Should I Take His Virginity? [Ask A Dude]
I started dating this guy and things are going super well. The other night he came back to my place and we started making out on my bed. Once things reached a certain point…you know what I’m saying…he casually let me know he was a virgin. Needless to say, I was a little shocked and pushed pause on our romantic moment.
Why Does Sex Always Hurt Me? [Ask Tuffy Luv]
I don’t know what is wrong with me, but I think my vagina is too tight/small. Although I have been having sex for almost a year, it is still often painful afterwards (if not during), and it snaps back to it’s original state.

What A Dude Really Cares About When Having Sex
I want to have sex with someone who makes me feel like she wants to have sex with me, too. Eye contact. Enthusiasm. Other E words associated with eroticism.
Why Being a 20-Year-Old Virgin Isn’t A Bad Thing
Are you worried you’re way behind in the relationship department because it seems like everyone’s had more experience and you’re still a virgin?
Do You Know These 7 Sex Positions Men Love?
If you’re in a relationship or even just doing the whole “random hookup” thing, sex can always be made better. Whether you pull out one of these seven sex positions men love, or get it on in a new place, it’s always good to spice things up a little.
Sex in the News: Relationship + Time = Decreasing Sex Drive
It’s a common comment made in romantic comedies. The longer you are in a relationship, the less you have sex. Turns out, according to a new study by researches at the University of Guelph in Ontario, women’s decreasing sex drive is to blame. Yes, over time women lose interest in having sex. Men, on the other hand, don’t.
Ask a Dude: Can a Virgin Ever Find Love?
Dear Dude, I’m still a virgin. I’ve had my fair share of “almosts” and do enjoy the occasional heavy petting but I have yet to go “all the way.” I’m not waiting for marriage but I am waiting for a serious relationship with someone I can trust. I used to be confident in my decision and felt no pressure to lose my virginity…

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Sexy Time: I Am VERY Thankful for Sex
In the spirit of the holiday, I’ve put together a list of 10 reasons I’m thankful for sex. I’m sure we can all agree there are many more than 10 reasons to be thankful for sexy time, but there is football to be watched, online sales to be shopped and pumpkin pie to be eaten. There just isn’t enough time in this day to say all my Thank You’s.
Sexy Time: Why the Taboo?
You see, while my entire family is aware that I’m an up-and-coming journalist, I always find it interesting that no one brings up exactly what I write about or what kind of publications I’m aiming to write for after graduation. Even my successes – the fact that I just got to interview my sex-columnist hero, Dan Savage, and I’m running my very own sex advice column in my school paper – were tiptoed around like a landmine.
Sexy Time: What’s Love Got To Do With It?
It might be surprising to you guys, but I kind of have a penchant for sex, so I’ve opted to take a course that is write up my alley – philosophy of love and sex. Every week, we’re given a question that we half an hour to answer on paper. Our first “question of the week” was something that really got me thinking – is it more desirable to have sex with love, or sex without love?
Sexy Time: Sexy Music
But then we figured out the perfect way to drown our sexy noises while keeping my room at a comfortable 20 or so degrees – music. Sure, it’s not silence, and it still traveled through the walls, but I guarantee my mother appreciated the sound of slow bass late at night a lot more than hearing anything else coming through our walls.
Sexy Time: Getting Kinky
Some people are into long walks on the beach, candlelit dinners, and getting fancy. Other people are into staying in, watching movies, and keeping it low key. Some people work in big office buildings bringing in the cash, while others bus tables and do dishes for minimum wage. But what do all of these people have in common? Some of them, from any category and walk of life, are into being tied up, spanked and dominated.

The Doc Is In: Do I Have To Pee After Sex?
Q: I just started having sex and all of my friends tell me I have to pee after. They say that if I don’t pee I can get a UTI. The problem is that I never have to go. I try every time – I run to the bathroom and sit there but nothing ever happens. Is that bad? Do you HAVE to go after? Is there something wrong with me that I can’t go?