• The Shy Girl’s Guide to Gaining Confidence [Sexy Time]

    The Shy Girl’s Guide to Gaining Confidence [Sexy Time]

    Eventually, with time and concerted effort to change my thinking, I started to become more comfortable around dudes, thus increasing the frequency of sexy time occurrences.

  • Sexy Time: Turning Me Off

    Sexy Time: Turning Me Off

    Getting to know someone else’s body is a learning process. Sometimes there’s a very steep curve, depending on level of intuitiveness, experience and communication. Some people can pick up cues far quicker and better than others and all is well, while sometimes…you’re laying on your back, staring at the ceiling and thinking of your to-do list for the next six months.

  • Tuffy Luv Says He Doesn’t Want A Relationship

    Tuffy Luv Says He Doesn’t Want A Relationship

    Dear Tuffy Luv, I apologize in advance for this being long and probably confusing. Okay. My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a couple months, and it’s really great. We’ve always had a long distance relationship; a couple weeks after we started dating, he moved 5 hours away for an internship.

  • Candy Dish: Is it Bad That I Still Want Him to Hold the Door?

    Candy Dish: Is it Bad That I Still Want Him to Hold the Door?

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    • Why am I so insecure and how can I fix it?
    • Just a little Friday night cuteness
    • A pretty horrifying mugshot

  • Forget About Everyone Else – Embrace YOU

    Forget About Everyone Else – Embrace YOU

    In today’s society, it’s hard to be perfect when outlandish images of flawlessness are everywhere. Singers, actresses and even our favorite bloggers conveniently have everything that we don’t. So do our cousins, classmates and the girls in our innermost circles. Instead of embracing our flaws and appreciating the redeeming qualities we have, we compare and contrast ourselves with anyone who’s “better.”

  • Tuffy Luv Gives You a Bag O’ Confidence

    Tuffy Luv Gives You a Bag O’ Confidence

    Dear Tuffy Luv, So I have been with my boyfriend for two years, and we were best friends for four years before that. I love him very much and I can’t imagine being with any other guy. But lately (read: the past year and a half) I have felt that he is slowly losing the feelings he’s had for me in the past. It’s just the way he acts when we go out.

  • Eight Ways to Ruin a Good Relationship

    Eight Ways to Ruin a Good Relationship

    Brace yourself, ladies: We are now entering Break up Season. According to a study released in 2007 by Yahoo!, this little span of time between the December holidays and Valentine’s Day happens to be the period when most couples head to Splitsville. (Geez – Is it really that bad to have to buy someone some roses?!)

  • Tuffy Luv Sez: Get Over Yourself

    Tuffy Luv Sez: Get Over Yourself

    Dear Tuffy Luv, So, I have a cozy, late-night nookie friend. We’re not overly compatible in the sobering light of day, and we’re both unusually insecure, so the unspoken rule seems to be every couple of weeks or more.

  • He Said/She Said: Do Guys Like Sarcasm?

    He Said/She Said: Do Guys Like Sarcasm?

    A friend sent me this post last week and asked me what I thought about it. Being a very sarcastic (a…

  • Confessions of a Big Girl in a Bikini

    Confessions of a Big Girl in a Bikini

    I did the most daring thing today. I purchased my very first bikini since I was 6. For many of you, t…

  • Hey, I’m (Not) A Crazy B*tch

    Hey, I’m (Not) A Crazy B*tch

    Three nights ago, as I’m spooning in bed with my ex-boyfriend/current fling (the lines are a lit…

  • She Took My Identity: A BFF Steals My Inviduality

    She Took My Identity: A BFF Steals My Inviduality

    Single White Female was a creepy film for a reason. If you haven’t been fortunate enough t…

  • The Grass is Always Greener

    The Grass is Always Greener

    I spent a good portion of my life being single. Maybe it was the few extra pounds (like 100) I carri…