• Friday Faves: Inside His Head….Traveling South

    Friday Faves: Inside His Head….Traveling South

    Fact: There is nothing more intimate than having sex with another person. After all, you’re completely naked and vulnerable, and everything is out in plain sight. So unless you’re that old, beer-bellied guy that is always alone and naked at the nude beach, that level of intimacy is going to make you a little nervous.

  • Friday Faves: He Said/She Said – Let’s Talk About (Oral) Sex, Baby

    Friday Faves: He Said/She Said – Let’s Talk About (Oral) Sex, Baby

    I have spent 8 years (not continuously) with my mouth between a dude’s legs, and while I finally know that I’m good at it (one fine young man – whose name I do not know – exclaimed, “Wow! That was good!”), I still don’t love all the work is involved.

  • Inside His Head: Traveling South

    Inside His Head: Traveling South

    Fact: There is nothing more intimate than having sex with another person. After all, you’re completely naked and vulnerable, and everything is out in plain sight. So unless you’re that old, beer-bellied guy that is always alone and naked at the nude beach, that level of intimacy is going to make you a little nervous.

  • Foolproof Outs for Oral

    Foolproof Outs for Oral

    We all have those days when the last thing we want in and around our mouth is our boyfriend’s Little General. Let’s be honest, sometimes the art of fellatio can be quite a chore. But denying our man what he most wants doesn’t come without guilt. While flat out rejection seems like cruel and unusual punishment, there are some foolproof excuses that will lessen the blow of the job-not done.

  • Why I Don’t Speak Cunnilingus

    Why I Don’t Speak Cunnilingus

    I’m pretty adventurous when it comes to sex, I’m not going to lie. I love to experiment with men that I’m serious about and whom I trust, and I’m not opposed to an adventurous fling either. However, I have a confession: I might be open to hair-pulling, spanking, and playing dress-up… but I do not let men go down on me.

  • He Said/She Said: Let’s Talk About (Oral) Sex, Baby

    He Said/She Said: Let’s Talk About (Oral) Sex, Baby

    I have spent 8 years (not continuously) with my mouth between a dude’s legs, and while I finally know that I’m good at it (one fine young man – whose name I do not know – exclaimed, “Wow! That was good!”), I still don’t love all the work is involved. It kills my jaw, my neck, and I’d rather let the guy handle things on his own than risk lock jaw on a sweaty appendage.

  • Sexy Time: Sex for Your Health?

    Sexy Time: Sex for Your Health?

    We all love to sex because, frankly, it’s fun and it feels good. But what if there was another bene…

  • Sex Diaries: The Sleepy, Sore, and Sunburned Girlfriend

    Sex Diaries: The Sleepy, Sore, and Sunburned Girlfriend

    [Editor's Note: New York Magazine does these Sex Diaries that are sometimes cool, sometimes la…

  • Candy Dish: A Guy’s Guide for Girls on Giving Oral

    Candy Dish: A Guy’s Guide for Girls on Giving Oral

    • Yuck Face is a no no. Here are 6 proven oral sex tips straight from the horses…
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  • So You Want a Better BJ? Well What About My Va-Jay-Jay???

    So You Want a Better BJ? Well What About My Va-Jay-Jay???

    Men and their blow jobs! It’s unbelievable. Now, please don’t get me confused with one that does…