• How to Find The Love of Your Life

    How to Find The Love of Your Life

    Okay, okay, I know the title’s sappy as all get out, and I admit we can fall in love with more than one person, but nonetheless I have found an increasingly common denominator:

  • Ask a Dude: Where’s The Intimacy?

    Ask a Dude: Where’s The Intimacy?

    Dear Dude, My boyfriend and I have been together for about 6 months now. We live about two hours apart but see each other at least once a week for a few days at a time. Apart from the occasional argument, all in all we’re really happy. But there is one thing that’s bugging me… He never wants sex!

  • The 200+ Reasons Women Have Sex…and The 3 Reasons Men Do

    The 200+ Reasons Women Have Sex…and The 3 Reasons Men Do

    To make a long story long, sex to a woman means a plethora of complex things. Sex is a loaded gun containing bullets of feelings, emotions, and meaning (even I’m getting a little poetic talking about it). Sex for the dudes on the other hand? It’s really just a three letter word.

  • Ask A Dude: Too Much Too Soon?

    Ask A Dude: Too Much Too Soon?

    Hey dude, I find myself constantly single, and I’m wondering if it’s because i’m too “forward.” I’ve been told I’m the “dateable” type and that I’m pretty, but I think sometimes I tend to rush things with guys a little bit. For example, this guy asked me on a date a week ago, and it was great! I’ve known him for a while through mutual friends, and I was really flattered he asked me.

  • Average Sex: Everybody’s Doing It

    Average Sex: Everybody’s Doing It

    We make such a big deal about sex. It consumes us. We lie about sex – we say we’re having less when we’re having more, and more when we’re having less. We worry about our relationship if the sex isn’t “above average.” We worry about our health, our sanity, our bodies and our worth if he simply rolls over.

  • Single. And Not Getting Any

    Single. And Not Getting Any

    I’ve never thought it was wrong to have sex without being in a relationship. Look, this isn’t the 1950’s anymore; you don’t need someone’s letterman jacket before you crawl into the backseat of his Mustang. And while I’d never consider sleeping with seven anonymous strangers in a night, I will admit there are some (okay, a BILLION) gray areas between anonymity and monogamy.

  • Sexy Time: Intimacy Lite

    Sexy Time: Intimacy Lite

    These days, women are suckers for anything labeled “lite,” whether it’s cookies , ice cream or even bacon-flavored spread (um, WTF?). It was only a matter of time before we started taking our intimacy lite too. Intimacy lite is a new way of dating, bridging the gap between casual sex and full blown relationships.

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      VH1′s Tough Love

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      When Time Are Tough, Have an Orgasm!

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      Press * for Kinky: Confessions from a Phone Sexpert

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      Oh Baby Oh Baby Bot Bot Bot: Do It To Me, Robot

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      Women Find Kissing Important, Guys Not So Much

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      The Real Reason He Plays The Numbers Game

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