February 15, 2012
- 3:00 pm
By The Dude
Hi Dude,
I could use a little guy advice!
So I’m friends with a great group of guys, and we hang out all the time. I’ve never thought of most of them as anything more than friends, but there is one that I’ve started to have a crush on. He’s more of a friend of the guys than a close friend of mine, but we know each other and have hung out a few times. I don’t want to get friend zoned by him accidentally though. There are a ton of girls out there who are sexy or gorgeous and I don’t think I’m one of those. My friends call me cute or pretty. I’m a little self conscious of my noticeable chest (32DD), and sometimes I get a little shy around guys I like (such as this guy) or I feel it’s just easier to not cross that line because I don’t want to screw anything up. As I read in your blogs, I know I keep things pretty close to the chest since I have a fear of rejection. I’m really comfortable with this group of guy friends, but I just don’t want to screw up the dynamic of my friends if I make a move on this guy. I don’t even know how I’d approach this situation in the first place.
Your thoughts,
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January 19, 2010
- 1:00 pm
By Sara - NYU
(1) Question; (2) TuffyLuv@collegecandy.com; (3) Answer.
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Dear Tuffy Luv,
I’m a college sophomore – and I have yet to have my first kiss. It’s not that I’ve never had guys show interest, they just never seem to be the guy I am interested in. Not to toot my own horn, but I think I am a reasonably attractive, funny, smart person, and I have seen way less attractive, stranger people have relationships or frequently talk about the people they hooked-up with over the weekend.
I’ve never been one to take initiative on asking someone out – I have an extreme fear of rejection. I also tend to be self-conscious about chatting up guys at parties. I’m always worried about wasting their time, or if they really want to be talking to me so I end up being sort of awkward. I also tend to crush on guys that I think are out of my league. My lack of experience is getting to an embarrassing point, and I don’t know what to do! Help me, Tuffy Luv, you are my only hope.
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November 17, 2009
- 1:00 pm
By Sara - NYU
Question for our dear friend Tuffinski?! Email her at TuffyLuv@collegecandy.com and just maybs, just maybs, get a response.
Dear Tuffy Love,
I have a major crush on my RA. I know it’s wrong and the chances of something happening are almost zero, but I can’t seem to get rid of these feelings. He is super hot and funny and sweet and sooo cool. The problem is (other than the fact that he’s my RA) that he’s a senior and I’m only a freshman. I don’t know what to do. I’m torn between acting on my feelings and pretending they don’t exist.
I have a huge fear of rejection and I’m afraid of getting hurt and awkwardness. But it’s come to the point where I want to do something. I want to know if he feels the same way even a little. But I don’t even know how to go about approaching him about it. What if he doesn’t feel the same way? He does seem to give me preferential treatment over the other residents, but that could mean nothing. Help!
-Conflicted Read More »
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