• Do You Miss Him or The Relationship?

    Do You Miss Him or The Relationship?

    Whether you end things or he does, break-ups are hard. There’s a reason they’re quickly followed by carb loading (cookies and/or pints of beer) and making out with a rando against a wall.But relationships end for a reason; it’s just too bad that many of us are completely unable to remember the reason when we’re elbow deep in Oreos and crying at the latest Zales commercial.

  • Sexy Time: Are We Breakin’ Up?

    Sexy Time: Are We Breakin’ Up?

    This song has been in my head for weeks, probably because perfectly describes what I’m living through. I recently broke up with my boyfriend.

    Except not really. Long-distance was not working out for us, so we tried an open relationship. When that didn’t fix anything, I ended it… two days before going to visit him for two weeks.

  • The CC Weekly Weigh In: Significant Jerks

    The CC Weekly Weigh In: Significant Jerks

    With Valentine’s Day just around the corner, many of us are spending our days in bed, sifting through photos of boyfriend’s past with a tube of cookie dough in hand while The Fray plays in the background.
    No? Just me? Alrighty then….

  • We’ve All Got the Internet Blues

    We’ve All Got the Internet Blues

    So according to a recent study, the Internet is making us depressed. While the scientists behind the study link depression to the amount of time spent in a virtual world, I have a few of my own theories as to why the Internet is making us all very, very sad.

  • The Morning After:  The St. Patty’s Day Peep Show

    The Morning After: The St. Patty’s Day Peep Show

    As per usual in my life, my senior year (the first one, mind you) was spent obsessing over a gargantuan, shaggy-haired, Beatles’ lovin, ex-BF who thought he was way too good for me. Even though he ignored me 99% of the time, I basically revolved my life around him. I planned my weekend festivities around where I thought he might show up.

  • Tuffy Luv Sez: Your Actions Are Your Own

    Tuffy Luv Sez: Your Actions Are Your Own

    Dear Tuffy Luv, I am currently in a long-distance relationship for 7 months. However, something has been bugging me a lot. I met my current BF on study abroad, and before we got together I was cheating on my then-BF with another guy.

  • The Morning After: Marking His Territory

    The Morning After: Marking His Territory

    As soon as I got to college, I started dating a guy who was a junior. Martin* wasn’t my typical type (basically, he was a lot less attractive, motivated, and thoughtful than what I’m used to) but I decided to give him a shot anyway. I was the typical nervous freshman and I think I subconsciously felt like he had knowledge that could make my transition into college a little easier.

  • Weekly Wrap Up: No Boys Allowed

    Weekly Wrap Up: No Boys Allowed

    Oh, boys—can’t live with them, can’t live without them. First he’s joining you for a romantic snowball fight or making you a thoughtful, handmade gift, then he’s holding your sexy pictures hostage and updating his Facebook status on your wedding day.

  • Ask A Dude: Is He Not Over His Exes?

    Ask A Dude: Is He Not Over His Exes?

    Dear Dude, Ever since I’ve been with my boyfriend, I’ve noticed something a little weird. He talks about his exes, a lot. He’ll bring up random comments (“that house looks like ___’s house”) or just tell me stories when something reminds him. It’s mainly two girls that he talks about, that he was with for 3 and 5 years. Honestly, I really don’t want to hear these stories…

  • Tuffy Luv Sez: Take A Picture, It’ll Last Longer

    Tuffy Luv Sez: Take A Picture, It’ll Last Longer

    Dear Tuffy Luv, I broke up with my boyfriend of 2 years about a month ago. We chat a few times a week and haven’t fought since the break up. But I have a favor to ask of him, and I know it’s gonna hurt him because he’ll think I don’t trust him. I need him to erase the pictures I sent him while we were dating.

  • Single. And Getting Dragged Back In

    Single. And Getting Dragged Back In

    One of the best first dates I’ve ever been on was to a sushi restaurant. I had never tried sushi before, and it ended up becoming one of my favorite foods. I ended up dating that boy for three years. And in those three years, our lives became increasingly intertwined. We were already in the same honors classes, we both played soccer, we both wrote for the school newspaper. We fit into each other’s lives so perfectly.

  • Tuffy Luv Sez: Third Time’s The Charm

    Tuffy Luv Sez: Third Time’s The Charm

    Dear Tuffy Luv, I cheated on my boyfriend but now I want him back. I realized that the other guy that I was cheating with wasn’t that great so I really want to get back with my guy. He said okay, we can get back together but the problem is that while we weren’t together, he was constantly telling me how much he loved me and that he wouldn’t see anyone else…

  • I’m Torn: Facebook Official

    I’m Torn: Facebook Official

    Okay, so as if the world of flirting/dating/hooking up in dark corners wasn’t already confusing enough, we now have Facebook thrown in the mix. You can poke the cutie from Calculus, send some racy “private messages,” and maybe even send a condom or two his way. But when you actually really like a guy, and have even gone on a couple “dates,” the whole FB situation gets ten times more complicated.