• FWB or WTF!? [Ask Tuffy Luv]

    FWB or WTF!? [Ask Tuffy Luv]

    Sometimes it seems like we may be “talking” and others it seems like he just wants a friendship, and I’m honestly fine with either. I want to know where we’re at so that I don’t get unrealistic expectations, but I don’t want to bring it up and potentially screw up a good friendship.

  • Tuffy Luv Says Hos Over Bros

    Tuffy Luv Says Hos Over Bros

    I’m in a very uncomfortable situation at the moment. My best friend has liked our mutual good guy friend for some months now, and I actually met him through her. The problem is he likes me, and she’s the one who told me this information.

  • Tuffy Luv Sez: This LDR is DOA

    Tuffy Luv Sez: This LDR is DOA

    Dear Tuffy Love, I’m writing to you because I just can’t wrap my head around this. I’ve never been in a situation quite like this before. To start out, I go to a conference center/camp in Maine every summer, which is about eleven hours from where I live in Philly. Five years ago, I met a guy named Toby there who was kind of dweeby, but a nice guy and a good buddy. Then three years ago, he started working at the camp, and I met him again

  • Single. Though Someday, Maybe Not

    Single. Though Someday, Maybe Not

    After a hard week for this single girl last week, with the flashbacks to my own rough break up, it’s good to have a vague hope that while things might not be swinging my way right now, someday they will. And maybe when that day comes, it will be with someone I already know and love.

  • Single. And Looking for a Date

    Single. And Looking for a Date

    he beautiful Chicago weather has made it clear that spring has officially arrived. Along with the sunny skies and warm breezes, spring brings Easter, bike rides along the lake, and, oh yeah, my sorority’s spring formal, all to the front of my mind. So while I sat sweating in my last class before the long weekend, I contemplated who I should bring as a date to the biggest date party of the year.

  • Coupled. With Guy Friends

    Coupled. With Guy Friends

    Growing up I was always a tomboy. I never wore anything remotely girly, played sports, and even had short hair (though that one was totally my mom’s doing). So it came as no surprise that the majority of my closest friends were of the male variety.

  • Tuffy Luv Is Just A Big Softie

    Tuffy Luv Is Just A Big Softie

    Dear Tuffy, So this summer, I worked with a guy. I drooled over his good looks but didn’t really get to know him all that well until the very last week, where we met up for coffee. We talked nonstop for 3 hours and I found myself having a better time than expected! I go to a school in another city, so we’ve been texting occasionally for about…4 months now.

  • Oh The People You’ll Meet: The Sensitive All-American

    Oh The People You’ll Meet: The Sensitive All-American

    College brings a whole lot of new experiences, new lessons and new people. But it seems that no ma…

  • You Hooked Up With HIM?!? Awkward

    You Hooked Up With HIM?!? Awkward

    We all know that hooking up isn’t all rose petals and follow-up phone calls. In fact, more…

  • Friends. No Benefits

    Friends. No Benefits

    Last night, as I sat in a bowling alley surrounded by twelve guys, I realized that I don’t have man…

  • Warning: DO NOT SLEEP WITH THE BFF

    Warning: DO NOT SLEEP WITH THE BFF

    Everyone knows the ONE GOLDEN RULE when it comes to best friends that are guys: DO NOT, UNDER ANY C…

  • Farting in a Relationship; When is it OK?

    Farting in a Relationship; When is it OK?

    The other night, as I slept soundly in my bed dreaming about my new MJ aviators, my phone started t…

  • Boozers Beware: Avoiding a DOH! Moment

    Boozers Beware: Avoiding a DOH! Moment

    We’ve all woken up after a night of drunken debauchery and done a little ‘I did what…