• Can I Keep Him In the Friend Zone? [Ask Tuffy Luv]

    Can I Keep Him In the Friend Zone? [Ask Tuffy Luv]

    He and I have been really close friends for two years now, we get on really well and I like him a lot but I don’t want to go further if our friendship will be ruined and we break up then never talk again.

  • Two Guys, One Girl, Zero Matches [Ask Tuffy Luv]

    Two Guys, One Girl, Zero Matches [Ask Tuffy Luv]

    I’m about to graduate from college and I need your help, because I’m terrible at relationships and the time is now or never. I have two guy friends and I like them both in different ways. Like, like like.

  • Tuffy Love Mixes Work and Romance

    Tuffy Love Mixes Work and Romance

    I don’t want to lose an opportunity with a guy that I’m really into, but I don’t want to mess things up either! What should I do?

  • Why Does Sex Always Hurt Me? [Ask Tuffy Luv]

    Why Does Sex Always Hurt Me? [Ask Tuffy Luv]

    I don’t know what is wrong with me, but I think my vagina is too tight/small. Although I have been having sex for almost a year, it is still often painful afterwards (if not during), and it snaps back to it’s original state.

  • “Love Is Drugging Your Brain and Making You Cray!” Says Science

    “Love Is Drugging Your Brain and Making You Cray!” Says Science

    Carrie Bradshaw once said, “Maybe all men are a drug. Sometimes they bring you down and sometimes, like now, they get you so high.” Turns out, that’s actually a thing, not just clever HBO script writing.

  • Ask Him Out Already!! [Ask Tuffy Luv]

    Ask Him Out Already!! [Ask Tuffy Luv]

    At first my girlfriends were pretty convinced that he liked me, but after our movie date (if it even was a date), they aren’t sure. When we parted ways, we both said we had a great time and that we hoped to see each other soon, but I didn’t get a text afterwards. Is it worth pining after this boy, or should I take my “three day rule” girlfriend’s advice and just get over it?

  • Have I Never Had an Orgasm? [Ask Tuffy Luv]

    Have I Never Had an Orgasm? [Ask Tuffy Luv]

    I don’t know what I’m doing wrong, but I don’t think I’ve had an orgasm in my life. I’ve had sex with 3 guys to date but I still haven’t got that feeling… Is there something fundamentally wrong with me? Or do I simply don’t have an idea of what an orgasm feels like??! Help me, I wanna be wowed!!!

  • Tuffy Luv Sez: Platonic?! More like NO.

    Tuffy Luv Sez: Platonic?! More like NO.

    I hung out with one guy for about 8 hours; we just talked and really connected, and he told me how great a person I was and how I was so different from other girls, blah blah blah. We didn’t do anything but talk and the conversation was great; I thought for sure I’d found a great friend.

  • FWB or WTF!? [Ask Tuffy Luv]

    FWB or WTF!? [Ask Tuffy Luv]

    Sometimes it seems like we may be “talking” and others it seems like he just wants a friendship, and I’m honestly fine with either. I want to know where we’re at so that I don’t get unrealistic expectations, but I don’t want to bring it up and potentially screw up a good friendship.

  • Why Won’t My Boyfriend Kiss Me? [Dear Tuffy Luv]

    Why Won’t My Boyfriend Kiss Me? [Dear Tuffy Luv]

    He asked me out two months ago, and I’ve had a crush on him for a while. I was happy as could be…for about a month and a half. Then I lost interest. Lost the spark. You know why?

  • Can’t Get A Date? You’re Probs Ugly!

    Can’t Get A Date? You’re Probs Ugly!

    Former Playboy bunny Serria Says is now a dating coach. Unfortunately, she seems to be coaching women to become beauty obsessed, vain Barbies, who should be rating their appearance on a scale of 1 to 10.

  • It’s Okay To Be Sad [Confessions of a Twenty-Something]

    It’s Okay To Be Sad [Confessions of a Twenty-Something]

    Life is messy and love is a motherf**ker and sometimes there is just no room for looking on the bright side. Yes, being a positive thinker can go a long way, but without some sadness and pain every now and then, how would we ever be able to appreciate the beautiful and happy moments?

  • Tuffy Luv Sez: Your Best Friend Ain’t A Best Friend

    Tuffy Luv Sez: Your Best Friend Ain’t A Best Friend

    So I know you are an expert on love, but this is a friendship-kind-of-love dilemma. So a little background. Last year I had a very crazy, very mean roommate who harassed me and abused me until I told her I was moving out, at which point she publicly threatened to kill me.