. You’re not going to be objective enough to do it. In truth, be brave, bite the bullet and ask him what resolution he’d like you to make. Watch his eyes go as wide as Smaug’s.
“Sex and the City” is Ruining My Relationships [Diary of the Undateable]
Yes, I love SATC. A little too much. So much that it’s affected the way that I think about my own off-camera relationships. I’ve saturated my brain with so much SATC that the line between fact and fiction is as thin as one of Carrie’s gauzy Chloé blouses.

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Ask Him Out Already!! [Ask Tuffy Luv]
At first my girlfriends were pretty convinced that he liked me, but after our movie date (if it even was a date), they aren’t sure. When we parted ways, we both said we had a great time and that we hoped to see each other soon, but I didn’t get a text afterwards. Is it worth pining after this boy, or should I take my “three day rule” girlfriend’s advice and just get over it?
Tuffy Luv Sez: Platonic?! More like NO.
I hung out with one guy for about 8 hours; we just talked and really connected, and he told me how great a person I was and how I was so different from other girls, blah blah blah. We didn’t do anything but talk and the conversation was great; I thought for sure I’d found a great friend.
15 Fictional Guys I’d Like to Date IRL
Why is it that the best guys seem to be fictional? I know because the guys are fictional characters that they seem super put together or adorably flawed but a girl can’t help but fantasize.
Popping the “What Are We?” Question [Diary of the Undateable]
Talking, courting and dating is all fine and dandy – until you try to put a label on whatever it is that you’re doing. In my limited scope of experience, I’ve found that the “What are we?” question can either make or break a relationship.
Why Won’t My Boyfriend Kiss Me? [Dear Tuffy Luv]
He asked me out two months ago, and I’ve had a crush on him for a while. I was happy as could be…for about a month and a half. Then I lost interest. Lost the spark. You know why?