Sometimes the best sex advice comes from friends — not authors, therapists or any kind of sexpert. At College Candy our frisky readers know just how to get down, so that’s why we reached out to you for your sexiest tips about sessions in the sack. We were all ears and we were impressed. Not just impressed with your advice, but also with the fact that it never got too explicit or too kinky or too “put my whosawhatsit in my where?!”

So, with no further ado, here’s what you had to say:

• Before you have sex with a new person (or ever, if you still possess the v-card, good for you!) think about if you do and they leave you, would you still be okay with yourself? If you think you wouldn’t be, then wait until you are. If you think you would be, be safe and enjoy the ride!
• Communication is important in every situation, but especially when it comes to sex. When you talk about likes and dislikes with your partner, and are open to trying new things, both people “cum” out happier.
• If you can’t talk about it, you shouldn’t do it.
• Nothing is sexier than CONFIDENCE!

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Some women get to have the dreamy, stereotypical first time. The love of your life surprises you with a romantic evening alone and it ends up in the bedroom. He tells you he loves you and all that jazz.

Well, you know what? Some of us would like to forget our first time, and “some of us” includes me. I’m not saying I regret it, but I sure as heck wish I’d put more thought into it and had better judgement.

I was young and stupid, and depressed. I was 16, a junior in high school, and had never been in love. My friends were hooking up and wondering why I’d never been able to have a boyfriend for longer than a week. I was never the “It” girl, I was more of the “one of the guys” girl. I’d never been told I was beautiful by any guy, I’d never been told I love you by anyone besides my parents.

So, my self-esteem really wasn’t all that great when my ex-boyfriend put the moves on me. During a play rehearsal. In a storage closet. And the cherry on top was the fact that after 2 minutes he just got dressed and left. TOTAL D-BAG!!!!! Read More »