Dear Tuffy Luv:

I’m trying to decide if I am suffering from “Dumper’s Remorse or if I have truly made a mistake. This SHOULD be obvious, but for many reasons, it isn’’t. Allow me to elaborate:

After 3 years of dating, I broke up with my last boyfriend about 3 months ago (in January). We had been together for a long time, but I’’d been having doubts for at least six months and possibly more, depending on which friend you ask. We were each other’s first real relationship, and as we got more and more permanently serious I got more and more nervous about that. I loved him, and he loved me, but our relationship finally got so shaky that I felt it was time to let go. Read More »