Will He Cheat On Me Again? [Ask A Dude]
My question is this: Can you ever trust a guy again after he’s cheated? Was it just a one time drunken mistake?
Tuffy Luv Says He Doesn’t Want A Relationship
Dear Tuffy Luv, I apologize in advance for this being long and probably confusing. Okay. My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a couple months, and it’s really great. We’ve always had a long distance relationship; a couple weeks after we started dating, he moved 5 hours away for an internship.

Tuffy Luv Sez: Casual LDR?! WTF?!
Dear Tuffy Luv,

I recently graduated from college and moved back home because I got a job offer. Around the time college was ending, I was casually seeing this new guy. We currently live about three hours away from each other and are in very different situations; I have moved back in with my parents and have a serious job, whereas he still lives with roommates and works hard but parties a lot harder…
Ask a Dude: What Comes After The Honeymoon Phase?
Dear Dude, I’ve been with my boyfriend for about 6 months, and with school and work starting, it feels like the “honeymoon” period is finally over. The thing is, I don’t understand why the honeymoon period has to be over and what’s so great about the next phase.
Ask A Dude: Why Isn’t He Keeping in Touch?
Dearest Dude, So, basically my boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half. We met in college, and after spending the first year and a half together at the same school he (due to unfortunate circumstances) has had to relocate and go somewhere else.
Tuffy Luv Sez: This LDR is DOA
Dear Tuffy Love, I’m writing to you because I just can’t wrap my head around this. I’ve never been in a situation quite like this before. To start out, I go to a conference center/camp in Maine every summer, which is about eleven hours from where I live in Philly. Five years ago, I met a guy named Toby there who was kind of dweeby, but a nice guy and a good buddy. Then three years ago, he started working at the camp, and I met him again
Tuffy Luv Sez: Shlong Shlistance
Dear Tuffy Luv, I’ll start off this email saying you must get hundreds of these, but even if this isn’t featured in the site, I really would just love advice. I’ve heard people say that asking for advice is just asking for someone to tell you a truth you don’t want to admit to yourself, but I honestly have no idea what to do.

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Dear Tuffy Luv, My boyfriend has recently gone on a study abroad trip for the rest of the summer. He’s only been gone a week, and already I’ve noticed how drastically our relationship has changed. For the first half of the summer, he always called many times a day and we visited each other every few weeks because we live in different states. But now that he’s overseas, between the time difference and his busy schedule, there is no time for me!
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I’ve always admired those in the military, but when I found out that my boyfriend was going to be one of them, I have to admit that I wasn’t exactly thrilled. Sure, being in the Air Force seemed really intriguing, but for someone else. Someone I wouldn’t have to miss at dinner or on the couch.
Tuffy Luv Tackles Long Distance Love
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Friends That Go the Distance… Literally
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College Q&A: Should I End My LDR?
I started going out with a guy right before I left for college. I really like him, but he goes to school in a different state and I feel like I’m missing out on a lot with my friends when I’m on the phone with him every night. He totally trusts me so it’s not like he’s annoying or anything, but this whole LDR thing is really taking up a lot of time. What do you guys think of long distance in college? Good idea or bad?

Ask A Dude: The Ultimate Ultimatum
Dear Dude,
I’ve been with my boyfriend for almost 11 months now. We started off really well, getting to know each other and enjoying time with the other for the first month or so. For the following two months after that, not so much due to my getting extremely ill and his graduating college and traveling for a month.