Can I Keep Him In the Friend Zone? [Ask Tuffy Luv]
He and I have been really close friends for two years now, we get on really well and I like him a lot but I don’t want to go further if our friendship will be ruined and we break up then never talk again.
Two Guys, One Girl, Zero Matches [Ask Tuffy Luv]
I’m about to graduate from college and I need your help, because I’m terrible at relationships and the time is now or never. I have two guy friends and I like them both in different ways. Like, like like.

Tuffy Love Mixes Work and Romance
I don’t want to lose an opportunity with a guy that I’m really into, but I don’t want to mess things up either! What should I do?
Why Does Sex Always Hurt Me? [Ask Tuffy Luv]
I don’t know what is wrong with me, but I think my vagina is too tight/small. Although I have been having sex for almost a year, it is still often painful afterwards (if not during), and it snaps back to it’s original state.
“Love Is Drugging Your Brain and Making You Cray!” Says Science
Carrie Bradshaw once said, “Maybe all men are a drug. Sometimes they bring you down and sometimes, like now, they get you so high.” Turns out, that’s actually a thing, not just clever HBO script writing.
Ask Him Out Already!! [Ask Tuffy Luv]
At first my girlfriends were pretty convinced that he liked me, but after our movie date (if it even was a date), they aren’t sure. When we parted ways, we both said we had a great time and that we hoped to see each other soon, but I didn’t get a text afterwards. Is it worth pining after this boy, or should I take my “three day rule” girlfriend’s advice and just get over it?
Have I Never Had an Orgasm? [Ask Tuffy Luv]
I don’t know what I’m doing wrong, but I don’t think I’ve had an orgasm in my life. I’ve had sex with 3 guys to date but I still haven’t got that feeling… Is there something fundamentally wrong with me? Or do I simply don’t have an idea of what an orgasm feels like??! Help me, I wanna be wowed!!!

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Tuffy Luv Sez: Platonic?! More like NO.
I hung out with one guy for about 8 hours; we just talked and really connected, and he told me how great a person I was and how I was so different from other girls, blah blah blah. We didn’t do anything but talk and the conversation was great; I thought for sure I’d found a great friend.
FWB or WTF!? [Ask Tuffy Luv]
Sometimes it seems like we may be “talking” and others it seems like he just wants a friendship, and I’m honestly fine with either. I want to know where we’re at so that I don’t get unrealistic expectations, but I don’t want to bring it up and potentially screw up a good friendship.
Why Won’t My Boyfriend Kiss Me? [Dear Tuffy Luv]
He asked me out two months ago, and I’ve had a crush on him for a while. I was happy as could be…for about a month and a half. Then I lost interest. Lost the spark. You know why?
Can’t Get A Date? You’re Probs Ugly!
Former Playboy bunny Serria Says is now a dating coach. Unfortunately, she seems to be coaching women to become beauty obsessed, vain Barbies, who should be rating their appearance on a scale of 1 to 10.
It’s Okay To Be Sad [Confessions of a Twenty-Something]
Life is messy and love is a motherf**ker and sometimes there is just no room for looking on the bright side. Yes, being a positive thinker can go a long way, but without some sadness and pain every now and then, how would we ever be able to appreciate the beautiful and happy moments?

Tuffy Luv Sez: Your Best Friend Ain’t A Best Friend
So I know you are an expert on love, but this is a friendship-kind-of-love dilemma. So a little background. Last year I had a very crazy, very mean roommate who harassed me and abused me until I told her I was moving out, at which point she publicly threatened to kill me.