• Can I Keep Him In the Friend Zone? [Ask Tuffy Luv]

    Can I Keep Him In the Friend Zone? [Ask Tuffy Luv]

    He and I have been really close friends for two years now, we get on really well and I like him a lot but I don’t want to go further if our friendship will be ruined and we break up then never talk again.

  • Help! I Sexted My Best Guy Friend [Ask Tuffy Luv]

    Help! I Sexted My Best Guy Friend [Ask Tuffy Luv]

    There’s always been a mutual sense of harmless flirting to our friendship, however, as we are both single. About a week ago, we were texting each other and the typical flirting began. But then the tone changed and we were suddenly sexting!

  • How Do I Do Damage Control With This Guy? [Ask A Dude]

    How Do I Do Damage Control With This Guy? [Ask A Dude]

    One thing about me is that when I like a guy, I just want to be around him and I yearn to talk to him, even if it’s just about stupid trivial things. Unfortunately, this always lands me in the friend zone. I am scared I’ve blown my chances with him in terms of being in a romantic relationship.

  • Let People Surprise You [Chronicles Of The City]

    Let People Surprise You [Chronicles Of The City]

    I love surprises. Well, the good kind at least. I think they are just so fun and happy, and everyone deserves to be surprised in life.

  • FWB or WTF!? [Ask Tuffy Luv]

    FWB or WTF!? [Ask Tuffy Luv]

    Sometimes it seems like we may be “talking” and others it seems like he just wants a friendship, and I’m honestly fine with either. I want to know where we’re at so that I don’t get unrealistic expectations, but I don’t want to bring it up and potentially screw up a good friendship.

  • On Being Homesick And Friendship [Chronicles Of The City]

    On Being Homesick And Friendship [Chronicles Of The City]

    So yeah, I’m homesick. I talk to my family on the reg whether it’s on the phone, by text, or on gchat, but I just miss the comforts of home.

  • Tuffy Luv Sez: Your Best Friend Ain’t A Best Friend

    Tuffy Luv Sez: Your Best Friend Ain’t A Best Friend

    So I know you are an expert on love, but this is a friendship-kind-of-love dilemma. So a little background. Last year I had a very crazy, very mean roommate who harassed me and abused me until I told her I was moving out, at which point she publicly threatened to kill me.

  • Love Lessons from ‘The Hunger Games’ Series

    Love Lessons from ‘The Hunger Games’ Series

    Books about teenagers fighting to the death in a massive arena might not be the most obvious place to look for lessons on love, but look a little harder and you’ll see loads of different types of love all through the series – from the most obvious, the love triangle between Katniss, adorable Peeta and intense Gale, to Katniss’ unconditional love for her sister Prim.

  • Tuffy Luv Settles the Score

    Tuffy Luv Settles the Score

    I want you to settle something for me and my friend. She’s upset with me because she says I’m hard to make plans with. She wants to make plans a week in advance just to go have dinner.

  • How To Keep the Guy Friend Who Fell in Love With You

    How To Keep the Guy Friend Who Fell in Love With You

    Hey, we’ve all been there. And by “we,” I mean guys. I almost guaran-damn-tee that at least 75% of guys, most likely during their early teen years, have fallen hard for a girl who had both feet firmly under her. It happens.

  • Friendship Quotes to Give You the Warm and Fuzzies [Photos]

    Friendship Quotes to Give You the Warm and Fuzzies [Photos]

    Aww, friends. They’re great. So great, in fact, that there are tons of super cheesy quotes floating around about them on the internet. I have to admit though, I was laughing when I first started making this gallery, but by the end I was tearing up just a little. I guess friends really are as great as the internet says.

  • Tuffy Luv Says Make New Friends

    Tuffy Luv Says Make New Friends

    Probably you started college and made friends right away with the most convenient people. Which is totally the right and easiest thing to do. The problem is, sometimes the most convenient people don’t end up being the people we like best. So, Miserable in College, if that’s the case, I suggest you continue to be polite to these shoops and begin to distance yourself.

  • The Custody Battle: Who Gets To Be Your Friend After the Break-Up

    The Custody Battle: Who Gets To Be Your Friend After the Break-Up

    I’m not talking about Captain America vs. Iron Man. I’m talking about friends who’ve been in a relationship and now have reached their final destination: splitsville. Once the two of them go their separate ways, which one of them gets you in the proverbial divorce?

  • How To Be Friends With Your Ex

    How To Be Friends With Your Ex

    Is being friends with your ex even possible? I mean, you’ve seen each other naked many, many times. You’ve opened up to each other about some weird stuff. And you once didn’t know how you could live without him. I’m still pretty much trying to figure out the real answer to that question, but I’d like to think that, yeah, sometimes you can be friends with your ex.

  • Ask A Dude: Can I Only Be His Friend?

    Ask A Dude: Can I Only Be His Friend?

    I’m a senior in college, and met this guy my age who goes to my school over the summer. We hit it off right away, with tons to talk and laugh about. The second or third time we hung out, right near the beginning, he told me he “liked me but wasn’t looking for a relationship.”

  • Ask A Dude: Can We Keep The Friendship?

    Ask A Dude: Can We Keep The Friendship?

    A few months ago, I finally built up every shred of courage in my being and told one of my closest friends of several years that, well, I didn’t just want to be his friend. To be fair, I was pretty certain that his response wouldn’t be what I wanted it to be. The problem was that I had reached a point where I needed him to know so that I could move on with my life. The hardest part was the thought that it would negatively impact our friendship.