• Ask A Dude: I Refuse To Be A Friend With Benefits

    Hey Dude, I've done the Friends With Benefits thing, and, to say the least, I'm not cut out for it. Now I have this amazing guy in my life who I consider my best friend, but I'm confused over how I'm supposed to know if he likes me as in a relationship sense or if he just wants to sleep with me.

  • Tuffy Luv Sez: Get Over Yourself

    Dear Tuffy Luv, So, I have a cozy, late-night nookie friend. We're not overly compatible in the sobering light of day, and we're both unusually insecure, so the unspoken rule seems to be every couple of weeks or more.

  • Tuffy Luv Thinks This Girl Already Knows The Answer

    Dear Tuffy Luv, I've known this guy C for a little over a year now. One thing made me nervous is that he only comes to see me on weekends after he is slightly drunk. I don't know if I should ask him where he thinks we are going or not. I don't want to sound desperate, but I really don't think this is a healthy relationship. Do you think he just wants to be FWB? What should I do?

  • I’m Torn: Friends With Benefits

    Like most women, I get a little horny sometimes. (And like all women, I wish there were a less disgusting term to use to describe that phenomenon.) The fact is, I have needs and it gets a little old to be using a battery operated machine to fulfill them all the time.

  • Ask A Dude: Am I Only A Friend With Benefits?

    Hey Dude, Ok, so I have this male best friend. We have been super close for a long time and a few weeks ago we hooked up. I never really thought of him that way but after that night I’ve started to think about how he’d be a really good boyfriend. Anyways, since then we’ve been hooking up pretty consistently every weekend. But he only calls me to come over when he’s drunk.

  • Coupled. This is Fo Realz

    Personally, my relationship isn't very clear cut. We still don't really know when our anniversary is. It all started out with the girl living across the hall from me freshman year asked if she could set me up with one of her friends from high school. He came over and we watched a movie with a bunch of our friends. And the night ended with me and him making out on our mutual friend's bed.

  • Ask A Dude: Just Friends?

    Dear Dude, The other day, I randomly met a guy at a bus stop who just got back from Europe. We clicked immediately, and hung out for about 2 hours. He has my number and email, but is it a bad idea just to ask him to hang out? I have no interest in a romantic aspect, and my female friends say I'm nuts.

  • Tuffy Luv Benefits A Friend

    Dear Tuffy Luv, So for the past two months I've been hooking up with a friend of mine. We hang out most nights a week, though sometimes we hang out with other friends too so we don't hook up then. And sometimes we hang out and do other stuff instead of hooking up. That has been happening more and more lately, and in situations where we could be hooking up, and it's kind of been frustrating me.

  • Tuffy Luv Sez Summer Fling? Gimme Summer Dat!

    Dear Tuffy Luv, So I'm home from college for the summer and kind of lonely. I dated around this year at school but nothing serious like my high school boyfriend (let's call him K). Anyway, K is home from school today and we've been hanging out but I know he wants to hook up and I think I do too.

  • Pillow Talk with Diana: Are We More Than Friends?

    Q: So I’ve known this guy for years and years and we’ve been friends for forever and we have “talke…

  • Yes, You CAN Be Friends After Sex!

    Sex in college can be a tricky little endeavor. Sometimes it’s awkward, other times it’s out-of…

  • He’s My Best Friend. And We Hook Up.

    Some relationships are hard to define. Some relationships are hard to fit into a category. Most…

  • Why “I Don’t Think Of You In That Way” Is So Damn Complicated

    I have had, on multiple occasions, the uncomfortable conversation that always ends with the wo…

  • Friends. No Benefits

    Last night, as I sat in a bowling alley surrounded by twelve guys, I realized that I don’t have man…

  • My Mom Knows What a Friend with Benefits Is

    Usually when I need some info on friends with benefits, I turn to my friends who have been there, o…

  • The Thrill of the Chased (You’re Too Hot to Work For It)

    College is undoubtedly the era of ambiguous relationships, blurred boundaries, commitment p…

  • Candy Dish: Porn Star Trade Secrets for Good Girls

    • Yeah, yeah… you don’t watch porn. Here are 10 reasons why you absolutely should.…

  • Friends with Benefits… Is it Really Possible?

    It really is the ideal situation for a college-aged guy. Being able to hook up with a friend on a co…